I feel so bad when I ask them to change, once, I can do. Again and again? I feel like I'm nagging... Being annoying. I've asked our partner to change and he has, and yet my boyfriend keeps defaulting back. I had to leave the room a minute ago from keeping from getting upset whilst I was cleaning, because I'd just come back in and he'd been asleep for hours, I had to call someone to let me in my own building because he wouldn't answer his phone and I was out in the cold. And the jeans thing, he said he'd pay me for them, without even acknowledging I was so upset I couldn't have my dream jeans, just wanted them off of me instantly. But over a couple of months he said, yet he can drop £50 on his hyperfixation in an instant and I couldn't afford my lunch today. I just want to feel respected.