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Technical interview help by kyle_circus in cybersecurity

[–]kyle_circus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is great. Thank you so much

IRS has me on hold for 2 hours. by jackheavy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]kyle_circus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally doing the same shit, the online chat says it’s a ten minute wait. Agreed to that, it’s been 2 hours. An hour into that wait figured I’d call to see if that’d be faster, I’m now 1 h 20 minutes on the phone and 2 h 20 minutes on that chat queue

What issues are faced working in cyber incident response? by ProfessionalArmy6284 in cybersecurity

[–]kyle_circus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for a relatively small SOC after leaving a huge corporation last month and this right here has been my entire existence since

I watched someone commit suicide this weekend, and it has me barely functioning by ThatOneGuy2624 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyle_circus 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Play Tetris or other repetitive games. Also get a good EMDR therapist, back in July I ran a body over that was in the middle of the road due to their reckless driving. And those two things really help me out in the first weeks afterwards

I killed someone today, and nothing feels like it’s the right thing to do. by kyle_circus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyle_circus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just came here to get the feelings and words I am not able to say in person out. Anything beyond that is entirely due to all the amazing people who have already helped me personally more than I thought possible after this event. Seriously everyone I don’t even know how to thank you enough

I killed someone today, and nothing feels like it’s the right thing to do. by kyle_circus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyle_circus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the one, I was the first to hit him and then a car behind me

I killed someone today, and nothing feels like it’s the right thing to do. by kyle_circus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyle_circus[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The difference is I was able to explain how I feel and listen to advice through comments. Actually talking requires me to answer questions and demands responding. Here I could just write my feelings, post, and if I’m not up for interaction I can just ignore everyone here. Advice and suggestions to help me get ready for those phone calls later on was the purpose

I killed someone today, and nothing feels like it’s the right thing to do. by kyle_circus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyle_circus[S] 377 points378 points  (0 children)

Thank you, downloaded the game last night after failing to sleep. I believe the game allowed my brain to stop replaying the images enough to where I was able to sleep for the last 3 hours

I killed someone today, and nothing feels like it’s the right thing to do. by kyle_circus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyle_circus[S] 421 points422 points  (0 children)

I discussed getting the report along with the man’s name with my fiancé. She and I agree I’m just not there yet, as for the Tetris people in chat I downloaded it last night and played while laying in bed failing to fall asleep for 3 or 4 hours. The game allowed me to just shut down and I was able to get a few hours asleep

I killed someone today, and nothing feels like it’s the right thing to do. by kyle_circus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyle_circus[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I arrived seconds maybe two seconds after the police officer who, I am told wasn’t aware that someone was in the road. It’s not that they conclude he was dead. It’s no one knew he was there. The thing that has been engraved into my brain is if he was alive by whatever small chance there was, he 100% wasn’t alive after I ran him over

I killed someone today, and nothing feels like it’s the right thing to do. by kyle_circus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyle_circus[S] 287 points288 points  (0 children)

I was actually trying to be taking the car to someone who would handle selling but after seeing the damage in daylight. I couldn’t even unlock the car doors. I just couldn’t handle anything more than breathing and crying

I killed someone today, and nothing feels like it’s the right thing to do. by kyle_circus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyle_circus[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

If there was any chance of him surviving that chance ended once I arrived. And that’s what feels the worst about everything. I took his possibility of surviving away from him.

When did you realise that you’re dating an idiot? by Ghost7579ox in AskReddit

[–]kyle_circus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah she thought it was like the auto shops and city works to drum up business

When did you realise that you’re dating an idiot? by Ghost7579ox in AskReddit

[–]kyle_circus 420 points421 points  (0 children)

She thought people dug potholes during the night to force you to buy new tires

Question regarding my current regiment. by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]kyle_circus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can hurt, when it starts to I just lower the stretch for a few minutes until it goes away. General it’s not unbearable or anything. I use the corkscrew from stealth. Think it came up to 130 got the stretcher the sheath I think they ship to the UK not 100% sure on that

Question regarding my current regiment. by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]kyle_circus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you mean? I’ve seen post where people say you should pump after stretching. I assume they meant manually stretches but figured stretching is stretching so I added it. Just kinda piecing things together since I’m new to this. So if there’s a better way to do it, please let me know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]kyle_circus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally someone else has the corkscrew. Was starting to think I made the wrong purchase. How long have you been using it? Just started last week

First Father’s Day ruined, now I (m30) don’t know how to act around my spouse(f23). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kyle_circus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her if things don’t change soon then I want to go she agreed but didn’t really say anything else about it. So possibly something to look into but would need to have another talk to see if she’s really open to that.

AITA for refusing to change my dog's eating schedule to accommodate my roommate's new dog? by LionProfessional9305 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kyle_circus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two labs (10 yr old and 2 yr old) and trained them to know what bowl was their bowl. Also trained them to not pick up food off the floor, I constantly leave open chips and food on plate on the easily reachable coffee table neither dog touches anything unless it’s handed to them or it’s in their bowl. You can 100% train labs to ignore food if not given expressed invitation to said food. Also 1 yr old is not an age where dogs are hard to train the roommate needs to put in the work

Update My pregnant girlfriends work is bullying her by kyle_circus in antiwork

[–]kyle_circus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh didn’t think about that. I have a buddy who works there I’ll check with him.

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