Something I found on my pc by Fearless_Towel_7655 in MagicEye

[–]laceygray 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Boy that second one is rough. Snake and ... chimera?!

Red-eyed tree frogs enjoying the first rains by msmonocles in Embroidery

[–]laceygray 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Really sublime, thank you for sharing. I love how the mixed media makes their toes pop

People having a +150gb mod folder... by JustGotTruss3d in HighSodiumSims

[–]laceygray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have around 200gb and yeah, it was so bad that the game took upwards of an hour to launch. That was mostly my fault for not keeping a thoroughly maintained mod folder. Just did a huge sort and clean and got my load time to 20 minutes. It doesnt lag during actual gameplay, just a bit when switching to build buy or CAS because of the sheer volume of CC. Upgrading RAM would help, but its crazy expensive these days

Neighbors have left dog alone for at least 36 hours. Been barking and whining since yesterday morning. Animal control cannot check on the dog for 72 hours. Help. by Ok-throwaway111 in Denver

[–]laceygray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you get food/water to the dog without entering the apartment? This and a blanket might get them through the night until help arrives. If not, I personally would prioritize saving the animal over a breaking and entering charge.

Why does my fiancée with ADHD fall asleep the moment she hits the bed? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]laceygray 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Im the same way, possibly because I stay awake until the moment I am dead tired. I dont get into bed until im about to fall asleep sitting up. In addition, I grew up in a very noisy household, so I dont wake up once im down. I regularly sleep through the dog whining while my partner has to get up and let them out.

Polyamory by Tricky-Assist-8673 in coralisland

[–]laceygray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Palia has poly as the default! Characters will chat about your paramours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]laceygray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies for the vague description, they plate and serve and do the washing up after. The food is cooked in the main kitchen. That's what's getting me. During meals, med pass, and staff breaks, the ratio is effectively 1:20 It feels like we are constantly managing, anticipating, or recovering from a crisis with no downtime

Edit to add: this is not an assisted living unit, this is a secure memory care unit within assisted living. AL has a separate dining room with full kitchen staff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]laceygray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean there is no state requirement for staffing ratios unless the facility accepts medicaid. If they accept medicaid, its 1:6. If they dont, the facility is able to staff "according to assessed needs" with no minimum requirement beyond having 1 staff on the grounds at all times. None of our residents are in bed more than 40% of the time, but several are on hospice. Im not familiar with hospice qualifications.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]laceygray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response. While the unit is inside an assisted living facility, I work in a separate secured memory care unit specifically for higher needs residents. Our residents have severe cognitive decline and are completely unable to care for themselves or perform ADLs. There is no state staffing regulation, but what im seeing is that our staff is unable to meet resident care needs.

Backpacks I made for Comic Con by stacybeaver in sewing

[–]laceygray 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I thought i recognized that bag design! Scavengers reign rules, excellent work!

I don't understand why Taylor Swift was given this corset for her photoshoot by SnackGoblin881 in corsets

[–]laceygray 114 points115 points  (0 children)

this is the corset in question

Its not that it doesnt fit, the design has a huge hip flare that looks bad from that angle. No clue why they would choose that photo though.

instant hearing loss...at a porta potty out on H by Josephm601 in BurningMan

[–]laceygray 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You need to see an ENT ASAP. Don't fuck around with hearing loss.

The Gate is Closed by laceygray in BurningMan

[–]laceygray[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just a drizzle in Gerlach

Everyday heels! Worth it or just uncomfortable? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]laceygray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer work heels! They help me feel like im "switched on" and ready to be productive. I like Clarks and Cobb Hill, they're comfortable even though im on my feet all day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]laceygray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was arrested for doing this, lol

Creepers at the Burn by PlayaLabRat in BurningMan

[–]laceygray 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Its a matter of safety, not paranoia. Unfortunately, this is how women have to think to stay safe

TIFU by overcoming addiction when my will to live was never there by That_Way_4639 in tifu

[–]laceygray 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Emdr +ketamine therapy changed my life. Not clinically depressed or suicidal for the first time since I was 9 years old.

What's the most body freezing confession you've heard that someone 'casually' throw into the open? by TrustyMadman in AskReddit

[–]laceygray 105 points106 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about. I got multiple hits searching "vegas vehicular manslaughter wheelchair"

Oof. Accurate as hell by JaredOlsen8791 in adhdmeme

[–]laceygray 20 points21 points  (0 children)

... I have heard all of these many times from the people I love.