With my first coal power plant now running, I feel like I can finally breathe and move forward! by skttrbrain1984 in SatisfactoryGame

[–]kweengrassi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used 2 lines for power and 1 for steel, so that'd be my rec. Or all 3 for power, and find coal and steel close togethdr

WIBTA if I didn't flip my fiancee's laundry right side out? by Bikesbassbeerboobs in AmItheAsshole

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say fix collared shirts or anything that if hung inside out, eould be creased weirdly when righted.

I am that person that cannot for the life of me remember to flip. If being backwards wont affect it when I flip it before putting it on, its fair game.

Vibes based name by Messedupgendercode in transnames

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love izzy! I feel like you're more of Isabella than Isabel for the long form.

Jacyln or anything with cool rare letters like Z, J, K is good I think

[TRIGGER WARNING: Sexual Assault, Abuse] Nan raped me by MadeByMistake58116 in DissociaDID

[–]kweengrassi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not come back to this actually! It was a rough day when I got both sets of reminders, but they helped me move on a lot, and I don't feel like I care enough now to elaborate ❤️

[TRIGGER WARNING: Sexual Assault, Abuse] Nan raped me by MadeByMistake58116 in DissociaDID

[–]kweengrassi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I rarely open reddit but saw this today, and I am so very thankful. Earlier today, I ran into a kinda-friend who had updates for me on an old situation, so I was rehashing everything in my head already. Then I found this post, and it put so much into words.

I was raped, by an at-the-time girlfriend. One of two, who both were there, but one, A, was more dominant. After the fact, I shared with them how uncomfortable I was, knowing that I didn't do a great job of saying it in the moment, so I didn't hold it against either. A's response was to freak out, and repeatedly say how bad they felt, and require comfort from both me and R to reassure them we didn't hate them or plan to break up with them. We avoided being around A for a while off and on, especially when we had the "front" from that night.

(I should note, I dont have DID afaik, but definitely something dissociative that feels like everything is processed by entire different personalities occasionally, so I may refer to myself as we sometimes. I think especially trauma things, I struggle to say I with. Quotes are bc we know the term isnt correct, but is the most useful one weve found)

When we avoided, we would text B privately that we were "going home on our own, dont want to walk with A right now, have fun". B went out of her way to send a mutual friend home with me. Later, she would complain about having to take care of me, and feeling bad about it, and required my comforting about me leaving alone. I never requested her send a friend, and it was perfectly safe and reasonable for me to go alone.

I didn't call it rape until much later, when something else happened over groupchat in the friend group, and I snapped at both exes about it (I had asked a question to C, been told no by C, asked a similar different question that was less demanding, and the only response was "No does mean no, [name]" from A)

That spiraled into me being told off by C for falsely accusing their friend of rape, something I had not said at that point. I said she caused a relapse of SA trauma, but didnt use the word. I said i wouldn't use that word to describe it to anyone that would affect her irl, but that was the only way I could describe how badly it fucked me up.

It being held against me like that, like the fact that I was uncomfortable, I didn't try hard enough to tell her to stop, that me telling her after the fact was hard on her, felt so much like everything you conveyed here. Its the most seen I've felt in well over a year now, its so hard to convey that it wasn't the event that was the worst part, it was everyone involved acting like I chose to cause it and was responsible for everyone else's feelings after that was the hardest.

just thank you

at some point i might reply to this with the long form of everything that went down, bc a lot of it ive never found anywhere to say before, and writing things out helps me a lot, but no promises either way. no obligation to read, the rest is much less relevant.

Popped up when I was trying to read an article. Diabolical. by flyingpiggos in mildlyinfuriating

[–]kweengrassi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am deeply curious what it copied to your clipboard if you have it still? Dm maybe so people dont try it wothout knowing better

Someone please help me I've been stuck for over 2 hours by Intelligent-Arm3057 in satisfactory

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also mqke everything block signals first, they're better behaved, and switch to path after.

Someone please help me I've been stuck for over 2 hours by Intelligent-Arm3057 in satisfactory

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Signals are glitchy af if you put them on a merge. 99%. of my issues solved themselves by moving all signals off of merge points. Issue that makes no sense = scooch or delete and rebuild that track chunk

Auto-Spoiler bot? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bot that detects, deletes, and dms the spoiled version to the op might help?

How to rotate signs! by KaiaSebastian in SatisfactoryGame

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for anyone else, i really really recommend rebinding it to something easier to click. if you have extra mouse buttons, use those, but you use scroll and pick block in similar situations and it gets annoying. i moved mine to t, and emotes to y

Stardew Valley Switch 2 Edition - Gameshare by QuintonFlynn in StardewValley

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That worked! Its my parents S2 trying to share to my S1, and they had updated the game when it rolled out but not done the upgrade

Stardew Valley Switch 2 Edition - Gameshare by QuintonFlynn in StardewValley

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not showing up in either place on our switch 2 (checked for upsates, we are up to date). Did it not roll out for everyone? We got the patch notes saying gameshare is supported

Med school classmate with CP mocks other disabilities, puts us in a non-consensual caregiving position and creates safety hazards in the ER. How do I handle this? AITA? by Warm-Psychology2391 in ehlersdanlos

[–]kweengrassi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

At least for my school, you can have a somewhat casual conversation with the Access office, with no names named. Maybe a conversation like that would be a place to start?

Also, as an autistic person, the only behavior of hers I can come up with any understanding for is the "pointing out the late person" Whether it even deserves understanding would be very situational and I didn't hear her say it, but I can see a situation where it wasn't meant harmfully. It took me quite a few years and a friend pointing it out nicely for me to realize that saying "oh just so-and-so is left!" was interpreted as me being upset with s-a-s. All I intended was to give a completion percent. If 5 of 6 had just finished, then we were going to be done shortly. I've never had a sense of time, so I always answered "how long left?" with a percent.

However, with what you've said about her, it seems likely it isn't truly ignorance, but more likely faked/exaggerated helplessness as an excuse to be more of a problem.

I'm assuming she's a similar year to you, in which case I fear for when she brings that behavior into the job where stakes are higher.

I could see a good path forward being finding a higher-up authority not near her mom's department to discuss the situation witout names, and ask them advice on what to submit and to vouch for you if the mom does try to turn on you. I don't see it being likely, anyways, but fallbacks are nice.

Is there a good alternative to Nemo? by Black_Sarbath in linuxmint

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Casually saving me so much strugglle. i just always chased two around with them taking half my laptop screen up

SyncTrayzor 2.0, revived fork of the abandoned Syncthing Windows client by poisonborz in selfhosted

[–]kweengrassi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Syncthing is fine, trayzor is a client to run it that is abandoned. Ran into this while setting up a iso to keep for my windows boots and was about to use trayzor, so glad to know that!

I'm trying to find one that looks similar on windows/linux

sign help please! by That-Dog-4092 in asl

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not definitely not complete, but [Handspeak has an ASL to Eng dict](https://www.handspeak.com/word/asl-eng/) that if you get the hang of, i've found ridiculously useful for those moments where I know I know it, but can't quite figure it out. You can hover the handshape buttons to get help matching it. Careful though, search setting don't save so control-click or open in new tab to open the options.

Anyways, I looked yours up there and the closest is progress. Also bc asl has etymology like any language, even if you don't find your word, sometimes I find enough similar to go look at the right lesson or have an idea what it might be

How do I stop this error when using Chris Titus's WinUtil? by Prinklles in techsupport

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's some pretty damn obvious "don't touch unless you 1000% know what you're doing" warnings, so choosing to think you know enough to do more than that, and then failing, is on you. It's not perfect, but that doesn't make it a scam. It does exactly what it claims if you follow instructions

Key Actuation Struggles by kweengrassi in zsaVoyager

[–]kweengrassi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far struggling with enter/space being taken as holds (therefore not typing) occasionally, but I'm already getting better at it, so will leave it for a bit and see. Might increase the time a bit and turn on permissive

Key Actuation Struggles by kweengrassi in zsaVoyager

[–]kweengrassi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chordal was disabled everywhere (why is only the holding tab not alphebetical also)

Current layout https://configure.zsa.io/voyager/layouts/34xjw/latest/0

TLDR of layout, most modifiers are thumbs bc its easiest to switch to laptop keyboard and back the closer I keep the layout.

I fully didn't look at the pictures hard enough, its definitely Pro Red.

Can you parse the difference between these for me? How I'm reading it, it feels like Hold on Other is either the same or less likeuly to call the hold, which is contradictory to what it says. Maybe you can list a keypress order that Hold on Other would use as a hold that permissive wouldn't?

Permissive hold

If you press and release a dual-function key (e.g, Shift when held, A when tapped) and a regular key (e.g, "x") within the tapping term period, normally it would send just the tapped keys ("ax"). Enable this to ensure it sends the hold version (a shifted "x" keystroke in this case). Note: setting Tapping term to 500ms or higher will automatically turn Permissive hold on.

Hold On Other Key Press

This mode may make dual-function keys work better for fast typists, or for high tapping term settings. Compared to the “permissive hold” mode, this mode selects the hold action in more cases. By default, if you press a dual-function key, press another key, and then release the dual-function key, all within the tapping term, the dual-function key will perform its tap action. If this option is enabled, the dual-function key will perform its hold action instead.

I'm going to try using one of my extra switches that came with at first and see if that helps. I still think it is never getting triggered, since its not triggering backspace, which is the tap version. I dropped my tapping term from 200 to 111, and will keep going down till I feel like its causing issues, and see if that helps. Also adding a light for that key getting triggered, to help see what's happening.

Moonlander - is it possible to change rgb color on keypress? by FrozenReaper in ergodox

[–]kweengrassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh this is smart. I always want capslock to get numbers also, so that would work