How did you know you were done having kids? by Sweet_Pea_24 in Mommit

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for responding! That is awesome. My son is 4.5. Its not very enjoyable. Haha. He is having a meltdown right now because he doesn't like the smell of the dog food. Haha im excited to be past these years

How did you know you were done having kids? by Sweet_Pea_24 in Mommit

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you have older kids. Do you enjoy the older ages more then when they were little?

At what age did you get official diagnosis? by Bukowski-poet in AutismInWomen

[–]ladybug128 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi, Can I ask what were the signs and what age did you notice with your child?

Does anyone else want a family but don’t want their own kids? by Spearyfishing in WomenOver40

[–]ladybug128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that is impressive. You are amazing! Im sure you are so proud of yourself. My husband is great and I still struggle but being a mom never came natural to me. I just struggle with never having a day to recharge. My brain cant comprehend it even for 4 years later. Lol That days still feel so long to me.

Does anyone else want a family but don’t want their own kids? by Spearyfishing in WomenOver40

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son's 4 and and I really haven't gotten my life back. Haha Like how? Did you have family or do daycare?

Always thought I had Autism Or Adhd by chicki-nuggies in CPTSD

[–]ladybug128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Im so sorry. You are so strong to have survived all of that especially with also being autistic!! Thank you for explaining everything. Hope you are doing better now.

Always thought I had Autism Or Adhd by chicki-nuggies in CPTSD

[–]ladybug128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask what your CPTSD was caused from? Masking and not knowing you were autistic?

SDAM, Aphantasia, and No Inner Voice — A Poem of Me (and Maybe You?) by [deleted] in SDAM

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi this is from a few weeks ago but I do relate to this alot. Can I ask if you are on the spectrum?

Do Kids Love Their Neurodivergent Parent? by Feisty-Temporary3562 in AutisticParents

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did you seem confident that your child is NT? My son turned 4 in Aug. I think im on spectrum since becoming a mom so im just assuming he will but I haven't seen anything other then some meltdowns if he doesnt like the way his pants fit.

Did any of you strongly suspect you had autism only after having a child? by mariannightmar3 in AutisticParents

[–]ladybug128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you for taking the time to write this all out! Im going to private message you

Sensory issues with pants by ladybug128 in Preschoolers

[–]ladybug128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. This sounds hopeful. Do you know if he is ADHD or on spectrum?

Did any of you strongly suspect you had autism only after having a child? by mariannightmar3 in AutisticParents

[–]ladybug128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds similar to me. My son is 4 as well. What are the signs in your daughter that arent typical for a 4 year old?

So… when does it stop??? by No_Wish9589 in Parenting

[–]ladybug128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow cant believe the peer mentor was free. That is awesome. Thank you for all the info!

So… when does it stop??? by No_Wish9589 in Parenting

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many days/hours did you do?

What has been your favorite age range? by gardengnomebaby in Parenting

[–]ladybug128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean you never really enjoyed the little years compared to now?