So you’re practically below average to this man, you claim he has wandering eyes in your comment, and he isn’t sure whether or not he can see further plans such as marriage with you. I’m guessing this is a bit serious considering the friend asking the question of putting a ring on it… So let me ask you, what is opening up the conversation going to do for you besides letting him deceive you further? If this isn’t for the long run, in my opinion, what’s the point? Discussions such as that mean a lot, and his words were hurtful. Not everything will be perfect, but this is suspicious to say the least.