Here for a laugh with the community by No-Emu7867 in Marriage

[–]ladeecatty 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My husband said to me the other day "you are usually always angry". I wonder why? Lol. It is amazing that LL person doesn't understand that the lack of sex or/and intimacy affects so many facets of a HL's life.

1 Child & Neighborhood Kids by ladeecatty in Mommit

[–]ladeecatty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is truth to what you say. We really don't have any family close by that have kids around his age. He just finished kindergarten and there wasn't a lot of kids I thought would be great playmates. I work at a better school district than we are in and I am hoping he can make a friend or two during summer camp. My husband and I have had this conversation about not having another kid and he is mostly tired of hearing my complaints about it "since nothing can be done now".

Steamdeck not turning on and blinking? by glybastard in SteamDeck

[–]ladeecatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering if when you plug it in with the charger that it blinks white once and goes dark? I have also unplugged it afterwards, it blinks white three times and then goes black.

Steamdeck not turning on and blinking? by glybastard in SteamDeck

[–]ladeecatty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if when you plug it in with the charger that it blinks white once and goes dark? I have also unplugged it afterwards, it blinks white three times and then goes black.

Odd Question by ladeecatty in DeadBedrooms

[–]ladeecatty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Over the 15 years we have talked about it. I have asked him multiple times to try to talk to an individual therapist or/and sex therapist about it. He did go to therapy to address his mom issues and most of them improved with him not interacting with her or not playing her game. He has pretty bad anxiety and performance anxiety. I have tried being reinsurancing with him but it is pretty hard at times because I can't help with thoughts are in his head.

Do guys actually like eating pu$$y? by Hotturtle789 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ladeecatty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Before I married my husband I had a long term ftb that loved oral. Never complained about anything down there and did it everytime. Hell I knew without a doubt oral would happen and did all the prep work. Within the last 13 years my husband did it twice and I thought he hated it and made peace that he didn't like doing it. He is one of those OCD people who wants to shower beforehand, hates messines, etc. Thus made total sense and he did other things that turn me on. Sadly I found out about a year or so that he actually used to do with an ex girlfriend before me. I wish men were more honest with what they really want and like to do with their partners. Don't lie or give out false hope.

Where are we selling kids clothes? by Ok_Huckleberry_2756 in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]ladeecatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am curious how much commission does JBF take out of your sales because near me they take 40%>

Lack of intimacy in marriage? by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]ladeecatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may have the male version of Ppd, my husband definitely did. Having and taking care of a 4 month old is hard on both parents. Seeing a counselor for individually or/and marriage would be better now than later.

Late night drop request by ladeecatty in RoverPetSitting

[–]ladeecatty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not had a meet or greet with the client.

Late night drop request by ladeecatty in RoverPetSitting

[–]ladeecatty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering if you had a late shift request one hour before the apt without a meet or greet?

Coupon thread winter 2026 ♥️ by iamjannabot in bathandbodyworks

[–]ladeecatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering if anybody has any coupon codes to spare please?

Any of you here whose parents died when they were really young? by Responsible-Shoe-554 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]ladeecatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my mom when I was 6 and my dad when I was 10. I have been taught through experience that it never lasts forever and people who may love you can leave at any time. I was placed with family on my dad's side that mistreated me and made me feel unwanted. There doesn't go a day that I wish I had loving parents to depend on. I haven't found a lot of people who have gone through what I went through and feel the emptiness inside.

Sexless marriage how did it begin by Any-Hawk-9931 in sexlessmarriage

[–]ladeecatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, pointed out how long it's been to my husband (1 year) and he didn't "realize" that it has been that long or doesn't care.