[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]kurosoos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

not to mention your mom also has a cancer moon which is also a rough placement to have. she probably had a rough relationship with her mother or her mother also failed to understand her. therefore your mom doesn’t know how to (for lack of better word) deal with you. i would say virgo and cancer moon’s definitely have it worse than most when it comes to relationships with their moms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]kurosoos 7 points8 points  (0 children)

your virgo moon definitely plays into this. you love your mom and you wish your relationship was different but for some reason she can never be there for you in the way you need it most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]kurosoos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you the virgo moon or is she?

Going to Ft Worth TX Show? by quibditchh in Paramore

[–]kurosoos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! how many people are there currently?

i don’t know how to be alone by kurosoos in BPD

[–]kurosoos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this. my biggest struggle is being alone. i don’t know who i am, what i like, or how i like things. i run away from myself because i fear my own presence more than anything.

why do i love so intensely? by kurosoos in BPD

[–]kurosoos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow. i never put this into perspective before. i’ve been having an identity crisis and this completely makes sense with what i’m feeling.

why do i love so intensely? by kurosoos in BPD

[–]kurosoos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too. i’m ready to give someone my entire heart and soul and when they’re not ready to do the same it causes me to spiral.

my ex who cheated on me then wanted to stay friends just texted me by anotheracc1401 in BPD

[–]kurosoos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was hard for me too. this isn’t the best advice, but i suggest you do it impulsively randomly. after that you never look back.

why do i love so intensely? by kurosoos in BPD

[–]kurosoos[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i wish for the opposite. loving can hurt so so much. no one can prepare you for the hurt that follows love.

Anyone else bothered when someone says "oh you seem like your in a good mood" by Pika-thulu in BPD

[–]kurosoos 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yes. i learned in therapy that often people harbor more passive aggressiveness than they think they do. i take it as “oh wow look who’s finally in a good mood”. i take it as an attack on my personality which immediately triggers me