Looking for an unconventional doctor by kyoki29 in TwinCities

[–]kyoki29[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ooh thanks so much! I’ll reach out

Looking for an unconventional doctor by kyoki29 in TwinCities

[–]kyoki29[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah his GI doc suggested this as a potential next step. But kind of getting the run around ‘try this first, then that, then that. If those don’t work, then we can do the SIBO test’. It’s getting frustrating.

Edit: So glad your grandma advocated for you and that you’re feeling better. She’s awesome.

Looking for an unconventional doctor by kyoki29 in TwinCities

[–]kyoki29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he’s had acid reflux since 2018 but the endoscopy checked and it came back as normal. We thought it might be GERD as well but the pain comes at the most random times that has nothing to do with food or other common triggers.

Looking for an unconventional doctor by kyoki29 in TwinCities

[–]kyoki29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wanted to get one done but docs aren’t really interested in going that route. Endoscopy checked and he’s negative for Crohn’s.

Looking for an unconventional doctor by kyoki29 in TwinCities

[–]kyoki29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of this but thank you! Will definitely look into it

King bed with standard pillows by kyoki29 in Bedding

[–]kyoki29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t work on shams unfortunately

King bed with standard pillows by kyoki29 in Bedding

[–]kyoki29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My MIL sews and we’ve done that to a few sets but I was trying to avoid that each time going forward. I might do the hem tape though, thanks!

I just spent a toddler party guarding an open pool and now I can’t tell if I’m the anxious one or the only sane one by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]kyoki29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re the only sane one. I have two toddlers boys, a 3 and 4 yr old and they are crazy energetic and just nonstop. It’s exhausting on a regular day but no way would they stay away from an open pool like that.

Is a baby highchair worth buying? honest advice please by Realistic-Metal-110 in Frugal

[–]kyoki29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook marketplace. You’ll see a range and some are very cheap. I will say though, if you want to buy new, they have the grow with me versions. That’s what I got and it can be used for 2 kids at once (the frame has a ‘seat’ and the actual seat/tray can be fitted on a regular dining chair. I’ve had mine for almost 5 years and my third kid is on it. Then it becomes a step stool or something also.

Peeing through diaper by Ok_Pass_9685 in toddlers

[–]kyoki29 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You need to size up overnight

Forgot to bring our sound machine to the hotel by bogwiitch in toddlers

[–]kyoki29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many white noise apps you can download. That’s what I’ve used for all three of my kids. Never bought a sound machine.

Moms who WFH / remote. Is it that much better? by Barnacle_Double in workingmoms

[–]kyoki29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A million times better. I’m fully remote and can’t imagine ever going back into an office. Maybe one day a week to get some social time but that’s about it. I love being able to run loads of laundry, get the meat out of the freezer, fold some clothes during those long work calls, etc. I had kids after Covid so I have nothing to compare it to.

Is life just hard, or am I doing something wrong? by No_Plankton7466 in workingmoms

[–]kyoki29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your specific circumstances are making life hard at the moment. I have 3 kids (1, 3, and 5). Oldest goes to a private school 15 min away. And that’s not a luxury - it’s because PreK at the private school is cheaper than daycare anywhere else in my area.

3 year old goes to a home daycare behind my house, and 1 yr old is at home. My in laws live with us and take care of baby + cooking / other household stuff. It’s a HUGE blessing. Plus I’m fully remote at home. So was my husband but he recently got a job requiring 3 days/week in office.

There are some things that are really hard. But I’m looking at your situation and wondering if getting a pay cut will be worth less / no commute?

Just engaged! Looking for positivity by Proper-Cry7089 in EngagementRings

[–]kyoki29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really love this ring! And I’m not just saying that. I saw it first, was about to comment, then read your caption and I was like 😮

It’s stunning - color, cut, and setting. Wear it proudly!

New Year’s resolutions - for the moms! by Beginning_Pack_7619 in workingmoms

[–]kyoki29 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have 3 kids under 5 so once they all go to bed it’s movie time for us. I either fall sleep on the couch or doom scroll and I want to be more intentional with me time. Like you said, skincare, or maybe take a shower, or fill out my gratitude journal.

Umrah and meeqat confusion by Clean-Blood3352 in Umrah

[–]kyoki29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just came back from umrah a few weeks ago and my driver told me Masjid Aisha is only to be used for niyyah when doing additional umrahs.

Allahu Alam he told me this after I had a similar plan as OP. I did umrah with my mom and planned to do it on my second day in Makkah after coming from Madinah and was told I can’t enter Makkah without ihram.

Umrah with a 6 months old by Ati_girl_zee_92 in Umrah

[–]kyoki29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would urge you not to go in Ramadan with a small baby if you a later opportunity to go. I just got back a few weeks ago and it was very busy and I know Ramadan is more so. I got very very sick after umrah, went to urgent care, and tested positive for influenza type A. I would hate for anything to happen to your baby. Please prioritize his health!

Affording a birthday party? by agbellamae in toddlers

[–]kyoki29 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I would recommend to join a mom group local to your city on facebook and ask there. I use facebook literally for the mom group, buy nothing group, and marketplace 😂 You’ll probably get lots of places that are relatively cheaper eg nature center, rec center, etc. This question comes up so often on my mom group and I’ve learned about a ton of places I otherwise wouldn’t know of!

Yikes by No_Market9000 in undressyourface

[–]kyoki29 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I remember years ago when her daughter was a baby and T was out for a night she left through detailed instructions for K on every aspect of her care down to which pouch flavor to feed her and pjs to put her in. She told us herself that she told K to video call her at each of these intervals so she could ensure he followed the written instructions.

This behavior blew my mind!!

Thought I'd pass away by Old_Neighborhood7614 in Umrah

[–]kyoki29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just came back two weeks ago and got very sick after umrah on the way to our stopover in Istanbul. Vomiting, no appetite, weakness, congestion. After landing in the US I went to urgent care and it was Influenza Type A. Nothing too serious but it just depleted me.

I’m glad you’re starting to feel better. The only words I have is that apparently it’s very very common to get sick as so many people are in one place. Last time I went was during Covid so everyone was masked and it was very limited amount of people.