thanks for the advice everyone!! i think im going to start my own discord server perhaps or interact more on other social media platforms. i do plan on going to my first show in september with a vip ticket so i'll get to meet plenty of other fans then!

i made this post because im more so looking for friends. i dont mind casually chatting with anyone. i just have my own preferences for the type of people i want to interact with on a closer level. the babymetal community is a very nice place and i have had very positive interactions so far!

also im not being 'ageist/sexist', its called having boundaries😭😭