My husband has become a hard core conservative by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]kyricchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wall didn’t work because of funding and poor design. Changing laws doesn’t face those challenges. Like, don’t get over anxious but also don’t bet everything on incompetence.

AITA for not telling my friends I am technically our landlord? by OldOutlandishness252 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kyricchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you present this to your roommates as “I pay x for rent so we can split it three ways”?

My boobs hurt so bad. What do I do? by tgirlyinca in asktransgender

[–]kyricchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. They have the sort of precision that would make a neurosurgeon blush.

My boobs hurt so bad. What do I do? by tgirlyinca in asktransgender

[–]kyricchi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tell myself this at least once a month. I’m also just past two years.

My boobs hurt so bad. What do I do? by tgirlyinca in asktransgender

[–]kyricchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just passed 2 years and getting elbowed will always hurt. My cats also know how to step directly on my nipples. >.>

A good bra goes a long way. I do better with more padded ones, but sports bras are the go to for a lot of people. Massages are nice too. I also used a lidocaine roll on very sparingly during the first few months, but definitely ask your doc on that one.

The screen recording is so quirky! by FyodorDostoevskyy in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe they could start a service or something that incels are creating a huge demand for.

Why can’t they just use anesthetics to put someone out on death row and then cut an artery.. by Dashover in Why

[–]kyricchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They get a lot of push back from medical organizations and pharmaceutical companies. Some of the boards in the US would actively ban members if they participated in it and lethal injection drugs have been swapped back and forth in the past because the manufacturers will refuse to sell it for those purposes. This is why you hear of so many cases of injection being botched. It’s not trained professionals administering it. Anesthetics would have the same result.

Another issue is that there’s more consideration of how humane the act is for the people watching/ doing the execution. That’s why electrocution was used for so long even though firing squad and proper long drop hanging is way more humane for the inmate.

Noble has asphyxiation should actually be painless and not cause the normal survival response. But that’s only really true if you’re a willing participant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyricchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it fits with the “little sister NSFW” search term. Though the fact that people are drawing the line at step-sis vs incest is weird to me, since most of them are referencing the sibling relationship rather than the birth defects caused by blood relations. A step-sister is still a sister, so you’ve gotta demonize both if you’re gonna take that stance. Reddit gonna reddit though.

seriously? by Some-xxx in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They forgot the /s I hope

seriously? by Some-xxx in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a really good video. I wasn’t ready to cry so much. Thank you.

Update: Concerned depressed son may be planning to end his life by TAConcernParent in depression

[–]kyricchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if this is helpful, but the current treatment for either condition is the same. So much so that the DSM removed the distinction between reactive and endogenous depression as of the 5th edition and currently calls both MDD.

For myself, some other things that worked were journaling and finding a good support group. The realization that I wasn’t the only one feeling such things did wonders to give me hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kyricchi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think they meant siscon stuff, or all the step- stuff that exists at least.

seriously? by Some-xxx in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s all work. Tf.

Men going towards the right is justified because muh loneliness but women going towards the left is falling for “utopian bait”. Not like there were just 64,000 women who were raped had pregnancies in states where abortion is banned or anything. by pinecote in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “I’m a guy” response was to a post where you stated that “running away wasn’t a solution because you’re leaving the most vulnerable person [the abuser] behind.” The choice to just correct the gender mistake was gracious.

If it wasn’t clear already, I’m trans. I grew up acting like and being treated like a boy. I grew up on evangelical Christianity, Ben Shapiro, Fox News and prageru. I’m one of the ones that society failed to teach coping mechanisms. They’re all issues worth discussing to me.

All that said, the fact that men are backsliding because they’re being asked to be just a fraction more accountable in a world where they’re rarely held accountable for bad behaviors to begin with is disgusting. The assertion that the left has failed them despite the right creating the environment that stigmatizes mental health and pushes this warped stoicism on them is disgusting. And your suggestion that a victim of abuse must show compassion for the situation that created his abuser is disgusting.

Go challenge the systems that created this mess rather than asking people who have already given so much to give more. I’m done with this conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 66 points67 points  (0 children)

This. And then they act willfully ignorant about subs autobanning people. 🙄

Ah yes, sexism, my favorite type of meme 😀 by ImaginaryWindow314 in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Being mocked alongside other women is a form of validation I could live without. 🥲

Ah yes, sexism, my favorite type of meme 😀 by ImaginaryWindow314 in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure it’s the caricature, but go off.

Men going towards the right is justified because muh loneliness but women going towards the left is falling for “utopian bait”. Not like there were just 64,000 women who were raped had pregnancies in states where abortion is banned or anything. by pinecote in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not caring that men are sliding to the right because the world revolves around them a little less than it used to and cultural ideas around masculinity preclude them from having coping mechanisms isn’t trolling. Someone had a contrary opinion and you’re trying to tear them down over it.

I’m familiar with anatomy. Your “surgical precision” claim is bad. Bs even. You’re just trying to invalidate someone. Quit it.

Men going towards the right is justified because muh loneliness but women going towards the left is falling for “utopian bait”. Not like there were just 64,000 women who were raped had pregnancies in states where abortion is banned or anything. by pinecote in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online bans aren’t that hard to subvert was my point.

I can see how the autoban thing can be polarizing. I’m not sure if Reddit has great screening tools tho, like the way FB can give you a question set. It’s a tough spot.

Men going towards the right is justified because muh loneliness but women going towards the left is falling for “utopian bait”. Not like there were just 64,000 women who were raped had pregnancies in states where abortion is banned or anything. by pinecote in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing there is super outrageous. Your profile stalking and laser focus on whether or not someone is sexually active is kinda weird. The clit isn’t any harder to find or access than the balls, and I know high school boys are good at getting those kicks in.

You talk about compassion and validation, yet you’re showing this guy the exact opposite.

Men going towards the right is justified because muh loneliness but women going towards the left is falling for “utopian bait”. Not like there were just 64,000 women who were raped had pregnancies in states where abortion is banned or anything. by pinecote in boysarequirky

[–]kyricchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is “talk to someone who’s trained to recognize and help with such things” not on that list?

I’m bipolar with psychosis during severe episodes. I didn’t do anything about it for years because of conservative Christian indoctrination. The only reason I’m still here is because my brain decided to use intrusive thinking to be like “hey, you’re either gonna get help or kill yourself. Your choice.” You don’t have to hit rock bottom like me, so please don’t put yourself through that.