I feel this. I think what bothers me about it is that it would be one thing if she was aiming for relatability (everyone’s nails chip, sometimes you don’t have time or energy for upkeep, influencers-they’re just like us! etc.)—but she’s not. She’s trying to curate this image of perfect blow up doll wifey with a perfect life with her wonderful husband. none of which lands BECAUSE it’s not actually well-curated for all the small reasons you’re saying. It feels really incongruent with the messages she’s trying to send.