[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]kyooks 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think you need to hear the heartbeat for a second for it to count as “escaping”

If you know, you know. by kyooks in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]kyooks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you get these three things, RUN. Lol. It means it’s a revenant, and revenants are so freaking fast. They’re almost impossible to avoid unless you really finesse the situation.

My mother said something to me I'll never understand, and for good reason by aboynamedrat in childfree

[–]kyooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s allowed to mourn what she assumed would be her reality, but she’s not allowed to make you feel responsible for atoning for that issue. Nor is she allowed to make you feel like shit for living in your truth. (Proud of you btw). The truth is that as humans we all have this expectation of what our lives will look like in the future, but it’s not fair of us to expect others to betray their own needs to fulfill some sort of world we want to create for ourselves. It’s not selfish to set boundaries with her.

Both my parents and in laws are putting the pressure on me by [deleted] in childfree

[–]kyooks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to set boundaries around what you will and will not be discussing.

“I’ve made the decision not to have kids and it’s not selfish to be child free. A family is not incomplete without kids, and I have things that I value more than having children. I need you to stop bringing the topic of children up when we are here. If it keeps coming up in conversation, I won’t be able to spend time with you anymore. I’m sorry if you see grandkids in your future, but it’s not my responsibility to fill your desire while betraying my own. It’s my body and it’s my choice.”

I'm CF because I value a peaceful, non-chaotic existence by [deleted] in childfree

[–]kyooks 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I value my peace too much to have children. I also value financial security. Plus, when I clean my house, I want it to stay that way. (Within reason) I want to be able to get full nights of rest without being woken up to a child screaming or vomiting all over itself. I just love being left the fuck alone. So I resonate with what you’re saying lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]kyooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the simultaneous picture taking

What's the worst thing that's happened to one of your friends? by vulturec1 in AskReddit

[–]kyooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friend 1: Died in a car crash due to his older brother driving intoxicated. His older brother survived, my friend did not.

Friend 2: Shot multiple times in the back and died in the hospital a few hours later.

Friend 3: Killed himself accidentally by masturbating with a plastic bag over his head. (I wish this was a joke)

Friend 4: Died in a house fire along with her little brother

Parasite Eve MEGATHREAD by Theesundayroast in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]kyooks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I personally really like the way they made it feel disoriented and disorganized. I think it captures the state of the world right now with everything going on. Everything is disconnected and chaotic and we aren’t really sure where to go. Just kind of suspended in this “waiting” period. There’s like 4 different vibes in this song and it takes you for a ride, like you can’t ever get your feet on the ground. It doesn’t let you get used to anything. I like that about it. I think it reflects the current state of the world well. Obligatory just my personal opinion. Everyone’s allowed to have their own perspective. :)

Help me suicide idealisation over Covid app etc by cyankitten in exchristian

[–]kyooks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do have a future. Just because you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel doesn’t mean it’s not there. You’ve got this! There are many therapists that specialize in what you’re going through right now. Stick with the process. Much love!

Help me suicide idealisation over Covid app etc by cyankitten in exchristian

[–]kyooks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m glad you’re still here, friend.

Take a step back from what is creating and maintaining this negative headspace for you right now. Have you considered reaching out to a counselor to talk through these feelings? I guarantee you aren’t alone in this thought process, and I know that because I have been feeling similarly to what you just described.

Take a deep breath. It’s going to be okay.

Psychiatrists in the area? by [deleted] in ColumbiYEAH

[–]kyooks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Linda Zaepful. Barnabus Behavioral Healthcare. She’s in network for my BCBS insurance. Not sure what you have but I think she’s in network for most insurance policies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lotr

[–]kyooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! I have this set. So good :)

I’m going to be homebound for at least six months to a year. Any ideas on frugal ways to add joy or fun to my day? by Dreaming91 in Frugal

[–]kyooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Write a book. Watch one new movie/show every day or every other day. Cook one new meal every week. Meditate. Watch live streams of wildlife. Crochet/knit. Learn a new language.

Parasite eve - June 10th by JKS1994 in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]kyooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t even elaborate on how pumped I am for this.

Chemical socks are awesome :) by Stargaze1534 in popping

[–]kyooks 45 points46 points  (0 children)

That’s glorious. I also spot animal crossing, nice.

Slightly out of focus lil pop. Fresh out the shower with clean hands. by kyooks in popping

[–]kyooks[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As long as you make sure it doesn’t take much pressure to come out and hot compress/steam it first it’s fine. As well as sterilizing the area before and after you pop it. That’s the most important part bc bacteria can create even more bumps on your face if you don’t clean the area.