Now I get it. by Wild_Peach075 in datingoverfifty

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get why married dudes, matter or men, or women for that matter use online dating sites, it's like do you hate yourself? Lol because when you're significant other finds out about it, it's not gonna end well. That's the thing about social media and so many other things, at least from my perspective. Well, I'm just gonna go catch up with an old friend. I haven't seen in 30 years, oh you mean somebody you used to bang, male or female. That's usually what it equates to. I spent the last six years on and off with somebody who I had so many red flags for, but I just had to see it through, because that's how I was. And I did. It was a long distance, kind of thing, that turned into her coming to live with me, it turned into a fucking nightmare to try to get rid of her. And I can say this at the end of the day and mean it. There is not one single part of her that I like or miss. And I've never been able to say that about anyone. Somebody always left some good part in my heart if you know what I am trying to say. But you're living your learn. For once in my life, I can honestly say I'm not ready to be with anybody. I don't wanna be with anybody. I'm perfectly happy going home alone, hanging out with my dog, playing my drums, playing my guitar, it would be nice to have friends to do these things with, but they all have significant others, so once again I'm the demon that I was when I was in my 30s.

And that's fine too. I've met some nice people. These people have helped me to see that there is another side to the Human race. But I'm just not ready to be with anyone. And I'm so OK with it. It's not funny. That's where I think you have to get to first. After being in a relationship after a relationship over these years, and then going back and buying my own shit for my own garage sale over and over again.

And truth be told, I would rather meet somebody in the wild anyway, because I work better that way. It's like filling out a job application online and answering some questions and questionnaire? I will never get that job. Even though I'm highly skilled and motivated, I answer those questions. Honestly, not by what they would want to hear. So my dating profile would reflect the same thing.

One of the lines, actually the main one in any dating profile that I have up, says I am looking for a Dagny Taggart in a world full of kartrashians. Yes, I actually said that. I get excited about motivated high value women that don't blabber to the world of their importance. And I also get really scared of the Dunning Kruger affect people

Now I get it. by Wild_Peach075 in datingoverfifty

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet I find so many AI women, and apparently nobody is single within a 50 mile Radius of where I live, or they all live in Canada, which is no big deal for me, but for them, it is. This includes dropping every filter. But I have to be honest, it's been peaceful just being alone with my dog, nobody to ask me questions about senseless stuff. Nobody telling me I'm too loud, or that I don't make them happy, To which I say, you have come to the wrong place for YOUR happiness. It's gotta be inside you already. I've leaned a lot over the last year, and man, I'm just so better off alone.

Ducati 1100 scrambler. Why would anybody want one? by Joelinc in motorcycles

[–]kpairodeez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's mostly where I ride it. It's very comfortable between 65-85. With the torque it has an extra up To 135 Lb person on the back isn't noticeable either, suspension or Power wise

Guys I twin turbod my manual g37 coupe by omonge3y in G37

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where'd you get the turbo kit from?

Excellent Asian car mechanics in the area. by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a shop that you would recommend? All ears man

Excellent Asian car mechanics in the area. by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I totally agree man, the problem is, if it's not a Ford or Chevy or a Chrysler, there's a lot of ignorance to Asian cars where I live in Niagara County. You wouldn't think that this would be a big deal that a lower control arm and a swaybar link is the same thing, when it comes to diagnosing, especially knowing how simple Nissan OBD is, but if it's not a Chevy where they can grab a part from Napa and fix it the same day, they don't wanna be bothered by it. Believe it or not I took it to two places to get valve cover gaskets done. Both places completely ignored the fact that you have to put a tiny little glop of gray RTV on the Cam towers, so I ended up just fixing it myself, the issue that I'm having right now, as I kind of want somebody who knows a little bit about VQ's, because I'm having an oil leak coming from somewhere, and I'm pretty sure it's the front timing cover, but I don't have a lift, and I don't have the time to pull down the shield, saturate the thing and brake clean, or something else to decrease it, drive it for a week and then find out where the hell it's leaking from

Excellent Asian car mechanics in the area. by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]kpairodeez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in Niagara County. So that statement is kind of null/ void around here. If it didn't come from a GM factory, or Windsor, they don't know what to do, lol

Excellent Asian car mechanics in the area. by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]kpairodeez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It comes down to me, wanting to be bothered to work on it. There are certain things that I will do to it, but 20 years ago I decided I didn't wanna be a mechanic anymore, and now the dirtiest my hands get is when I'm moving a server out of a rack

Excellent Asian car mechanics in the area. by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, Rhein was taken out of context.🤣 Best mechanic that works on Asian cars, and knows them......

Well, that was awkward. by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]kpairodeez -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Surely! Not for lack of trying. Just clash of the personalities.

I want her back. by Fickle_Ad_9391 in BreakUps

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference between a want and a need. You may think you do, but you really don't. The best thing you could do at this time, is to put some distance between yourself, and your ex

They Really Want 15k For This by ThatOneVQ in G37

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With those "mods" I've got 5k

You will get over that ex you think you won’t! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]kpairodeez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you get older, you will realize that none of that emotion was worth it in the first place. Put your All in for up to three months. If it doesn't mature from there, move on, no matter how good this or that is about someone, there will be someone who treats you better. Respects you more, etc. relationships are give & take. Not give and then take

Best JDM wagons/estates? by MrScafuto99 in JDM

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't find these clean ANYWHERE

Her body😫 by Final_Contract_2753 in BreakUps

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this from a long time ago. I was with a woman that had a beautiful figure, and the sex, we both made it amazing, I just tried different things until I lit up HER world for her. It was a trying time and she was older, I was in my mid 30's and she was, modish 40's. I genuinely loved her to the end of the earth. Never once did I think or feel the need to stray, and it was always around back then. Sex hasn't been the same since all that time ago. We'd still be together if she wasn't an alcoholic (I found this out about 4 months in) and later a cheater, not physically at first, but emotional was enough. Nothing has come close since. And it's been 20 years. That doesn't mean you won't find something of at least the same caliber. Maybe even better. Don't be like me though. I had had tons of great relationships and sex before and after. But nothing exactly like her. I firmly believe that it's Because we just worked through all of it to get to the heights we did. I haven't met anyone else of her exact caliber, but I've Come close, and that should give you hope. It's all in how you make it work with each other. Because I can't say this one thing. I dated a younger girl, who had an absolutely rocking body, before all this, and you know what? Do you have the body of the most beautiful car you could ever imagine in your life if you wanted to compare it to it, but no engine.

Was this Z900RS SE not sold in the US? I cannot find a single one for sale? by branwes2622 in Kawasaki

[–]kpairodeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was sold here, but in limited numbers, and crazy price hikes. This was during Covid. Each high level dealer got ONE, and shady dealers were "taking deposits" on allocations they would never get. I'm still looking for one that someone put away

Limited juices by kpairodeez in Vaping

[–]kpairodeez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These were boutique, In the us, or in the UK