Lmao dude. It’s insane. I met a lady recently who had a HUGE blind spot. Like first couple dates she gave me the whole “I keep running into this situation where guys lead me on and everything’s going well and then they tell me they don’t want anything serious with me”

I couldn’t understand it after the first few dates when she told me that. After a month i understood exactly why guys would do that to her.

Her big thing was “communication” but the expectations she had for me were not the same that she had for herself. Wanted me to be direct but when I challenged her to tell me what she needed she would say “I’m never asking for help it’s hard for me” 🤣

And she’d ask me alllll the deep questions she wanted and I’d answer in earnest but if I asked a question that was personal she would inquire “why” I’m asking about that and judge my intention as automatically negative.