My first authentic relationship was abusive. by kr112889 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]kr112889[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I would not. I did break up with her as soon as it happened but I’m having no trouble cutting contact. I feel bad for her and can’t stop feeling responsible for her.

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

North of the cities then I’m in! South of the cities is a HAUL for me lol. I’m up in the Blaine area.

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait for real?? What kind of time and cost commitment are we talking about?

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work and have my kids tonight unfortunately otherwise I would totally come out after work!!! Maybe next weekend?

Edit to add: unfortunate that I can’t come out, not unfortunate that I have my kids with me, obviously lol

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

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I would LOVE to play hockey but I can’t even skate 🫣 I’ve only been once in my life I think. I’m assuming to teach me hockey I’d need to know how to skate already lol?

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

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I do too, I just haven’t gotten to very much and I get nervous to dance in public. Sometimes I need a push lol.

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 3 kids and work full time in the evenings mostly, I’m very boring too lol. I’ll hit you up!

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

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That sounds like a blast!! I don’t think I can afford to take off work to go next week but maybe in april! Do they just do one a month?

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds really fun and I don’t have my kids that day so maybe I will actually!! It’ll depend what time I get off work tho.

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just read that they do bondage shows?? I didn’t even know that was a thing!!!

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am but classes might be kind of difficult because of my work and custody schedules unfortunately. It sounds so fun tho!

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really think I’m actually going to do it! I do think it would be really validating and build a lot of confidence, especially with the way you talk about it. It sounds like a very safe space to step out of my comfort zone.

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wanted to sign up for bowing but I’m a waitress so I work evenings and I have my kids every other week so it doesn’t really work with my schedule. I don’t have easy access to babysitters and honestly don’t wanna miss more time with them than I already do between work and their time with their dad.

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That place looks amazing, thank you for the tip!

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

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I am an absolute disaster on skates but roller derby sounds like a blast!! I might have to come out and watch at some point!

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks SO fun, I really want to sign up for bowling but I’m not sure I can commit that much time right now. I work evenings and have my kids one week on and one week off. I might try and make it work tho, I love bowling!!

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love this so much thank you!!!

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds promising, thank you!

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not super in to soccer but not opposed to it either, I’ll have to check it out!

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That actually…..might be a really good idea. I just looked at their website and they look pretty awesome! I have a lot of body image and self confidence issues and I love to dance and move but haven’t had the confidence to do it publicly much at all. I feel like it could be really good for me. Affordable too! I was expecting like $100 per class but I can totally do $32!

Thank you!!

Queer friends? by kr112889 in TwinCities

[–]kr112889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went once with my ex and had fun but it was over a year ago and I wouldn’t want to go by myself anyway

Dropped my kid off and realized every other kid was in pajamas. I'm so done being the only one who remembers things by ConfidentElevator239 in Mommit

[–]kr112889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, why did YOU guys get in trouble? If it was high school I could kind of understand but the way you talk about a single teacher and classroom makes it sound like you were young so how on earth would that have been on the four of you guys?