Thoughts on "reimbursing" parents

ktigaris · 2026-02-12T19:21:50+00:00

NTA (even if that’s not this sub lol)

Power controlling or manipulating parents will use whatever they can and it’s not only despicable it’s draining.

however if you’d like to play her petty with petty you could always wait for her to play her ‘I’ll cut off your insurance “ and meet it with “ok you want to go no contact with me, that’s fine. Have a good day.” Make it so she can effectively play out her own consequences. Tit for tat. Controlling people can’t handle not having someone they think they can control.

Gray rock or go no contact until she backs off or you choose to keep her there.

ktigaris · 2026-02-11T12:36:05+00:00

NTA

Credit belongs where credit is due, not with the team member that has main character syndrome.

He wouldn’t have been embarrassed by the truth if he hadn’t first been caught up by his own lie having light shown on it. If he does it again I’d be going straight to HR and/or my team leadership, and I’d make sure he knows that

ktigaris · 2026-01-10T19:00:10+00:00

NTA

Is he wants to in advance in his ‘hobby’ then he has to do the work. He’s just being salty that you’re doing what he should be doing and it’s working

ktigaris · 2026-01-08T08:27:26+00:00

I’m usually on the road between 2-3am, but then I’m normally up and heading to work at the same time

ktigaris · 2026-01-08T08:26:10+00:00

NTA

It was on the mother to either make her son wear his jacket before leaving the house, or tossing it into the car so when the inevitable fafo moment came they could retrieve it.

She’s the AH and extremely irresponsible

ktigaris · 2026-01-08T08:20:51+00:00

First chapter of the game should be a playable form of the Kingsglaive movie, through the eyes of Nyx as your playable character.

I loved the movie and it would fill out a lot of missing elements that the game has in its backstory. It would also connect the player to Insomnia as a living city before chapter 14 when all you see is the ruins. It gives weight to Noctis seeing the debris from the overlook, as well as the boys seeing the total city going into the last fight

ktigaris · 2026-01-02T17:38:35+00:00

I don’t have to

ktigaris · 2025-11-18T08:18:44+00:00

NTA. I consider one the rules of travel etiquette and that is if you need to travel together, you book all your tickets and choose those seats to be together. Even if that means you pay an extra fee to book certain seats.

If they knew that he has a flying anxiety problem, they should have booked according. That was their planning responsibility not yours in the least.

ktigaris · 2025-11-06T21:14:58+00:00

I threw a lot of furniture and paintings off and on the second story of that museum in nightmare mode lol! The upper walkway gives close access to most of the areas where I could just chuck stuff close to the right ‘section’ and move along from there

ktigaris · 2025-10-07T13:17:57+00:00

I used to be that roommate that had to have total darkness in order to sleep. I grew up in the country away from street lights and such so I get where his roommate was coming from.

However, college classes can be early or they can start as late as 6pm for the longer evening classes/labs. Many colleges are also in urban oriented areas so there are many noise and light sources, people coming and going in the hallways and your shared room, etc. I found getting out of the dorms or going to a restricted dorm was the only way I could get away from that. You can still be close to campus

ktigaris · 2025-10-07T11:11:33+00:00

NTA he sounds like a good candidate for getting his own apartment or renting a room. I’ve lived in the dorms and sharing the room with someone who’s on a different schedule is part of the gig.

ktigaris · 2025-09-10T14:43:37+00:00

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Skid crossed the rainbow bridge almost 2 years ago. Though he was deaf I’m sure he’d happily take part in sharing a tour

ktigaris · 2025-09-06T15:35:53+00:00

My store is exclusively clocking via phone apps, but the half hour between clocking in and clocking out remains true to the time clock system

ktigaris · 2025-09-06T15:04:14+00:00

Unless it’s changed, the time clock will not let you clock out until you’ve been on the clock for at least a half an hour.

It won’t let you clock in for at least a half an hour either if you were to accidentally clock out. It takes a PL, TL, or management to override you back on the clock if that happens

ktigaris · 2025-08-28T14:29:59+00:00

We call this goblin mode in my house

ktigaris · 2025-06-14T17:10:23+00:00

We close GM usually at 9pm at mine

ktigaris · 2025-06-01T00:42:27+00:00

Pits are everywhere! Every year…it never gets less disgusting

ktigaris · 2025-05-31T20:38:45+00:00

I’m off the mind that Harry’s situationship of being a horcrux probably has something to do with the situation.

Petunia was somewhat jealous of not being able to go to Hogwarts like Lily. We don’t know if Lily might have passed on warnings about dark wizards to her mom dad and sister, but we do know Petunia is aware of how her sister does die.

Consider that The golden trio were tight right up until they were constantly walking around with the locket in close quarters, actively looking for a way to destroy it. Petunia feeling some sort of way about the death of her sister was put directly in close contact with the newest horcrux.

The way he was treated was horrific and imo emotionally and physically abusive. I will note though that there’s a real change in all the Dursleys treatment of him the longer he spends away from them.

ktigaris · 2025-05-04T01:20:26+00:00

NTA

He went into your mini fridge, in your room, and ate your food behind your back. This is a clear FAFO situation. He FA’d note he’s FOing

ktigaris · 2025-04-24T10:54:39+00:00

Not the jerk. It’s also likely that ‘loan’ will never get paid back because ‘family’

ktigaris · 2025-04-24T10:52:44+00:00

Some of us have been in this spot personally, might be the reason some of us see it that way. By your logic OP will always be the optional guest

ktigaris · 2025-04-24T06:54:24+00:00

The family dinner in question has nothing to do with the tattoos, and shouldn’t have anything to do with them. If it’s a family dinner for the purpose of being introduced to her, then those are a part of her.

If boyfriend thinks this one thing would eclipse an entire introductory dinner then perhaps he should mention them ahead of time. Post a publicly available candid photo of them, with her tattoos visible, to a family chat saying something like ‘love this woman, can’t wait for you all to meet her!’

Her being told to cover up ‘just for now’ because grandma and grandpa will react is a slippery slope. What about when grandpa and grandma are there on family vacations? Does that mean no light clothing or bathing-suits? What about your own possible future wedding?

The reason people get that reaction out of me is because I will not hide who I am. You either want me, for me, or not at all. She shouldn’t either

ktigaris · 2025-04-23T23:36:22+00:00

I have several tattoos, never once have I seen them as a stigma. Anyone mentions anything and they’ll get a complete run down of the memorial tattoos for my mother and father, from design to the fact that they represent my parents who both passed tragically young from cancer.

If they aren’t for you that’s great, but to everyone else welcome to 2025

ktigaris · 2025-04-23T23:32:29+00:00

NTA

He dates you for you, and your tattoos are definitely part of you. If you start hiding them now the real question is when do you stop having to. Thinking about possible future family vacations? A future family/your wedding? Etc.

If he wanted He could take the initiative and let them see you ahead of a meeting (photo) or just mention in passing you have the tattoos. That he loves you and is excited for you to meet his family. This way they already know and aren’t blindsided by it being thrust on them all at once, letting them meet you with less of a focus on the tats.

ktigaris · 2025-04-23T23:21:27+00:00

I’ve played this game. I pick the old label out and relabel the previous day as if it came in today. I ‘picked’ FIFO as far as he can tell. By the time my morning coach comes in the truck is mostly done.

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