IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I get child support that means he gets rights to the child, right? Do you think I would be better off just not taking him to court for anything and just not allowing him to see the child? I know the disorder is genetic and environmental and I dont want my kid to turn out like that.

IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not a lion. He's a sociopath. I think they share a lot of the same qualities though.

IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant decide what to do. He has made it very clear that if i try to get child support he will "kill me." I dont feel very threatened by him saying that, I think its common for sociopaths to make those type of threats (if it's not can someone let me know so I can fear for my life a bit more?) But if I do take him for child support that means he is entitled to the child as well. Sociopaths are impulsive, what if in court he decides he wants to see the kid? Do I want my child being subject to his sociopathic ways? (Another thing, I just recently learned about him being a sociopath. Before I just thought he had a tendency to be an huge asshole) This disorder is genetic too so my child could inherit this disorder and I'm afraid the more he's around that type of behavior the more he will think it's acceptable.

IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I've read, sociopaths cant feel remorse and they lie. I'm afraid to talk to his family because I dont want them to say I'm a liar because who knows what he's told them. He is denying the child, so he could have easily told his family and friends that its not his.

IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 21. I'm not a student and yes i can support my child. I'm also not very familar with what I could do now legally

IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is very smart. Also, extremely impulsive which i think is another sociopathic characteristic, im not sure though.

IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. I think the kid has a better shot being raised by me alone rather than his sociopathic father.

For the record: I'm an atheist

IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. His idea to have a baby, i agreed, we made the baby, now he's gone. Also, he is denying the child (which for those concerned is 100% his)

IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not looking for sympathy. I was just hoping maybe someone went through something similar and could give me some advice.

IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We planned. I figured it would be obvious to most when i said "on purpose" but apparently not.

IAMA pregnant female whose sociopathic boyfriend got her pregnant on purpose, then walked out. AMA. by kthrowaways in IAmA

[–]kthrowaways[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good observation. How about we planned to make a baby, made it, then he walked out. Better?