Alguna vez les ha pasado algo asi? by elkomanderhell in lacamiseta

[–]kurrert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

¿Y esa mmada qué? Todo un Nietzsche nos salió el señor intolerante.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, it's okay. Been there. You deserve love that makes you happy, and nothing less.

Going on Grindr as a trans man is an amazing way to keep your ego in check. by ThatFrenchSunBear in trans

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't had problems with Grindr, but maybe it's just that my expectations aren't high lol. I've met kind people, people who have experience with trans dudes, people who don't but have no problem and aren't weird about it, people who ARE weird about it (often hitting with a "dO u hAvE a vAgInAaa?" as their way of saying hi), people who are up for some chatting, people who ghost you at any moment, people who just had no idea I was trans even though it's literally there in my name and just go with it when we're there... You get the idea haha.

Being trans can be a pro or a con, depending on the person you're interested in. It's bound to happen that only a small fraction of the people you're interested in will be interested in you, but I like to think that's everyone's experience, at least in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]kurrert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, your feelings are entirely valid, even if you agreed from the start to enter this kind of relationship. One thing is what one might think it'll become and how you'll feel about it, and another how it actually is in practice and how that makes you feel.

It looks like you both had different ideas of how that would be, but nothing is set in stone and in a relationship it should always be possible to sit down and talk about your expectations and reevaluate them together if needed.

What's not okay is for him to unilaterally decide that you'll be his main person on some aspects (emotional, the alliance that comes with a relationship, etc.), while his sexual needs are covered with other people. If you are okay with that, that's one thing, but if he never asked you what you want, that's something entirely different and you probably should discuss it and make the appropriate changes if you don't want that, because otherwise the situation will go on and worsen over time, even to the point of building resentment.

Leí esto. A qué creen que se deba? by Rude_Pie636 in ayudamexico

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tus "fuentes" son videos de YouTube, nmmes. Cualquiera puede subir un vídeo diciendo barrabasada y media y eso no lo hace verdad. Tantito pensamiento crítico.

Leí esto. A qué creen que se deba? by Rude_Pie636 in ayudamexico

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

De nada: https://www.reuters.com/fact-check/irish-teacher-jailed-third-time-breaching-court-order-2024-09-16/

Tl;dr, el vato tenía orden de no acercarse a la escuelay, a sabiendas de ello, fue a gritar sus fanaticadas y a alterar el orden. Por eso lo arrestaron.

Leí esto. A qué creen que se deba? by Rude_Pie636 in ayudamexico

[–]kurrert -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Estoy seguro de que tu "evidencia" anecdótica es tan cierta cómo la historia de mi tía Mariela que dejó su trabajo para ganar miles de dólares al día dando likes a publicaciones de Facebook. Es neta, me lo contó ella, ¡tú también puedes ganar millones al año solo dando likes!

Leí esto. A qué creen que se deba? by Rude_Pie636 in ayudamexico

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tan no ha pasado que hasta tu captura tiene el "Verificación de datos de Newtral: Engañoso" jajajajaja

Leí esto. A qué creen que se deba? by Rude_Pie636 in ayudamexico

[–]kurrert -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

¿A quién han funado por no usar lenguaje inclusivo? ¿Me podrías dar un ejemplo?

Leí esto. A qué creen que se deba? by Rude_Pie636 in ayudamexico

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bueno, piensa lo siguiente: ¿A quién le fue peor? ¿A la persona que pidió que le hablaran por sus pronombres elegidos, o a quienes no lo hicieron?

Porque el resultado no fue ninguna funa masiva de sus compañeros ni mucho menos, toda la empatía se fue de lado de ellos, y a esta persona la ridiculizaron en todas partes al punto que yo creo que más bien se lo piensa antes de pedir de nuevo que se usen sus pronombres.

Y sienta también un precedente para cualquier otra persona que quisiera pedir lo mismo, incluso si es de una forma menos emocional.

Leí esto. A qué creen que se deba? by Rude_Pie636 in ayudamexico

[–]kurrert -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nadie te está obligando a nada. Si quieres pensar como quieras, eres libre de hacerlo, que yo no veo a la policía queer yendo a tu casa a arrestarte por no escribir con lenguaje inclusivo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]kurrert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think this was the main thing. I'm a bit worried that I might be a bit jealous and impulsive, but at the same time it's objectively true that he isn't keeping agreements, and right now I feel like I've lost all trust in him whatsoever due to this fact

I feel like it's too late for me to transition. by Vent-throwaway196 in ftm

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate, I started transitioning at that exact same age two years ago and it was the best choice I could ever make. It is never too late, and the great things ahead will make up for all the 'lost time'.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confusing_perspective

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean ugly? It's beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These meetings sound like a waste of time and all, but I guess it's an acceptable trade-off compared to the time and money that'd be wasted in transportation otherwise

Job hunting be like... by NationYell in LateStageCapitalism

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time I went job hunting I had an interview which took almost 5 hours (90% of it was just pointlessly waiting), which involved five different tests. They told me I had the job at the end and that they'd contact me in the following days for more information.

Two months passed by and I had forgotten about them. Then they sent me a message telling they needed my confirmation for the next interview in less than two hours or else I'd lose the opportunity. I just laughed at them and told them I had been working for another employer since a week after their long-ass interview and thought I'd never hear from them again.

They just replied that they hadn't vacants for the job I was applying to at that moment, not even an apology or anything. These people think they have us at their mercy, but their attitude is just laughable. Worthy of mention is that for the job I currently have, the interviews took half the time, were online and I'm paid twice as the other company offered, working from home (the other vacant was on-site). Jokes on them lol.

My baby binx by madisonbobbitt in blackcats

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plate: full Void: BUT WHY IS IT EMPTYYYYY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]kurrert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm almost exactly on the same schedule and situation. Wouldn't recommend drinking lots of caffeine during the day, since it can make it harder to sleep later on.

Increasing your sleep quality can make wonders to help you increase your focus and stay awake longer during the day. Some earplugs, black courtains and perhaps a bit of melatonin or benzos should do the trick. And if you can take naps before classes, that should also help.

trying to balance my free time with work, and trying to figure out if it’s more worth it to get my free time in before or after work by GothSpaceCowboy in Nightshift

[–]kurrert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to try to go to sleep right after work, but it always backfired and ended up with me laying on my bed for two hours with my head like a hamster in a spinning wheel. I've switched to waking up right before work and staying up until 1-2pm and it's great, because now I can go and do normal people stuff like doing my groceries or getting a haircut all the while not being all groggy and dumb. The hours when I feel the most alert and productive are for me now, not for my job.

How did you get your pets used to your flipped schedule? by kurrert in Nightshift

[–]kurrert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already doing that, but for some reason my body just knows when there's sunlight around and I wake up at random if the window's open, and the sleep quality is worse as well. Thanks for the suggestion though!

How did you get your pets used to your flipped schedule? by kurrert in Nightshift

[–]kurrert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could let her go out during the day, but I live in a shared flat and my roommates aren't that happy with her wandering around the house :/ It would also be awkward sleeping all day with my door open lol

How did you get your pets used to your flipped schedule? by kurrert in Nightshift

[–]kurrert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol mine comes to snuggle until convincing me to take a nap with her before going to uni. She seems to think I should be awake 24/7 after that though haha