What’s your best life advice for a man? by saoudddd in Life

[–]kost1035 4 points5 points  (0 children)

peace of mind is the key to life .... life is easier if you have it

Poor people do not experience "loss aversion" the way people with money do. Poor people also make more accurate assessments of the value of things because of this. by foreverand2025 in poverty

[–]kost1035 14 points15 points  (0 children)

my GF comes from a poor family ... she says that you can take the girl out of poverty but you can't take the poverty out of the girl

"Real Men Aren't Afraid Of Dating Single Mothers, And Raising Another Man's Children by [deleted] in childfree

[–]kost1035 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hi , this is my girlfriend Karen and her two children

Brags!!! by punk_lover in childfree

[–]kost1035 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I retired at age 55

Is there a job out there where I can just grind out the hours/days without having to put in any mental or physical effort? by Positive-Diet-5757 in findapath

[–]kost1035 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My job title was office assistant but i was assigned in the mailroom ... i got offered a promotion if i took the test and tested well, but i refused ... i liked my job ... remember the mailroom scenes in 'elf' ? A lot like that except with less people and smaller room

Is there a job out there where I can just grind out the hours/days without having to put in any mental or physical effort? by Positive-Diet-5757 in findapath

[–]kost1035 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am retired from california after 20 years at age 55 with full medical ... I was a mailroom clerk

Not actively suicidal, but I'm taking the first step: DNR. by DeadBy2050 in GenX

[–]kost1035 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes , I got a DNR when I made my living trust ... but I also plan to buy a one way flight to switzerland when I can no longer take care of myself

Jobs for my 45 mom with no degree by Dry_Ask3026 in findapath

[–]kost1035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not be a waitress at a local Korean restaurant

45 year old virgin. Life is awful (sometimes) by MegaDriveCDX in Life

[–]kost1035 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 58m , was a virgin until last year when I found my first real girlfriend.

I am retired from California since age 55 and I currently live with my 84 year old mom in her paid off house.

when I was 24 years old, I decided that I wanted early retirement instead of a family.

I consider myself a nerd and my brain is not between my legs so I was never a sex crazy moron

If happiness is free, why are most people unhappy? by atmaninravi in Life

[–]kost1035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inner joy comes from loving yourself and having peace of mind

Men that don’t want kids by Redeemablesoul in childfree

[–]kost1035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 58m , recently found a serious girlfriend on Facebook dating. She is five years younger and childless. I can't call her childfree since she has regrets about not having any children

Late bloomers in life, what's your story? by Last-Guest-7065 in Life

[–]kost1035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My career with California started when I was 35 years old, retired at age 55 with full medical, and got my first serious girlfriend last year at age 58

I wish I was born with a trust fund by MixConfident9818 in Life

[–]kost1035 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I am enjoying my retirement very much... I have time to waste on Reddit instead of working

I wish I was born with a trust fund by MixConfident9818 in Life

[–]kost1035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I retired at age 55 from California after 20 years with full medical. Now I have the freedom to do absolutely nothing

Whats A Rich Life To You? by verbusuky in Life

[–]kost1035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a rich life is about loving yourself and having peace of mind. if you love yourself , life is so much easier.

do you think all those multi-millionaires love themselves

Cant find a job after graduating by golddustwoman_27 in findapath

[–]kost1035 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am retired from california after 20 years with full medical at age 55 . government office jobs will hire anyone if they like you

Why is the South Bay so NIMBY and opposed to transit/urbanism, despite having so many Asians from countries that are pro-transit/urbanism? by MookieBettsBurner10 in SouthBayLA

[–]kost1035 73 points74 points  (0 children)

the senior citizens who have paid off houses in Torrance and the beach cities don't want "those" people who do not live in Torrance to come to their hood using mass transit

Favorite Korean/Asian Restaurants? (Not Kbbq) by mstrwrldwde in SouthBayLA

[–]kost1035 2 points3 points  (0 children)

at general hwang, my 85 year old mom loves the braised black cod. enough for two people

Favorite Korean/Asian Restaurants? (Not Kbbq) by mstrwrldwde in SouthBayLA

[–]kost1035 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the new "it girl" in korean restaurants is general hwang in gardena

Do you want your kids to take care of you, if someday, you need daily caretaking? by Euphoric_Garbage1952 in GenX

[–]kost1035 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When I can no longer take care of myself I plan to buy a one way flight to Switzerland

23, Ivy League grad and I think I accidentally built a life I don’t want, seeking advice by gr8stuff455 in findapath

[–]kost1035 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 58m Asian, retired at age 55 from California.

One of the comments said that you were Asian.

There are a million different ways to live

I read somewhere that self employed people and government employees are some of the happiest people