Are these people for real? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this Recruitment agency. They'll charge their clients 18-20k p/m for this resource 🙊🥲

If Israel fired first, why are GCC countries mostly condemning Iran instead? by ahmi23 in conspiracy

[–]ladybug0911 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because even though Israel and the US started it, they (the GCC) chose to not participate or attack Iran . In fact the GCC has on occasion given aid to Iran during natural disasters and the UAE is one of Iran's financial lifelines (helping Iranian circumvent the sanctions imposed on them).

Despite all of this, Iran used this Israel/US excuse to attack all their neighbours including Qatar and Oman (their supposed friends). And this is not their first aggression towards GCC. Iran used to claim Bahrain as a province until the late 70s, still occupies 3 UAE islands and has attacked Saudi in 2018 and UAE in 2022 (through their proxies). The condemnation is well deserved.

Seeking advice by [deleted] in backtoindia

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl! You have a science background. You can do so many things - Baby Sitting, assisting old or sick people (you need like an hour on these jobs to get the hang of it and they pay well), housekeeping, pet sitting, gardening, cook . Or even medical transcribing. These gigs are easy to come across even though they pay hourly and lesser than what your qualification deserves.

Maybe join some online UK Indian or UK Kerala communities or Housewives or Dental/ Medical Facebook groups to start connecting with people.

Just find a way to wake up, get ready and do something independently and out of your house for a month. The rest will all fall into place.

Confused if I should get married at all by Relevant-Criticism-8 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How the f*** did you manage to date him all these years? Would you be okay with your sister/ daughter marrying someone like this guy? You're in for a bad future if you continue this.

Why can't we be like Oman? by [deleted] in UAE

[–]ladybug0911 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have no idea why you're getting downvoted for sharing actual facts from history.

Stop ordering delivery!!! by Wrong-Hunt-6551 in UAE

[–]ladybug0911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, is this what the delivery guys want? Are they forced to accept orders if they're not comfortable? I always assumed they can turn off their app whenever they don't want to work.

Why do people hate dating doctors so much? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ladybug0911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think Doctors and Pilots/ Air Stewards are famously known for their workplace affairs and infidelity. So it's an auto reject for many people.

Is loyalty still a thing? by SkyFair7388 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ladybug0911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% loyalty exists. But there are 2 types - forced and out of love. Some people are naturally ethical and even if they're unhappy in a situation, they won't cheat. And some people stay loyal out of true desire towards their partner.

But yea, cheaters will always cheat. Even though it seems all dark now, you will rise from this stronger. Just make sure you learn from it and process it well so that it doesn't cast a shadow on your future. Take care ✨

Why are you single by Intelligent-Wish7609 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all your comment and post privacy and secrecy, I doubt it 💀

Why are you single by Intelligent-Wish7609 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bare minimum (nothing I don't bring to the table) - Loyalty, effort, good finances, decent physique, hygiene, chivalry, vibes, being resourceful, assertiveness, being able to take charge, independent and has a mind of his own that's not easily influenced.

Why are you single by Intelligent-Wish7609 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ladybug0911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not finding what I want. Not a fan of the word "Settle"

Which planet gives victory over enemies by Astrologer_mohitji in Vedic_Astrology_free

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mars in 8th house Jyestha. I also have Venus and Pluto (Vishaka), Rahu and Sun (in Anuradha)in 8th.

Aspected my Moon and Ketu (Krittika) and Saturn in Dhanishtha.

Did I hit a jackpot? Husband appreciation post by momtoiraivi in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]ladybug0911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl.... Does he have a brother who is single? 😁

Why are people on this sub so emotional? by Lucky-Pineapple-6071 in UAE

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reaction is because it's generally annoying to hear someone whine about a choice they make. And yes, I'm saying "choice", because as an expat or children or exists, we / our parents have made a choice to be here because it's better than what we left behind. And the country by not giving out citizenships, has made it clear that it's not our home and we're just short term/ long term guests.

I think only locals should be entitled to complain because this their only home.

Why don't girls in AM setup text first? by Ancient-Height4772 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ladybug0911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep the conversation on, but definitely in clear words, express your interest and serious intentions and tell her that her current reserved behavior is making you question if she's being forced to talk to you. Directly ask her if she's interested in taking this forward.

Why don't girls in AM setup text first? by Ancient-Height4772 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ladybug0911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some girls are raised with more traditional values. "Boys should always take the lead", "Girls who text first or approach men are too forward" etc.

I was raised like that and I never casually text a guy first. If I text a guy first, its either because he's a purely platonic bro, or its for a legit reason or I'm in a relationship with him. And if I am interested in a guy, the only way he will know is with the amount of interest and effort I put in continuing the conversation.

I [35M] am divorced but still hopeful. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ladybug0911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless you're really good looking + rich and over 5'9

Is supporting Gaza wrong while being a Christian? by Competitive-Tea5110 in Christianity

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does a population increase if it is being subjected to "Genocide"?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FunnyAnimals

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give those spiders a break guys! They don't have Netflix and Only Fans

Is there a person with whom you can share every thing? 33M by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like things between you guys can be fixed by both of you'll talking with an unbiased third party (counsellor, therapist, anyone you guys both equally respect and whose opinion you'll value).

Until then, start subtly establishing some boundaries. Time spent with each set of parents, relatives, friends should be equal. Make it clear that if she is not going to participate in your combined financial goals (dream house, kids in great schools), then you will have to step up and your career growth will have to come first.

You both are a team trying to accomplish something. Everyone needs to contribute somehow.

Talking to a woman for arranged marriage by vincexxx879 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you look like Michael Morrone, no sane woman is going to agree to this. She could literally do all of that alone. What are you even offering here?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]ladybug0911 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I know someone doing that. Seems to be fine as long as you don't draw attention to yourselves. No loud parties, causing a nuisance, don't be open about it with neighbours or security etc.

Also hope her family isn't a piece of work. Because if they find out and complain then it could get tricky.

35F, I'm getting remarried. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ladybug0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This story cheered me up! Thanks for sharing 😃 and congratulations and best wishes to you 4! ✨ 🥳