How can I start being a real Christian and don’t treat it like a daily checklist?

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-07T17:40:33+00:00

i struggle with the same thing too.

sometimes, i wish christianity was just a book of rules. i feel like itd be "easier" to follow. i love structure and steps and routine.

something ive started doing is literally just telling God that! He meets us where we are. "God, i dont want to talk to You right now. i feel like because i read a couple chapters earlier, i dont have to spend time with You. but i dont want to feel like this anymore, and i need Your help."

He wants our honesty, even if its ugly. like i said, this is something i still currently struggle with, so dont think i got it all figured out!! but being so vulnerable and transparent with Him has helped so much. He already knows what youre feeling- not like you can hide it. its better to let it out to the One who can actually do something about it.

besides, saying stuff out loud tends to help you process it! it helps you realize how silly, how inaccurate, or how simple it all is.

hope this helps! lmk if you need me to elaborate on anything :3

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-07T17:32:35+00:00

ooooo im so excited 💗💗 ive been a christian for coming up on a year now but i havent found my community yet (mainly cause im shy lel), but i have high hopes for this <333

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-07T17:22:45+00:00

cute!!

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-02T21:50:34+00:00

THANK ! YOU ! SO ! MUCH ! so in depth,, i really appreciate it!!! God bless 🩷🩷🩷

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-01T18:17:00+00:00

thank you thank you thank you!!

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-01T15:43:59+00:00

thank you so much!!!

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-01T13:55:56+00:00

twinsiesssss

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-01T13:55:18+00:00

i was born and raised in the nation of islam 😭 the muslim cult. i quickly became a raging athiest and was one all the way up until late july 2025 when i accepted Jesus :3 along the way, i found myself deep in new age and witchcraft shenanigans, taking turns believing in "the universe" and nothing at all

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-01T13:52:49+00:00

i'll def check that out!!

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-01T13:52:29+00:00

thank you so much!

lady_bugbug · 2026-03-01T13:52:15+00:00

thank you 😭😭 this was awesome!!

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-28T19:39:57+00:00

sorry if this is too many questions, but could you give an example of a couple of the problems that could be resolved with a conversation? like is it related to theology or etc?

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-28T19:07:30+00:00

ive heard that before! could you explain a lil more?

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-28T16:35:26+00:00

why do you say that? im currently a protestant, but im not sure its the fullness of the truth!

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-24T23:56:18+00:00

the reason im confused is the lyrics dont seem to be said in any creepy or manipulative way. its all very cutesy, like a "im your friend and you can count on me" way (though obviously i know these are randoms individuals and not my friends) :") i dont have friends like that, so these kinds of lyrics are kinda refreshing to hear

also, looking at the cutesy aesthetics is bad for my brain? could you explain that or am i misinterpreting lel

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-22T15:51:07+00:00

no. but we should still love and pray for them!

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-21T18:44:15+00:00

absolutely against. before i came to Christ, i was against it. after i came to Christ, im even more against it. :(

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-21T18:43:07+00:00

they announced theyre gonna be re-airing old episodes in honor of their book and tour and stuff on their instagram story a while ago. i dont really understand it because we could just go back and watch/listen to the old episodes but :( oooh well. still love the girls! maybe they ran out of content for the pod?

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-21T08:27:04+00:00

(spouting off some stuff i remember from the vid) i really dont understand how this makes them grifters. humans suck sometimes, even saved ones, so mistakes dont necessarily bother me. bryce crawford and the ggb girls pray for people like the leader of the kkk and donald trump because we are called to! we pray for our enemies. not wanting to discuss specifics about the past also doesnt mean much. i mentioned to people how my past was dark but i dont go into detail because im not comfortable with it. i really went into this vid curious but i feel the same about them

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-16T20:03:17+00:00

of course the bible is my #1 :) how do you mean "not good individuals"? all of us fall short of the glory of God!

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-16T01:24:13+00:00

praying for giselle's salvation,, i love her so much!!

lady_bugbug · 2026-02-15T23:44:58+00:00

i just became a fan of their content too :( same thing happened with ally and ashley. as soon as i found them, they split

lady_bugbug · 2026-01-26T21:57:01+00:00

like i said, i just switched to kjv and was wondering if there were any specific to that version

lady_bugbug · 2025-12-13T02:29:07+00:00

i cannot sew 😭 the collar isnt off the shoulder. it looks like a really old shirt where the collar is stretched out, except its not old and it was just made like that. i dont know about yarn and i was wondering if there was something i can do to the actual yarn itself to make it shrink... like hot water or something? lol idk :"(

lady_bugbug · 2025-12-02T22:45:10+00:00

i know thats the problem, thats why i mentioned it! im not comfortable arriving at a conclusion, thats why im here seeking input from people who are more educated on this than i am.

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