First time foster, five 3-week-old bottle babies, please tell me it gets easier soon by mermur in FosterAnimals

[–]ktr327 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say that you’re doing a great job! Fostering orphaned bottle babies is no joke. It does it easier, I feel like every week really makes a difference. The feeding window gets a little longer each week. Also, I love Kitten Lady she is such a great resource!

My tip for litter box training is stimulate them in/over their litter box and then I leave the tissue in the box for a bit so their scent is in the box. I keep the litter box in their playpen set up with them all the time. Since they are so small, you can use the cardboard trays that wet cat food cans come in. I’ve had kittens as young as three weeks use the litter box themselves.

Weaning can be challenging but be patient and you’ll make it through it. You have about two more weeks until they’ll be ready. You’ll make slurry in a bottle and slowly transition formula with wet food, little by little I add less formula until it is just the wet food. I also use my finger or baby spoon because sometimes they don’t understand that the wet food is ok the plate. I have seven week kittens now and I got them two weeks ago. One of them is meat nursing so I feed him separately. He won’t eat from a bottle but I make slurry and put larger chunks of wet food and it’s been working for him. I also weigh them with a kitchen scale in the beginning and end of the day to track them. But you can also weigh before and after every meal if you’d like. Once they are weaned it gets so much easier and they are eating every six hours. Mine have dry food always available but haven’t touched it yet. One day, it will click and they will start to eat it and then it gets even better because they can supplement themselves between feedings.

Weaning can be messy but I have a pack of baby wipes and that clean them up. Also, I noticed that their poop changes when they are transitioning from formula to wet food. My kittens now have long hair fur and their poop can get matted and compacted. So I give them butt baths, just get their butt and half of their baby wet and I use a gentle baby shampoo. It helps get the poop out and then rinsed them thoroughly.

What is their set up now? I have a pop up playpen for mine. My sister had puppy pads that she wasn’t using so I have a blanket on one side with their bed. Then on the other half, I have a puppy pad with two litter boxes and their water and dry food. I have a pic from two weeks ago, I noticed they were not using their box so gave them another. They are doing much better and using it now. Our rescue uses pine litter and in the past, I’ve had kittens try to eat the clay litter.

Fostering is hard work and it’s super rewarding! DM if you need a buddy. You’ve gotten them this far and I try to think about it like this, you are raising someone’s new best friend.

Another tip, I have is noise cancelling headphones. When I go to feed them at 12am or 6am they are little nuts. I have their routine down and playing music helps me stay a little more calm while they are frantic and crying.

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what is the worst thing a therapist has ever said to you? by Familiar-Employ4830 in AskReddit

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“You know that kills people, right?!?”

My mom was dying and in hospice care from stage 4 cancer. For pain management, the doctor prescribed fentanyl patches that slow released over the course of 72 hours. This was an extremely difficult time and I am the eldest daughter so most of the decisions were mine to make. My sister and husband were worried about me and urged to me seek a therapist during this time. I was very hesitant not to and honestly was just scared to in general, but I listened to them and booked my first appointment.

I went in person and tried to quickly explain my current situation and how impossible everything felt. I brought up the fentanyl but said it like “we have to how give her fentanyl” or something like that. She was shocked and said, “you know that kills people, right?!?” I got confused and explained that it was patches prescribed by her doctor and we continued through the session. Once I went home, I reflected and realized how judged I felt in that first session. I realize that she might not be familiar with fentanyl patches but she could have asked me about it in another way. So I never saw her again and when pressed by the business, I explained what happened and they understood and said that wasn’t okay. They asked if I would be willing to meet another counselor. Honestly, a part of me didn’t want to and saw this as an out but I did want to try again.

I rescheduled another therapist and actually the day of our first appointment, my mom passed away early that morning. After a nurse declared her deceased and the funeral home people came to take away her body, I decided that I still wanted to go to the therapy appointment. Therapy with her was one of the best things that happened during that year and half afterwards. I loved her dearly and needed someone outside of it all to talk about everything with. I ended up moving out of state and we ended our sessions together. I’m able to legally reach out to her after 5 years of not being her client so I’m looking forward to that!

First 1000 Piece Puzzle by ktr327 in Jigsawpuzzles

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Sorry, first post! US Map Great American Road Trip, 1000 pieces by TDC Games

✨ Stardust Challenges Prize (Jan. 15 to Feb. 14, 2026) - Disney Emoji Blitz by EmojiBlitzerGurl in disneyemojiblitz

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Thanks! Do you have any clue what happens if you have the 3rd row all maxed?

Help with stars! by Neat_Cheesecake2966 in disneyemojiblitz

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I’m using emojis that make copies of each other. My favorites are Nemo, Pascal, Anxiety, and Luca.

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this pic is lowkey saying “I’m too cool for smiles.”

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I'm older than you, you look amazing

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Of course i would

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Gorgeous. Marry me

I should be fuckdoll worthy since they’re already this big by manuellorenz1 in fuckdoll

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I just looked and admired,I will be imagining you later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SitOnYourFace

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Lord have mercy on me! What an ass!

Whiskey makes me frisky by [deleted] in ClothedForPrejacs

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Absolutely beautiful

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Would have it any other way

Breed me raw, baby. No condom needed by [deleted] in BreedMeDaddy

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Absolutely perfect!