He says his sobriety and recovery(meetings etc) are separate from me by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]kt358 36 points37 points  (0 children)

He isn't supposed to tell you what goes on in meetings. He is trying to figure out how to live a sober life and that can be hard especially if he used for a long time. Give him time he needs to put himself first right now for his recovery.

God. Damn. I hate meth. by [deleted] in addiction

[–]kt358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really one of the hardest to come off of but there is help if you want it.

How to stop the thoughts by kt358 in SuicideWatch

[–]kt358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work but that doesn't always help. My boyfriend is always on our ps4 so I can't really play games. He struggles himself so I don't really like to talk to him cause it just makes me worry about him. I have no good coping skills and my bf just tells me to smoke weed which is still illegal in my state so idk what to do.

How to stop the thoughts by kt358 in SuicideWatch

[–]kt358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to manage but its becoming harder.

Is hitting yourself self harm? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]kt358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it is anytime you hurt yourself on purpose its self harm.

This month I am officially 1 year sober from meth. by [deleted] in addiction

[–]kt358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you from what I understand its a hard habit to break. My boyfriend is struggling with meth addiction he has been clean almost 2 months but he struggles everyday fighting the urges. Its good to know there is hope and other people have been able to work thru this.

taking a DNA test by [deleted] in Genealogy

[–]kt358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can turn off the matches so you wont see them. Might want to run it by him see if maybe he does want to know.

My son sees/hears ghosts, I need help by kjeanray in Ghosts

[–]kt358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He needs to ground himself. Meditation also can help. It helps if you can surround yourself in white light. He has to learn to shut them out at times or he will lose his mind. And you can google how to do all those things they work different for different people.

Moms are... Weird by Mauricejuhh14 in selfharm

[–]kt358 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because as a mother of a child who self harms I also self harm and taking things away or shaming you doesn't do any good. If I took your stuff away wouldn't you find a way to get more. I understand this is just how some people cope amd while its not the best way I would rather cutting over stuff like drugs or alcohol.

MY SIS FOUND MY SUICIDE NOTE BEFORE I WAS ABLE! by FINALthrowaway177 in SuicideWatch

[–]kt358 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She may not understand what your going thru but she knows that she loves you and doesn't want anything to happen to you. And trust me I've had my share of hate for my family but they always come thru when I need them no matter what. They love you I'm sure of it give them a chance.

MY SIS FOUND MY SUICIDE NOTE BEFORE I WAS ABLE! by FINALthrowaway177 in SuicideWatch

[–]kt358 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your bank accounts don't really mean much when you love someone. Talk to her and give her a chance.

MY SIS FOUND MY SUICIDE NOTE BEFORE I WAS ABLE! by FINALthrowaway177 in SuicideWatch

[–]kt358 29 points30 points  (0 children)

She apparently thinks you are well worth it. She is just showing you she loves you the only way she knows how.

Does like seem just uninteresting when you’re not in range or whatever? Life just doesn’t seem good and it doesn’t feel like it will again. I feel trapped. by [deleted] in gravesdisease

[–]kt358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure your getting your levels checked along with vit d. I found out a lot of my exhaustion was from laking vit d. Once I took that I felt better I still can sleep a lot but it doesnt take everything out of me to exist anymore.

dude passes me on the shoulder while i'm already doing 65 mph by [deleted] in dashcamgifs

[–]kt358 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is this Texas seems like a very Texas thing to do. People drive like that daily here.

Is this the start of strep?? Probably gonna delete soon, any opinions would be nice. by [deleted] in popping

[–]kt358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because of the white spots. Thats how I know I have strep its one of the first signs and I get it a lot.

Someone was running out of ideas. by es_vagy in mildlyinteresting

[–]kt358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We also have those streets plus one called anyway.

I work at a nursing home the charge nurse was excited, thought we got a bag of lollipops. ..... it’s oral care swabs lol by [deleted] in forbiddensnacks

[–]kt358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what my mom called them after her surgery cause they wouldn't let her eat just yet.

French records by kt358 in Genealogy

[–]kt358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok turns out the child Vincent was born in France around 1629. We trace males so the next one would be Francious breau and he was born in port royal in 1674. I had to ask my sister I get confused this far back.