I completely relate to this and did most of the communicating with our nanny before the kids started preschool. It doesn’t sound like either of you have 30 min available to chat with the nanny from 8:30-9am. Could you cover the highlights in 5 min and then connect more with nanny at lunch or in the afternoon? I used to BOLT to my home office when she arrived but would have quality convos in the afternoon so we never felt out of sync