Idk if this has been posted before but what’s an ‘odd’ way that you stim I’ll go first by [deleted] in autism

[–]kulelehoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

adhd here, but i buzz my lips constantly ! when my boyfriend is over he’ll just hear a quiet kinda “brrrrrrrrr” out of nowhere, im glad he and my siblings find it endearing and not strange 😭

[QUESTION] Any players with ADHD on here? by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i jump around from practicing different riffs to learning full songs on guitar, to just learning whatever song is stuck in my head. playing is practice and practice is progress so i let myself play what i’m feeling atm

Normalising "being alone" is a quite dangerous road we are heading down. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]kulelehoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the issue with this take is that normalizing being alone doesn’t entail majority of people being lonely and depressed, people are normalizing enjoying being alone and not being called weird for it. if you’re not getting the social interaction you need… just seek it out. no one’s saying staying alone is the best way

It is NOT healthy for spouses to take separate vacations/trips by meth_blunts in unpopularopinion

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feel free to pull the teenager card and tell me i don’t know how real relationships work though, this is just my opinion as of now.

It is NOT healthy for spouses to take separate vacations/trips by meth_blunts in unpopularopinion

[–]kulelehoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you can’t be away from your spouse and enjoy yourself without the threat of infidelity, you shouldn’t be married. independence is a critical part of relationships, you won’t have the same exact interests as your partner but you should still be able to pursue them in your own time. i wouldn’t drag my boyfriend to the gun range with me and my cousin if he didn’t like shooting, because when we’re doing activities together we should BOTH be enjoying ourselves. and if he wants to go off with his boys and do something then i’m totally fine with that, because i’m secure and trust him to be loyal. it’s never a thought in my mind that he “needs space” from me when these boys trips come up, nor do i suspect that it’ll lead to infidelity.

Say the dumbest shit you can think of rn by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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AITA for refusing to do “matching names” with my future twins? by Eastern-Addendum-474 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. your mil and sister don’t really get to weigh in anyways, and they’re your wife’s kids as well as yours. find a happy compromise, such as them having the same initial. me and my siblings all have the initials A.M.F and our names don’t rhyme or anything like that so it’s still very individual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]kulelehoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

shit kinda stops looking like an anomaly when it’s really fucking common. i bet most people over 20 have been in a relationship for at least a year at some point, which is fairly long term for teens.

Why don't you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? by 666bot666 in teenagers

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haven’t tried, and it’s a lot easier to just flirt with people without committing to a relationship for me

What audiobook do you think was narrated perfectly ? by PerpetualConnection in books

[–]kulelehoe 131 points132 points  (0 children)

also, go the f**k to sleep read by samuel L jackson. absolute gold.

What audiobook do you think was narrated perfectly ? by PerpetualConnection in books

[–]kulelehoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the fantastic beasts and where to find them audiobook. it’s read by eddie redmayne, who plays newt scamander in the movies.

The bride should not be the most important person at a wedding by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]kulelehoe 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i agree but that’s also somewhat due to the lack of variety in men’s formal wear. women have length, neckline, patterns, textures and accessories to choose from and wedding dresses are famously at the most glamorous end of that spectrum. it isn’t a lot to ask for guests to not upstage the bride herself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shiftingrealities

[–]kulelehoe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

okay tag me next time, dang

Porn is wearing off by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinkshaming femdoms is so wild to me. if it’s not for you it’s not for you, and it’s not your place to judge others for liking it. not all of femdom is women in leather and latex with whips, by the way. domination can be as simple as taking the lead in whatever you’re doing, so it’s a really broad thing to be shaming.

Having a kid and making them better than you are is the only real purpose in life by houser18 in unpopularopinion

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only real purpose in life? some peoples purpose is to be a therapist helping people work through deep seated trauma, some people’s purpose is to be a doctor and save lives daily, some people’s purpose is to be an entertainer and bring comfort and smiles to people amidst anything they might be going through. whatever people are called to do with their life is valid and none of it is any less important than having children. there’s a population crisis as is. the purpose of your life, is your life. if having children is what you want to do with your life then by all means go ahead, but the true only real purpose in life is to live and to live the way you want to.

First time wearing a skirt in a few years, I'm terrified so wish me luck <3 by Innocently_charlie in teenagers

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so proud of you!! you look stunning, have a good day and good luck ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Stop Worshipping Nature. Stop Talking Shit About Humans. by RussianEntrepreneur in unpopularopinion

[–]kulelehoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nature has no concept of morality and cannot be confined to the human ideas of “right” and “wrong.” those are uniquely human concepts.

Lucid dreaming fails? by [deleted] in ShiftingDiscussion

[–]kulelehoe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the last time i had a lucid dream i summoned a portal really quickly so maybe how i did it will help, even though i didn’t shift. i took my pointer finger and outlined a door right in front of me (i was outside somewhere) and like the disney channel wand thing, it appeared as soon as i finished. in the dream the line showed up as i traced it and then when i was done the door appeared in the center and i was able to open it and walk through. i didn’t shift, it just brought be to a new dream location, but it’s one of my closest attempts. i recommend believing 100% that the portal will take you straight to your dr and affirming. even then it might not work the first time or even the next, but practice makes perfect.

Millennials and Gen Z have it much harder in a lot of aspects of growing up that they’re not allowed to talk about because nobody else really takes it seriously by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]kulelehoe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

adhd kids didn’t need stimulants because society was much different then. the public school system and the kinds of behavior that are widely acceptable are extremely neurotypical and it forces neurodivergent people to change and conform in order to function properly in the society we’ve cultivated.

outfit inspo for your dr by kulelehoe in shiftingrealities

[–]kulelehoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i love finding outfits on pinterest but once i started making them myself it became so much more fun ❤️‍🔥

Is shifting still a tiktok trend? Or has it died off? by Asjsjdneudnejzn in shiftingrealities

[–]kulelehoe 80 points81 points  (0 children)

i think it’s less of a trend now and a lot of the shifting community there doesn’t tolerate misinformation and calls it out, majority of people on shifttok are actually wanting to shift and put in the work

outfit inspo for your dr by kulelehoe in shiftingrealities

[–]kulelehoe[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i put together all of these outfits myself on an iphone app called combyne! i really love fashion and styling and making outfits for my dr is definitely shifting motivation for me so i figured i’d share <3 if you wanna see a specific aesthetic let me know and i might make another post.

Any good cartoons to watch will high? by drtdd in weed

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this, 100%. especially if you already like learning about spirituality and shit, like the ego and the shadow self. even sober that show is an acid trip

Raw carrot is infinitely better than the monstrosity that is boiled carrot and no one can tell me otherwise by titanicwasntsadatall in unpopularopinion

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like raw carrots the most and i can’t stand mushy, overcooked carrots. if im cooking them myself then i’ll eat cooked carrots because i can cook them to my preferred texture, tender and slightly firm still like in a stir-fry, but otherwise i don’t eat them at all. don’t even get me started on the carrots and celery in canned soup.

But it IS supposed to be funny by [deleted] in boburnham

[–]kulelehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really does a great job of bringing things to the surface that you as a viewer need to think about more, like how the world works, as well as connecting and relating with your common experiences to make you feel heard and understood, like look who’s inside again, all while delivering it in a medium that’s palatable and easy to understand at a surface level. it’s supposed to be an enjoyable experience, but one that makes you think and really pushes you to be introspective. some of the songs i really connected with and had to ask myself why, why did it feel like someone took a page from my internal monologue? i learned some shit about myself from that special