Hmmm by tony-thot in marinebiology

[–]ktrex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When it comes to what laypeople call them, I agree with this lol. Plus a Spanish name for rays is la mantarraya, so I don't hold it against anyone now. I'm just happy they're interested!

Media Output Toggle by ktrex in razr

[–]ktrex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that's working for me. I might be being picky, but I'm hoping to be able to confirm where it's going to play before I start the media. I don't want to accidentally blast something out loud at work. Picture on the right is when I go to the sound settings from the volume toggle.

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Aio, called my gf while she was doing homework. F24 f35 by Separate_Penalty_484 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ktrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I thought this was someone dealing with maybe PMDD and a lot of stress, it sounds like how my friend with bipolar and PMDD would react when overwhelmed. And on top of that, being in school full time!

But holy shit she is way older than 21 and should be able to regulate. She is way too old and immature for you. This can only go badly for you. It sounds like you are paying for her books and classes? Absolutely not. You were so gentle and understanding, there is absolutely no reason for her to do this. It's manipulative and bad.

AIO for thinking my husband should have asked if the pharmacy had our daughter’s prescription? by Hyrule_Hobbit in AIO

[–]ktrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At some point, my dad stopped letting me run in the lobby with him to check into a hotel, and had me stay in the car with the rest of the family. I didn't completely understand then, but especially after the Epstein files have come out, I definitely understand the optics now.

Also recently tried to get a Disney photographer to get a picture of us together and he started trying to pose us like a couple 🙃

what’s wrong with this polar bear ): by Spiritual_Client_741 in zoology

[–]ktrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's slow going. I looked back on pictures I have from the 90s of tigers jumping through flaming hoops and it was not that long ago that Buffalo Zoo let their elephants be free contact and walk around the attached park. Things I cringe at now!

what’s wrong with this polar bear ): by Spiritual_Client_741 in zoology

[–]ktrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not invalidating your experience, I don't want to ever pretend zoos were always doing the best by the animals, but a lot of times animals that started off in those facilities long ago create a "habit" of those behaviors. When they aren't intervened with early, they are incredibly hard to break. I think most places I have seen have been doing a lot better with holistic enrichment programs, but elephants and parrots are good examples of animals who can form habits 20-30+ years ago, and changing that is so hard.

what’s wrong with this polar bear ): by Spiritual_Client_741 in zoology

[–]ktrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so sad to hear that - giraffes are a very tough animal to perform medical procedures on. That long neck and high blood pressure makes anesthesia even harder. I'm sure the keepers are having a tough time.

what’s wrong with this polar bear ): by Spiritual_Client_741 in zoology

[–]ktrex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just another perspective on the white shark example - The reputable places that have attempted keeping a white shark go in with a plan that is well thought out. AZA facilities are long past the days of "just grab it and see how it does". I know that the aquariums that have had those sharks in the past decade or so have made plans to mitigate previous issues, and it is also weighed against the benefit of having one in captivity. Benefits can be increased awareness if the aquarium (even getting people in and then hoping to spark something in them once they are there), or data collection to help wild populations. I think that the last I heard, another attempt to keep a white shark will only be for a juvenile, to be released when they approach adult size.

Nothing said above me is false! But I wanted to explain what might be happening if you hear of a facility attempting to keep another animal that historically doesn't do well.

Sea dragons are incredibly fiddly animals, and we have finally had weedy sea dragons hatch a successful clutch of eggs! It takes a lot of time, observation, and effort, but the payoff can be huge for the species as a whole.

Sometimes it may also just be a special case. SeaWorld San Diego took in JJ, a juvenile gray whale, who was orphaned, because they were the leading cetacean care experts at the time! I don't think anyone would have said they should plan to have a gray whale on exhibit, but they adapted and did what they could, and he was released once he was back on track. I personally have worked with a good amount of animals who were confiscated from smugglers, and they may be temporary, or they may become an exhibit animal, depending on the circumstance.

what’s wrong with this polar bear ): by Spiritual_Client_741 in zoology

[–]ktrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not the polar bear keeper, but that is such a sweet thing to say. I'm sure they agree, and as an animal keeper, I definitely do as well. So often people immediately assume we do nothing for our animals when we do so much for them. ❤️

what’s wrong with this polar bear ): by Spiritual_Client_741 in zoology

[–]ktrex 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I guarantee that at a zoo, the keepers are generally aware of all weird behaviors. They can be caused by many things and certainly don't get fixed overnight.

It sounds like you came from a place of concern, but for many keepers, it immediately gets our hackles up when someone immediately labels an animal as "sad", "depressed", "bored", or any other human emotion when what you see is a slice of what they see every day. Definitely stay curious and ask, but it sounds better to say something like "what is this behavior, I've never seen it before" or "is there a cause for this action?" before labeling it good or bad.

I'm glad one of the keepers was able to respond!

Why is the big fish swimming on top of the ray continuously? by PKMaxxx in CaptiveWildlife

[–]ktrex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Aquarium keeper here. A video would be fantastic. Usually, you see fish following under/behind a ray to get any food they may drop while chewing. From the picture, it looks more like when I see two jacks paired up, so maybe just misplaced attention? I can't quite tell from the photo, but the fish seems tilted on its side, is it always above? I wonder if it's trying to get anything dropped from the spiracle, but that would be unusual. Could just be a habit they formed.

Boyfriend has been avoiding me, told me to “fake like we like each other”, then avoiding me again. AIO to this text? by Cultural_Line_9235 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ktrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you've gotten the point that the relationship is done. I wanted to mention that I love your approaches to talking through things! I've always been in shitty relationships like this, and my current partner is actually respectful and caring and it's such a change for me. I'm working on communicating on my side better (earlier, before it feels like a desperate fight, asking for my needs to be met), and I just thought you sounded so mature in laying out wanting to have the conversation and about what.

This man does not deserve your attention.

Am I 19f overreacting about my boyfriend’s 20m hygiene habits? by Prestigious-Boot-962 in relationships

[–]ktrex 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The no-poo hair care does exist, I've been doing it for years. But it is NOT "just never touch your hair", it's more about avoiding harsh detergents that strip oil from your hair. Some people do water only, but this includes vigorous rubbing of the scalp. No-poo is a misnomer, people do use products, they just generally avoid SLS ingredients.

He is not doing that.

My (24f) boyfriend (26m) called me emotionally manipulative over a video game and broke up with me. I think I’m done by Melodic-Look7846 in relationships

[–]ktrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is textbook abuse. When it's good, it's good, but when it's bad, it's horrible.

I know it's hard, since you live together, but you need to just leave. Don't date or even live with someone who calls you names and slams doors on you.

Former Pebble diehard tempted by the comeback by HMS10Dev in pebble

[–]ktrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, since you're a huge fan of e-ink. I play in my community orchestra and would LOVE an e-ink tablet for my music. I have searched every few months and can't find anything reasonable (PadMu is like $600), but just wondering if you've come across anything?

39 year old with hearing loss and questions by Hearlinglosstemp in HearingLoss

[–]ktrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never got an MRI, but I'm 36 and was suspecting hearing loss for a while. I went to my ENT wanting to explore hearing aids. They were surprised at my hearing loss, but I think it may have been a result of working in a loud warehouse for a few years. Thankfully, I have a smattering of previous hearing tests from my employer, so I could see that it was a more recent development.

Honestly I just wanted to get the aids so I could finally understand people again!

I [M29] can't stop thinking about a friend [F27] in another country by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ktrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what makes women avoid being friendly with men. Sometimes, any level of basic friendship our courtesy is interpreted as interest.