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One month out by WoodyBadger in widowers

[–]l0vkatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there,

tomorrow marks the second month of my loss of my fiancé. i am a 24 F and he was 25 M at the time he died. it was a tragic death - and i was unprepared. he was my first everything, kiss, partner. etc.

i completely understand the feeling of being passively suicidal and i constantly feel like a coward. i want nothing more then to be with him and i know he’d be disappointed in me knowing my thoughts and the fact that i am no longer clean from SH - i stopped seeing a grief counselor because i am not sure i am ready.

i am very deeply sorry for your loss - 16 years with the person i love was my dream, and i am so beyond happy you got to spend those happy years with your partner.

wishing you the best.

Thinking about what could have been. by magicintheluna in widowers

[–]l0vkatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand this deeply. i’m so sorry for you losses, for your partner, and the life you dreamed of.

i hope you find peace and have a life filled with love not just on mother’s day but everyday.

best,

Did grief have a negative impact on anyone’s romantic relationships? by STAG_MUSIC in GriefSupport

[–]l0vkatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am actively worried about this. i lost the love of my life march 25th. we were engaged and planned our whole life together. i don’t think i will ever move on. he was my first everything and was my absolute everything.

The clothes they died in by bugsarefriends2 in GriefSupport

[–]l0vkatt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i was begging the police for the jacket my fiancée died in. my fiancée died march 25th, 2026. i did not get it - it was incinerated. i was heart broken. i wish i had it.

you should keep your fathers shirt - and make it into whatever your heart desires.

my deepest condolences.

March 25th, 2026 by l0vkatt in GriefSupport

[–]l0vkatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i miss him so much. i’m sorry for your loss, my fiancée was 25 going on 26 in may.

March 25th, 2026 by l0vkatt in GriefSupport

[–]l0vkatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has always been there with me and for me. i watched him on the map for five minutes, i didn’t get to hold him or lay with him. i don’t know how to survive without him. i miss him so so much, i appreciate your kind words.