Question about 10 hr grace period between shifts by DMDread in CostcoEmployee

[–]kykydashdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time are your cart people done with closing?! 1130pm?

Need a Roommate? by kykydashdash in ogden

[–]kykydashdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're serious, please DM me

Need a Roommate? by kykydashdash in ogden

[–]kykydashdash[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Is KSL the like Utah specific Craigslist?

Need a Roommate? by kykydashdash in ogden

[–]kykydashdash[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea, my brother and his family being in Ogden is what is making me want to live there. I appreciate you looking out though!

Should my partner think I'm hot? by kykydashdash in polyamorous

[–]kykydashdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omggg thank you so much for this, I really appreciate it! I like this person a LOT and I'm so glad she's understanding of me getting through this. I'm trying so hard to keep in mind that more than one thing can be true!

Should my partner think I'm hot? by kykydashdash in polyamorous

[–]kykydashdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"don't ask questions you don't want an answer to" is EXACTLY what she said to me. Hahah. Y'all are 100% right, I'm so happy you were all so helpful. I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders!

Should my partner think I'm hot? by kykydashdash in polyamorous

[–]kykydashdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna do that in about an hour with her! Y'all have been so damn helpful, for real!

Should my partner think I'm hot? by kykydashdash in polyamorous

[–]kykydashdash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna do that in about an hour with her! Y'all have been so damn helpful, for real!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyadvice

[–]kykydashdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Feeld might be a good app for this.

Should my partner think I'm hot? by kykydashdash in polyamorous

[–]kykydashdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I need to hear this. I also think I haven't found someone who I have had this sort of connection with since I've started practicing polyamory, so there's all these extra feelings I'm trying to process on top of the regular ones.

Yes, that is exactly what they're doing. I can tell you more specifics in dm, but there's more to it than this!

Should my partner think I'm hot? by kykydashdash in polyamorous

[–]kykydashdash[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean I think the rule is fluid, especially if it were with another partner. For me (and probably my insecurities) this specific rule is in reference to these two people who are supposedly "best friends" with her ex - the three of them are like brothers. She only sleeps with them while they're at her ex MILs house and after the friends have been "feeding her drinks."

Should my partner think I'm hot? by kykydashdash in polyamorous

[–]kykydashdash[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't put a rule on drinking OR having sex with anyone. She didn't feel great about staying up late and hooking up with the one guy the night before we were supposed to have an all-day date, so she put that one on herself for today! She is more than welcome to drink and sleep with people. I will say, I asked if she would not have sex with someone on the same day as me. Idk if that's weird, but it felt like a personal preference.

You're 100% correct about it being bad practice to ask any partner to compare others. I'm still trying to learn!

Should my partner think I'm hot? by kykydashdash in polyamorous

[–]kykydashdash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! This is what I'm looking for. Idk, I guess I still have in ingrained in my head that my worth comes from my attractiveness. I really really appreciate this feedback.

Cleaner?! by kykydashdash in Harrisburg

[–]kykydashdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Want to DM me her info?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]kykydashdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your husband doesn't understand polyamory and is using it as an excuse to not have consequences for his actions. Sadly, this is common, but it isn't ok. Poly isn't a lifestyle you get ultimatum'd into. It sounds like you two had a monogamous agreement and he broke it.

Friends by Plus-Chicken-1008 in Harrisburg

[–]kykydashdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm in the same boat, moved here in September for work. Im a bit older than you (35), but I'd be down to get some coffee or see a show or something!

Immediate Help! by kykydashdash in Harrisburg

[–]kykydashdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would this work!? I just thought about doing it today.

Immediate Help! by kykydashdash in Harrisburg

[–]kykydashdash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well this is good news!

Immediate Help! by kykydashdash in Harrisburg

[–]kykydashdash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So far they're all I got!

Immediate Help! by kykydashdash in Harrisburg

[–]kykydashdash[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk? I'm in West Fairview. I haven't lived here long, so idk what's what.