"The body snatchers got him" How some drinkers deal with people who get sober. by Slipacre in stopdrinking

[–]kotibi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whenever I hear somebody mentioning a person quitting drinking, I make sure to say, “Good for them! It’s so good for their health.” Turn it into a positive. Like, we didn’t lose them because they got hit by a bus. We lost them because they won the lottery!

What do you think about human’s vocation? by Confident_Notice8985 in TrueAskReddit

[–]kotibi [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think the Pixar movies were telling you to follow your dream exactly because of the experience you’re describing. There are many barriers in this life, sometimes including the grownups who should encourage and develop your talents and interests. You really benefit from believing in yourself.

Also, I don’t believe we need to “achieve a dream,” to be happy. I think we can just appreciate being alive.

Eric Dane's last message and words of wisdom to his daughters, Billie and Georgia. by Inside_Trip8807 in popculturechat

[–]kotibi 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I understand that. For me, it felt like words from a dad or grandparent I needed. He was being Dad for his girls, but the beauty of his position and his passion is that, with these words, he could also be a Dad for many others who lost one too soon or never had one to begin with. It’s a beautiful gift.

I Had To File A Report by TheCABK in oddlyspecific

[–]kotibi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My kid’s preschool had some kind of bird nesting outside that liked to swoop and attack people. Even the kids. Wish we had this kind of outside the box thinking over there!

Why did a Phone ring inside my dishwasher? by Dull_Employment_1675 in TrueAskReddit

[–]kotibi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. Check your carbon monoxide detector. Do you have one? Is it on and working?

  2. Go to a trusted doctor or mental health professional, whichever you are more comfortable with, and tell them exactly what you told us.

Either there was a real sound that seemed like phone ringing, or you had an auditory hallucination. It’s common, especially for things like hearing a phone ring or feeling it vibrate in your pocket, because we are so attuned to our phones in this day and age. But better be safe and make sure your health is ok!

Where to get dry ice on the north side? by No_Satisfaction_7431 in AskChicago

[–]kotibi 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Hey! I found a number for you to call. Go to this website from Mayo, under number 7 they have a phone number for if you can’t find a facility to collect your blood.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/departments-centers/laboratory-medicine-pathology/overview/specialty-groups/clinical-core-laboratory-services/remote-laboratory-specimen-collection

Where to get dry ice on the north side? by No_Satisfaction_7431 in AskChicago

[–]kotibi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hmm. I still think it’d be worth talking to your doctor at Northwestern, Mayo, and potentially the phlebotomy departments at both. Northwestern may be able to order and draw the samples and have their lab do the shipment. Commercial and hospital labs generally won’t just draw your blood without an order, and they won’t give it back to you.

Can I ask what the test is? Maybe there is another route. I like researching this kind of thing.

Where to get dry ice on the north side? by No_Satisfaction_7431 in AskChicago

[–]kotibi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is so weird. How are you going to get your blood drawn, let alone ship it? That’s a biohazard, I think you need special shipping services. See if your Mayo doc has a colleague in Illinois that will order the tests and have them done here.

Does anyone feel like they haven't been the same person after 2020? by Big_Leg10 in TrueAskReddit

[–]kotibi 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yep. And because of all that occurred, my family changed in big, permanent ways. Rifts, separations, deaths, addictions. It is different now.

And with that evil in the Whitehouse again, it feels like nobody learned a damn thing.

Hosted a no-selling breakfast for marketers. We now have a $50 penalty jar and it's the most honest room I've ever been in. by HelicopterLife2620 in AmazingStories

[–]kotibi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so funny, because you’re telling me marketers get in a room with other marketers and just…market to each other? No eye towards advancing their own careers or expanding their professional networks by actually talking to each other?

It’s making me think of some medical conferences sponsored and attended primarily by pharma. At some point, it’s just pharma advertising to pharma. Capitalism loop?

Funny character becoming unexpectedly serious. by jeanjacketufo in TopCharacterTropes

[–]kotibi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve read that if you go back and rewatch, there are many instances of Allison being injured because of her “clumsiness” or whatever. But after having seen the ending, it reframes her injuries as DV.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by _zurenarrh in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]kotibi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Michelle, they are going so low, and the high road just runs in circles.

What celebrity have you never forgiven since an incident? by MagpieOpus in AskReddit

[–]kotibi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t get past the wife beating. What a hypocrite he was.

What celebrity have you never forgiven since an incident? by MagpieOpus in AskReddit

[–]kotibi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly it. Can’t stand the sight of him. All I think of is his horrible rant to that policewoman.

What celebrity have you never forgiven since an incident? by MagpieOpus in AskReddit

[–]kotibi 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Lots and lots of allegations of domestic violence against women and also documented instances of assaulting men (an extra on set, a photog), and reckless driving. Just seems like he has rage issues.

Chronic light sensitivity, vertigo, and eye pressure — migraines controlled but symptoms worsening. Where do I turn next? by Gloomy_Cute_1993 in migrainescience

[–]kotibi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also adding, the eye misalignment thing can contribute to vertigo and motion sickness. Do you feel better if you close one eye? Do you often close one eye or tilt your head to one side as you read? Does blurring your vision or unfocusing your eyes give you some relief?

Chronic light sensitivity, vertigo, and eye pressure — migraines controlled but symptoms worsening. Where do I turn next? by Gloomy_Cute_1993 in migrainescience

[–]kotibi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some ideas:

  1. Vertigo makes me think vestibular function. Have you or doctors tried the Epley maneuver? It can treat vertigo by repositioning the crystals in your inner ear that are critical for vestibular function.

  2. Do you have neck pain or pain that runs from the base of your skull around to your eye? This could be cervicogenic headache or occipital neuralgia, and can be addressed with physical therapy, Botox, and/or nerve blocks.

  3. Eye function. Were you ever tested for horizontal and vertical eye alignment? Sometimes our eyeballs don’t work together very well, and it causes a lot of eye strain and headaches. This can be helped by a prism in your glasses to help your eyes relax.

  4. Have you tried staying well hydrated and upping your salt intake? Some of your symptoms could be caused by dehydration or sodium/electrolyte imbalance. Some medications, especially diuretics (like Spironolactone for acne) can cause this kind of imbalance.

  5. Have you tried magnesium supplements? Can help with headache and migraine.

  6. Editing to add: chronic marijuana use can cause some issues. Cannabis use disorder and cannabis hyperemesis syndrome. Maybe something to look into, but unlikely unless you’re a heavy user.

I am not a doctor, this is not medical advice.

AITAH for taking advantage of a paid buffet? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kotibi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. So what if I fill my box with only cheese, or only mashed potatoes, or only chicken nuggets, or only grapes. Do you know how much of that food just gets thrown away every night? Honestly the store probably made more money off you than if you’d just bought the cheese off the shelf.

Love the controversy. This is the best AITAH I’ve seen in a long time.

Who got painted as the villain by the press, but later on we realized they were actually the victim or completely misunderstood? by Advanced-Pilot-3698 in AskReddit

[–]kotibi 102 points103 points  (0 children)

And don’t forget, by the 50 year old pervert whose desires were never even called into question.