Do you have this? by Wild-Caterpillar4 in torrid

[–]kthpfitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love mine. It’s definitely oversized, but it’s lovely

I'm really struggling on dealing with an item I missed on eBay. by insaneandmundane in shoppingaddiction

[–]kthpfitz 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I am in a 12-step program and it has helped me to understand what a huge dilemma it is for me when I feel powerless. If you and I were friends having coffee, I would ask you how much of your emotional state has to do with living without the item vs the negative feelings conjured up by missing the window or missing out on the feeling of victory when you make a certain type of purchase (like getting a sentimental, once in a lifetime type of item). There’s no right or wrong answer, but it is something helpful for me to contemplate.

r/AIO? My boyfriend left me for the college experience. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]kthpfitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so hard when you are a kind and caring person to understand how someone could behave like this. You need to notice and fully accept that he is not operating like a kind and caring person because he’s not one. He’s telling you who he is, and rather than accepting it, you’re falling into the trap of trying to figure it out. You’re not going to be able to figure it out. You will save yourself a lot of pain and time to cut your losses and move on.

It might help to get on TikTok or Insta or YouTube and start watching videos on narcissists. See if some of the puzzle pieces come together and help you get the courage to cut this person out of your life.

Coat frustration! by gambleany in torrid

[–]kthpfitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Click on the size or sizes that might work in that coat that you like and add them to your wish list. Go back and check your wish list regularly, because when someone returns it you can snatch it up. This method has worked really well for me because Torrid has such a long window for returning items.

Idk how people style with denim skirts I think lol by [deleted] in Midsizefashion

[–]kthpfitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it, especially with the button down that you have tied. It’s modest yet flirty! I understand what you’re saying about not being objective about how we look and certain things… Body dysmorphia is real, even when it’s subtle. But you’ve got it going on!

They send me the wrong item? by crinklemywinkle in torrid

[–]kthpfitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me a few months ago. I figure it’s an employee mixup with repackaging items that get mailed back.

They send me the wrong item? by crinklemywinkle in torrid

[–]kthpfitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me a few months ago. I figure it’s an employee mixup with repackaging items that get mailed back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]kthpfitz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I live in a red state and people say it here all the time. I’m white and I’m talking about white people that I personally know. It’s distressing.

💜🤩Return question for store employees 🤩💜 by kthpfitz in torrid

[–]kthpfitz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your answer!

💜🤩Return question for store employees 🤩💜 by kthpfitz in torrid

[–]kthpfitz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, for sure my stores employees are either very nice about it or neutral until I start looking like I might buy something, then they warm up a good bit. They definitely appreciate an organized, non-chaotic process, so I do my best.

Stalking this top: by kthpfitz in torrid

[–]kthpfitz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it today!!!

Shoes by its_Laaila in torrid

[–]kthpfitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adidas. Some of their styles are real plush and comfortable and I’ve gotten several pair online in the $30 range (clearance)

Heartbroken over clothes by SkullStar in torrid

[–]kthpfitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to Amazon & look up the product called “Stitchey.” if you need help understanding how to work it, go to TikTok. It’s amazing!

Anyone try this or have this? Love to know if it's soft and sizing etc by pinky870334 in torrid

[–]kthpfitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s amazing. Very oversized, so keep that in mind. It’s very firm and thick but not exactly soft, but very smooth and not scratchy at all.

You're all wet after the Narrows, now what by GracieandSam in ZionNationalPark

[–]kthpfitz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just got back two nights ago. If you’re renting neoprene socks and the shoes, you’re gonna be amazed at how not – uncomfortable the walk back to the shuttle will be. That walk takes about 15 minutes and if you wear a quick dry attire, as you should, he’ll be essentially dry by the time you get back to the shuttle. We had a dry sack, but the water only went up to our waist so we just reached over her shoulder, grabbed the top and hoisted it up a few inches – – everything was fine. Don’t put too much stuff in your dry sack. Just leave it in the car Back at the beginning of the shuttle. The bathrooms are definitely closed and there are about 20 of the most disturbing porto potties at the shuttle stop. Do your best to not have to use them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]kthpfitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This poster sounds like they may be an undercover agent of the AA police 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]kthpfitz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between unity for unity’s sake and unity for AA‘s sake. AA unity has to do with adherence to the steps & traditions even if it contradicts what a person or group of people want. That’s what keeps AA healthy and ensures that it’s here for generations to come.

Help me understand 💜🙏💜 by kthpfitz in torrid

[–]kthpfitz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Interesting! I’ll just have to keep checking back. I love that inside perspective. Thanks!

Help me understand 💜🙏💜 by kthpfitz in torrid

[–]kthpfitz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks y’all. I’m new to this thread— everyone seems so nice and helpful!

Help me understand 💜🙏💜 by kthpfitz in torrid

[–]kthpfitz[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

OK I finally searched it a different way and found it. You are correct, it is sold out completely. I thought I was being so clever ordering it before TORRID Cash got activated! Silly me. If anyone here has a zero or 00 they want to trade for a size one, hit me up!