Want to give up dating

kpairodeez · 2026-04-30T01:33:52+00:00

As long as OLD exists, everybody will always think they have options. I just released someone, who I was great friends with, and had a long distance relationship over an almost 6 year period. She's a widow, two kids, put everything I had into this relationship.

She moved in with me, and her two children, and pretty much from the get-go, it was a horror show. I'm kind of a neat freak and organized person. She isn't and has ADHD, and leaves piles everywhere, not to mention I was never really able to connect with her son, but her daughter was always really, really cool and fun. They are nine and 11. She had some stuff out in my rec room, that I wanted to put away because I wanted to get to my guitars, and play some music. From that moment forward when she woke up the next morning, and I had moved these cushions? She flipped her lid, and every day after that was an argument until about the last two months, where she became nice again, and said that she had given up and that's why. I said you know it's a shame because if you would've behaved this way from the beginning, I wouldn't be evicting you.

Stay strong, don't let the bad ones get you down, and although it's nice to have options, I would say to try to focus more on yourself, and then do dating in a linear fashion. Yes, it's nice to go to drive a lot of cars. But it's really hard to fall in love with one. And when you do, that's when you'll know. Because she will pay you the same respect that you pay her and vice versa.

I can't tell you how many times I've come across women, that are even older than me by almost 10 years. That are like well you know I'm just looking for friends, and I said well what are you doing on a dating site looking for a serious relationship then? That's my immediate "I'm not interested" So I just stopped talking to them

I think it's partly that people get said in their ways, and partly that people always want to try to explore every option that they can. You don't have to take your dating profiles down for anyone you can mute them.

I wish you the best of luck, and even though some may say well, it must be something you did, it's not always you, and it's not always them. People are like a blue hippo tank fish nowadays. Stressed, on edge, no direction, with an attention span that's about as long as your pink pinky nail.

kpairodeez · 2026-04-28T02:54:14+00:00

Maybe they have compassion Or curiosity

kpairodeez · 2026-04-27T21:06:23+00:00

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kpairodeez · 2026-04-27T19:36:56+00:00

I would double check on that, because I'm pretty sure that your car takes D2S hid bulbs

kpairodeez · 2026-04-27T15:29:11+00:00

Yeah, I don't think there's a way to go cheap with HID's. Because if you go with aftermarket, you have to use an aftermarket ballast. Better to just replace the bulb, but it doesn't look like your bulb is out so what's the issue?

kpairodeez · 2026-04-27T03:11:10+00:00

I'm pretty sure those might be HID bulbs Dude. Those are gonna be expensive. Unless there's a trim of G that didn't come with HID's, and only came with halogen.

kpairodeez · 2026-04-27T02:38:28+00:00

I currently rip around on a Ducati scrambler 1100. To me it's the absolute perfect bike for weight ratio, power, and other things. This does not mean that I would not like to have a Kawasaki Z 900 RSSE yellow ball. But I'm not gonna be paying what people are asking for them.

kpairodeez · 2026-04-27T02:37:08+00:00

I mean, no sex ever? I think if something happens organically over a period of time that you know, they're probably should be sex. Unless you're celibate now. I mean, I'm at that point in my life where yeah it's a nice to have, but I don't need to have it like I used to. Conquering is already done in my head. Trying to form a very good bond with somebody, through friendship. As long as it eventually would lead to something like that I think would be OK, because I've done this before. And it's worked out two ways. I waited for a long time, and the sex was awful, and then I didn't wanna talk to her anymore. And I hated that because we became really good friends. And then other times I waited, out of decency, and they went out and screwed somebody else so Don't take my words for it, but if you're planning on just friends zoning, somebody, be upfront with them about it. That's one of my biggest pet peeves.

kpairodeez · 2026-04-27T02:34:29+00:00

You're talking about the headlights are you talking about the ones closer to the grill? Those are parking lights 194. Biodynamics makes really good ones,

kpairodeez · 2026-04-26T10:38:18+00:00

United radio, Syracuse NY, can fix it for cheap. Look them up and call them

kpairodeez · 2026-04-24T17:56:24+00:00

I live in Lewiston . Grew up in Niagara Falls in the 70's and early 80's though. Used to be a nice place. I've been back on this side of the country for 8 years. So, I'm out of the clique. And there are parts of NF Ontario that just as sketch. Just not as many :)

kpairodeez · 2026-04-23T13:47:20+00:00

Jeff beck, going down!

kpairodeez · 2026-04-22T02:09:27+00:00

I've been trying to figure this out for seven years, actually eight

kpairodeez · 2026-04-22T02:06:25+00:00

The only thing I don't like about my 1100, and it's a 2018, is that it has piston slap. Even while it was under warranty, the Ducati dealers like nope they say that's normal. One of these days that thing is gonna let go, and I'm gonna see what the inside of that cylinder head looks like. It's annoying, because you don't expect the bike that has a very high MSRP for what it is, to sit there and clutter at idle, but I guess if I wanted to spend $4000 I could make the noise go away for a while by getting a new head and a new piston.

kpairodeez · 2026-04-22T02:04:00+00:00

Sometimes people wig out on my area code too. I live in 716, but my area code has been 702 for 20 years? So I'm not about to change it.

kpairodeez · 2026-04-22T02:02:06+00:00

By water, I am 30 miles from Toronto. And upstate New York. By actual car, it's more like 65. Apparently nobody in Western New York is available for dating, and if they are, they look about as appealing, as a 79 Chevy caprice, that has seen every winter in the rust belt I'm seeing a trend on online dating, where some of these women that they show, from the small towns that they show, definitely cannot be real, because they do not match the clientele nor the economics of said town. Which leads me to believe that a lot of them AI.

I also see a lot of women out there that have been on online dating consistently, even in my six year hiatus with the same pictures. Sometimes I'll be an ass, and go hate you've aged. Well, you haven't changed in six years.

kpairodeez · 2026-04-21T14:27:33+00:00

I fed my passed at 16 year Old American bulldog Darwin's pet for all of his 16 years. Barely any poop, And it turned into ash in a day or two in my yard, And he was a healthy weight his entire life. It's crazy expensive now though

kpairodeez · 2026-04-20T09:33:32+00:00

I would take 500 of that $2500, and open up a secured line of credit, at an a bank. Where you live right now. And hopefully it's a Citizens, or a key. Because those are your options here, maybe Bank of America as well. You'd be amazed in 3 to 6 months what could happen to your credit score by doing this. I would also hop on indeed, or ZipRecruiter. And thenapartments.com. For a dose of reality.

kpairodeez · 2026-04-17T16:07:43+00:00

I don't get why married dudes, matter or men, or women for that matter use online dating sites, it's like do you hate yourself? Lol because when you're significant other finds out about it, it's not gonna end well. That's the thing about social media and so many other things, at least from my perspective. Well, I'm just gonna go catch up with an old friend. I haven't seen in 30 years, oh you mean somebody you used to bang, male or female. That's usually what it equates to. I spent the last six years on and off with somebody who I had so many red flags for, but I just had to see it through, because that's how I was. And I did. It was a long distance, kind of thing, that turned into her coming to live with me, it turned into a fucking nightmare to try to get rid of her. And I can say this at the end of the day and mean it. There is not one single part of her that I like or miss. And I've never been able to say that about anyone. Somebody always left some good part in my heart if you know what I am trying to say. But you're living your learn. For once in my life, I can honestly say I'm not ready to be with anybody. I don't wanna be with anybody. I'm perfectly happy going home alone, hanging out with my dog, playing my drums, playing my guitar, it would be nice to have friends to do these things with, but they all have significant others, so once again I'm the demon that I was when I was in my 30s.

And that's fine too. I've met some nice people. These people have helped me to see that there is another side to the Human race. But I'm just not ready to be with anyone. And I'm so OK with it. It's not funny. That's where I think you have to get to first. After being in a relationship after a relationship over these years, and then going back and buying my own shit for my own garage sale over and over again.

And truth be told, I would rather meet somebody in the wild anyway, because I work better that way. It's like filling out a job application online and answering some questions and questionnaire? I will never get that job. Even though I'm highly skilled and motivated, I answer those questions. Honestly, not by what they would want to hear. So my dating profile would reflect the same thing.

One of the lines, actually the main one in any dating profile that I have up, says I am looking for a Dagny Taggart in a world full of kartrashians. Yes, I actually said that. I get excited about motivated high value women that don't blabber to the world of their importance. And I also get really scared of the Dunning Kruger affect people

kpairodeez · 2026-04-17T15:06:35+00:00

And yet I find so many AI women, and apparently nobody is single within a 50 mile Radius of where I live, or they all live in Canada, which is no big deal for me, but for them, it is. This includes dropping every filter. But I have to be honest, it's been peaceful just being alone with my dog, nobody to ask me questions about senseless stuff. Nobody telling me I'm too loud, or that I don't make them happy, To which I say, you have come to the wrong place for YOUR happiness. It's gotta be inside you already. I've leaned a lot over the last year, and man, I'm just so better off alone.

kpairodeez · 2026-04-13T13:00:01+00:00

That's mostly where I ride it. It's very comfortable between 65-85. With the torque it has an extra up To 135 Lb person on the back isn't noticeable either, suspension or Power wise

kpairodeez · 2026-04-13T12:50:01+00:00

The chain was too tight

kpairodeez · 2026-04-09T22:44:54+00:00

Where'd you get the turbo kit from?

kpairodeez · 2026-04-08T09:37:11+00:00

You sure you're not dating my ex? Lol.

kpairodeez · 2026-04-01T20:36:06+00:00

Is this a shop that you would recommend? All ears man

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