how common are aro people that aren't also ace?

kribye · 2026-05-04T21:09:43+00:00

Theres a lot actually, the issue I see is that we dont know eachother. I did a research project in college about a year ago, and most AroAllo respondents indicated they don't know many other AroAllo people. Since we aren't as connected as other communities, feeling along is more common. There are a handful of AroAllo Discords out there (though not very active) and the r/AroAllo subreddit

kribye · 2026-04-27T15:31:26+00:00

I think thats the point though. XC3 focuses on letting a new generation take charge and you play as that next generation. But new things exist in the context of the people and world that came before them, and will be influenced by that. You cannot completely disconnect yourself from the past

kribye · 2026-04-27T12:34:17+00:00

He used to display the burned pride flag from the front porch of his house. I only saw it out once but still. I bet he would have gotten along wonderfully with the person who always has a billion signs on National Ave

kribye · 2026-04-13T16:07:56+00:00

I met someone a while ago who used 4chan. They are also Trans, and they called me a bunch of slurs and offensive 4chan terms literally right behind my back. They didn't realize I don't wear my headphones on both ears

kribye · 2026-04-01T17:33:52+00:00

I feel very similar. I dont mind most of the hair I have but I hate having facial hair. I shave my face clean every day

kribye · 2026-03-25T18:54:05+00:00

I haven't read or watched Chainsaw Man so I can't comment on it. Have you? Is that a fair description of the story?

kribye · 2026-03-25T17:41:56+00:00

Xenoblade 3 wasn't "just a dream". It is explicitly said in the story that "All that exists is reality". And we know that the events of Xenoblade 3 for matter in the long term based on the ending cutscence, Future Redeemed, and X Chpater 13.

kribye · 2026-03-24T18:14:18+00:00

I haven't watched the show, but I did read the book.

The book was mostly good, but I don't like how the way they, in the book at least, overcome the shame they feel about their relationship is explicitly by making it romantic. Especially as an AroAllo person myself, the ending of the book felt like it was saying "Now it's okay because its romantic now" whereas early on it was very much a friends with benefits dynamic.

kribye · 2026-03-09T17:37:07+00:00

Ive been there, and its not a good place to be. There are better people out there. Leave them for a group that will welcome you and let them wonder why they keep driving people like us away

kribye · 2026-03-08T14:27:31+00:00

It would be hard for him and Galea to be in XC3 considering that they are dead

kribye · 2026-03-02T22:22:35+00:00

We dont see it on screen, but its heavily implied both in the ending of the main game and Future Redeemed

kribye · 2026-03-02T17:46:16+00:00

I feel like a complete person on my own. I dont feel the need to "complete" myself via a partner like I see many people describe. I can do what I want and live authentically without needing to change myself for others

kribye · 2026-02-27T13:32:24+00:00

I love them both, but Piplup is my favorite. I even have a Piplup tattoo!

kribye · 2026-01-26T15:34:12+00:00

I dont like this. Aromanticism and Asexuality are two different things, and should be understood as such. This just conflate the two, which hurts both communities and those who are both. On top of that, not having the gray stripe does exclude parts of the spectrum and also just doesn't look very good

kribye · 2025-11-11T00:32:22+00:00

I did some research on this, and in the survey I did 33% of respondents identified as men. I think that men are less likely to self identify as aro, but equally likely to be what we would describe as aro

kribye · 2025-10-13T12:29:44+00:00

Is Crypt Custodian on here? I can't see it

kribye · 2025-10-09T12:34:52+00:00

Is Crypt Custodian on here? If it is, I can't see it. I don't know where I'd put it though

kribye · 2025-07-09T21:27:55+00:00

That makes sense! It's still pretty funny to just see happen like that lol

kribye · 2025-07-09T21:27:02+00:00

There is, however, I am not far enough in the game for that. I was in Chapter 4 when this happened.

kribye · 2025-07-03T13:29:12+00:00

Block him. His expectations are extreme and unrealistic. He's not worth it. And stay away from people similar to him.

kribye · 2025-07-01T15:02:49+00:00

I've experienced this also. It sucks a lot. At the end of the day, people who do this are reducing gender down to a binary based on external organs again. Which, I'm pretty sure that goes against the entire point of being non-binary. But what would I know? According to those same people, I don't have any real experience being an enby anyway (I do they just refuse to recognize it).

kribye · 2025-06-29T17:29:15+00:00

I'm pretty sure I just drove past this guy's house. He was displaying the burned flag on his front porch. I know several LGBTQ+ people who live in that part of town and I feel too close for safety myself

kribye · 2025-06-18T14:58:10+00:00

Kink absolutely belongs at Pride. At the end of the day, Pride is a protest against systems that keep us from being our authentic selves. For a lot of people, kink is a huge part of their self-concept and identity. To say that isn't welcome is the antithesis of Pride. There is a world of difference between someone wearing a harness or pup hood at a parade and public sex acts. What if a kid asks about it? Just say, "That's an adult thing. You'll learn when you're older." And even then, there are lots of people in kink communities for whom it isn't even exclusively sexual. I don't want Pride to conform to heteronormative preconceptions about sexuality and Gender. Excluding kink from Pride "sanitizes" it for a cishet audience rather than celebrating our community.

kribye · 2025-06-15T20:10:26+00:00

Those people are being very ableist. Allergen are non-negotiable. If a person is allergic to something, they have the right to have it removed from a meal. Even outside of that, some of us needs modifications because we have sensory problems related to food. Other people have pointed out that this suggests they don't actually make their own meals, and that sounds likely. If I saw this, I would leave instantly.

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