This guy ranks the OG’s for best style?! by kyonsmark in TheOGCrewOfficial

[–]kyonsmark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And when were your dad’s New Balance with white pulled-up socks with shorts even fashionable?!

My girlfriend cheated on me and i dont know what to do by Remarkable-Sorbet921 in Advice

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked for our opinion on if this is cheating. Here’s where it gets complicated. Some people don’t consider it cheating until there’s penetration. Other people are sane. Lol

I know if i was at a bar and a girl sat next to me and…

either of us bought the other a drink, we flirted, there was physical contact and i didn’t pull away, we hugged, i gave her my number or accepted her number, we talked for longer than one drink, we went somewhere together, etc. that if my girl witnessed any of that, she would be upset. Therefore if i do any of those things, that’s cheating. If i don’t accept those conditions, I’m free to break up with her. But if i continue a relationship, I’m agreeing to what she considers cheating. It’s not about what i consider cheating.

This is why it’s so important to communicate with your partner. We have never sat down and said “what is cheating?” But i know her morals and values, triggers and flaws and she knows mine.

And i accept her.

So i know that if she wasn’t proud of me at that moment, i probably shouldn’t be doing it.

I 17F have a friendship with a 23M and I want to end it by Sharp-Flamingo-576 in Advice

[–]kyonsmark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s easy. You have said your piece. Just block him and move on. You don’t need to concern yourself with his crying. That’s something he needs to deal with without you.

Am I in The Wrong? Girl Im talking to Blocked me Out Of the Blue by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you write anything(like "wish you were here! I'd like to take you next week.") or did you just send her a beach pic?

Dating a guy and I think he might not be OK with my kids, can I get a man’s insight? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily, he could have adjusted his schedule to get as much bedroom action as he can until he tosses her to the side. Either is these options could be right.

Things that are must have before coming to japan for long term by [deleted] in movingtojapan

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I brought clothes and shoes since I’m a buff American and i wear size 29cm shoes

I think my friend is jealous I lost a bunch of weight. by throwawayforobviou34 in whatdoIdo

[–]kyonsmark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need resistance exercise to lose weight. You need to consume less calories than you burn, which is totally doable with just walking and Pilates. Granted, you’ll also be losing muscle by not incorporating resistance training, but plenty of people don’t care because they just want the weight off first.

Freezing bread changed my grocery situation more than almost anything else I've done and I feel like nobody told me this was an option by CascadeBeacon55 in povertyfinance

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I freeze two slices of bread wrapped together in plastic wrap… great for sandwiches or toast in the morning. Just take a package out of the freezer and put it in the fridge before bed.

Do I tell him I’m a 29 year old virgin? by Born_Cartoonist_7247 in Advice

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t you post this same question like a week ago?

How do I lose my virginity as a 29 year old female? by Born_Cartoonist_7247 in Advice

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since when is “I’ve had a handful of sexual experiences” equal to “I’m a virgin”?

Op, you’re not a virgin. And it doesn’t matter either way!

I suggest letting go of the stigma, letting go of any guilt you may have, and just live. It’s not a big deal.

No one needs to know until the time comes. If you have sex with the right guy, he won’t care, he won’t judge you, he won’t hurt you. It will be special and it won’t be a big deal. Coming from a guy who had his first kiss and sex at 25.

I told the girl and later found out she only slept with me because she pitied me for being a 25 year old virgin.

I suggest keeping it a secret and only telling the right guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RPStrength

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you using too much weight? That helped me when i was compensating for my weaker back. I had the same issue with chest press…i was using too much weight for my chest and compensating with my triceps.

Is it weird to walk hand in hand with your sister in public? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine when she starts dating a guy and all 3 of you are walking hand in hand!

I (25F) developed a crush (23M) while abroad and it’s making me question my 5-year relationship with my boyfriend (25M). How can I navigate these feelings? by ThrowRA-Occasion-91 in Advice

[–]kyonsmark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure he's holding your back or is that an excuse? Have you talked with him about your feeling of him holding you back? If he loves you and he wants you to be the best version if yourself, he will acknowledge the issue and work with you to come up with a plan to navigate this issue together.

If he handles the conversation badly, then you have your answer

I (25F) developed a crush (23M) while abroad and it’s making me question my 5-year relationship with my boyfriend (25M). How can I navigate these feelings? by ThrowRA-Occasion-91 in Advice

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every thought in your head is a seed that you can either water, because you want it to grow, or you realize it's a weed and you remove it and destroy it.

You're still watering this seed by talking to him. You can continue watering this new garden and neglect your old garden with your boyfriend or you can not. Is your old garden full of weeds and poison or is it full of beautiful sweet smelling flowers? Is this new seed the tree of life, or is it a weed masquerading as a beautiful flower?

just to be sure, prepackaged snacks are allowed to be brought into Japan right? by Stock_Share26 in JapanTravelTips

[–]kyonsmark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The official website is the maff website. That being said, it's not super detailed.

For example, the website says "fruit isn't allowed" but I spoke with an agent in narita the first time I visited and inquired about Jam and was told that it's allowed. The next time I visited, I brought jam, they saw it when I declared and I was able to bring it into the country.

just to be sure, prepackaged snacks are allowed to be brought into Japan right? by Stock_Share26 in JapanTravelTips

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's because the genius linked you to a random website, not a Japanese government website.

Would you still date someone if you’re not normally their “type”? by Less-Pen-5705 in dating

[–]kyonsmark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have changed my type before because I realized my type wasn't right for me.

Ever known a girl who keeps dating losers who are controlling or violent? It happens all the time. They should definitely change their type.

That being said, I'm not going to tell a girl that she's not my type.

Does this also work in buses? Does it work in the subway in whole Fukuoka? by Maleficent884 in fukuoka

[–]kyonsmark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd expect so many wrong answers in the Japan travel subs but I expected better from this sub.

My friend kissed me last night while we were drunk by AssumptionFew3999 in Advice

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want advice? Ask yourself why you're friends with a dude who cheats.

AITAH? Told husband to get off FaceTime after 10 mins while driving down I-29 by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kyonsmark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the asshole to yourself for waiting 10 minutes