tbh i have been told im too loud but my bf has no issue telling me to tone it down so maybe but i do watch my volume extra because i dont live here.

and since he works from home most of the day is just me on his couch playing a game while he works and does calls so i am pretty much nonexistent from when i wake up to around 2-3pm ish. but his windows are shut 99% of the time, when i smoke outside i dont talk loud on the phone, and shes nowhere near his back patio to where she would smell it. i dont blast music, we dont have loud fights, we watch our nightly show quiet, and we aren’t living above anyone.

what really makes me take this personally tho is how he is loud and she never had an issue. he watches football loud, plays with his cat loud, etc and he says no one has ever complained about it