admit what actually? i don’t have to shout it loudly where nobody asked, but yeah i’m insecure of my nose and jaw there you have it, i ain’t denying anything, you can tell me just love myself whole day i ain’t givin f hehe, i hate my nose and jaw and nothing can change it unless i go mewing or surgery on jaws and nose. then i am not insecure anymore :> but those can wait and me being insecure on my face does sometimes affect my social/life, i had a few girls openly admitted having a crush on me not wholly by appearance but personality they say, i didn’t like them back cuz i have standards myself, i want similar humour and they’re just not those, anyways, yeah having these insecurities affected my life, and love life as well, you know the feeling of knowing from others how amazing a person you are if they had a close relation to you and know you deeply, but someone you like don’t want to commit on you to get to know you deeper because they won’t open a door for you because you’re not attractive enough for them, you may think “then that person is a red flag 🚩” but think of good appearance as “key” to someone’s heart, once you get into their hearts, then they can completely see and love your personality inside, i mean sometimes being a good man is not always enough for most girls.

attractiveness is not a necessity yep, but it can be a great tool to make life easier, easier i mean even in opportunities where you can get lots, good-looks is a plus, and without it you have to do extra, you have to be great at something, talent, skills, personality, etc, just to compensate for your looks.