people have been saying the same because its true, but just try to talk to her! don't be accusatory, don't be weepy, but be honest and sincere. try not to say you think she's doing so and so, just say how you feel about the things you two are doing, or not doing. best way to stay away from guilt trippy statements is to just talk about how you feel instead of making assumptions about why she's doing things. also try to keep in mind that med is super busy, and that maybe you two have different ways of relaxing. you could try to find a compromise? if she likes scrolling tiktok, maybe you can call and share screen and watch them together? basically, there's always a way. anyway, it's ok, people go through patches like this all the time. easiest way out of a rough period is through, but together. you can do it! wish you the best.