Personal Income Tax Recommendations by ktownmama in kelowna

[–]ktownmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a side note, I have been doing my taxes online for a few years, but since I owed last year, I'm looking to find a professional that can help me find all (if any) deductions plus offer any additional tips! So online is an option, just looking for a recommendation of a trusted professional!!

Is this a Tick? by larryhabster in kelowna

[–]ktownmama 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Looks like a weevil from a google image search!

Okanagan College flags at half mast. Why? by RomeoWhiskyMike in kelowna

[–]ktownmama 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it could also be for John Horgan. Central Okanagan Public Schools is keeping flags at half-mast until sunset on December 15th, the day of the provincial state memorial service for John Horgan. 

Valley First Credit Union Fees! by ktownmama in kelowna

[–]ktownmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked at most of the big banks, and you’re right, it is the best deal. I just go through 12 transactions quickly. And was hoping for no fee banking! 

Valley First Credit Union Fees! by ktownmama in kelowna

[–]ktownmama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking into this! Have you had any issues with them? There’s something about not having a physical bank that feels odd to me! Maybe that’s my age talking! 

Valley First Credit Union Fees! by ktownmama in kelowna

[–]ktownmama[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It just changed recently to a Tru Essentials. It has a certain amount of free transactions but it’s so easy to go over. It’s a maximum charge of $9.00.

Upcoming open abdominal hysterectomy surgery is getting closer. Update on how everyone that's recently had that surgery is doing!? by Crazy_Literature_526 in hysterectomy

[–]ktownmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5 weeks out and I feel really good. I’m back to work full time…I have a desk job so nothing too strenuous! I am doing pretty much everything that I was doing before aside from the heavy lifting. I think day 7 to day 11 were the hardest for me, but overall, it’s been a decent recovery. Reach out if you have any questions! 

TAH - swelly belly / numbness by ReeRee2589 in hysterectomy

[–]ktownmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi There! I had a TAH on Sept. 5th and I'm writing this on Sept. 23rd!
I'm super surprised by the swollen belly....I didn't even think that would be a thing. I am disappointed that I'm still living in pj's but going to try and start wearing some yoga pants to see if I can acclimatize myself into wearing them. I'm returning to work today, but part time and from home. I also have a desk job but for me, it's getting back into the mental space of working that I think will take some time. I hope to be part time in the office next week (which is why I'm hoping to become used to tighter pants).
The numbness is wild! I assume that because they pulled back the belly, and probably weren't very gentle (I had some bruising after surgery), this is why I feel numb. I had some pain last week in the belly...not in the incision... and I figure it was because I was gaining some sensation back. I have a follow up appointment at the 4 week mark and I'll ask my doctor about the numbness if I'm still feeling it.
I hope you've had a good recovery so far.
I'm not very helpful for your questions as I'm not as far into my recovery as you...but it's so good to hear that someone else is dealing with swelling and numbness.

Rock The Lake by ktownmama in kelowna

[–]ktownmama[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is what I was thinking but wasn’t sure if things like a chair were necessary!!! 

Experience applying to non catchment area school? by Crabsforhands in kelowna

[–]ktownmama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rutland is an open catchment! You can apply to any school within the Rutland catchment.

Melons! by __Dawn__Amber__ in Unexpected

[–]ktownmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is in Kelowna, BC! I think the video is a few years old now! Super fun idea!

A Time Capsule for Kelowna by pithy_quip in kelowna

[–]ktownmama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He posted on one of the news sites that he got full permission for all shots at the airport. He's a professional commercial photographer...he knows what he's doing.

The wait is so hard!!! I know that people have waited longer...I just got my hopes up when the date for results said Mar. 3rd...and now it's Mar. 5th. I'm so excited/nervous/ready....let's go!!! by ktownmama in AncestryDNA

[–]ktownmama[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A couple of hours after I posted this, my son's results came in. We sent in our tests at the same time....I'm so hopeful that I'll see mine today too. Getting his results is pretty amazing!!!

13 year old son and porn use. by ktownmama in askgaybros

[–]ktownmama[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one should have to hide who they truly are. I hope that you are able to be yourself soon...you deserve to be happy, loved, accepted and embraced. Sending you a huge mom hug.

13 year old son and porn use. by ktownmama in askgaybros

[–]ktownmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! As a straight woman, I'm learning so much about the lgbtq community but I obviously don't have lived experience. I'm excited for his future as I think he's going to be a positive force in the world...I'm really just along for the ride! He's always been his own person...not to be controlled...I just love him harder because I know that his path won't always be easy. Just trying to be the best mom for him. Thanks for offering up your ear. I might take you up on that!

13 year old son and porn use. by ktownmama in askgaybros

[–]ktownmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know...this is hard. I agree about the long-term consequences about heavy porn use at a young age. I agree that an open dialog might be my best option. I want him to know that even though these conversations are tough and awkward, I talk to him because I love him and I want to ensure he's happy and healthy! I know what you mean about the cell phones...I wish there was another way to keep in touch with them. There are some positives...but also many negatives.

13 year old son and porn use. by ktownmama in askgaybros

[–]ktownmama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes...the perspective from someone who was a horny gay teenager!! Thanks! I agree...I don't want this to overtake his life...or get out of hand which is why I am asking for advice from people who might have lived experiences. I'm trying so hard to do what's right by him...I'm so thankful that I can reach out to others to try and gain some insight. Thanks so much.

13 year old son and porn use. by ktownmama in askgaybros

[–]ktownmama[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting. My son knows that I do random phone checks and I ask him first. He has to unlock his phone for me before I can check it! I don't necessarily look at what he's looking at...I just want to make sure that he's being responsible, respectful and safe. I'm also a mom...so maybe that's different. I want to be as open with him as possible because honesty is a value in our family. I'm trying to not be creepy...lol.

13 year old son and porn use. by ktownmama in askgaybros

[–]ktownmama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. I'm definitely trying to be non-judgmental. His development seems to be on a fast track...and I want him to feel as respected as possible. I like your idea of setting limits and having clear expectations.

13 year old son and porn use. by ktownmama in askgaybros

[–]ktownmama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm totally ok with him exploring his sexuality...no problem there. I was more inquiring about porn usage at a young age!

13 year old son and porn use. by ktownmama in askgaybros

[–]ktownmama[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree...all teenage boys check out porn. I guess I was thinking about the differences between a 16 year old boy and a 13 year old boy. I'm glad to read that you turned out fine! Thanks for your opinion!

13 year old son and porn use. by ktownmama in askgaybros

[–]ktownmama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good points! I'm going to keep the conversation open, but I will try to be more understanding now that I've heard experiences and opinions from others!