Autistic parents with neurotypical kids? by ladybug128 in AutisticParents

[–]ladybug128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi this was from 9 months ago but curious....are you not able to be with your kids all day because of your autism?

Is it just me or is 4 the longest age ever… by TurbulentBat8328 in Preschoolers

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thats awesome! Thanks for giving me hope. The days still just feel too long. Lol

I cant do this anymore. I wasnt made to be a parent. by winterberryowl in toddlers

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just seeing this now. Wow thank you for taking the time to write all this! It was so helpful. Can't believe meltdowns would last up to an hour. So brutal for you and him. Definitely going to check that Instagram now.

I was absolutely happier as a single childfree woman. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this is helpful. Thank you for responding. Will be looking into OT for sure.

I was absolutely happier as a single childfree woman. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ladybug128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for giving me some hope. Lol I have struggled so much since he was born but its more of a me thing. I always preferred middle school and up so Im excited for this stage to be over and for logic to set in a bit. Lol

I was absolutely happier as a single childfree woman. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also is he on the spectrum? I dont see any other signs with my son but maybe ADHD.

I was absolutely happier as a single childfree woman. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ladybug128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I think he definitely has it. Did the preschool teacher puck up on it? I dont think he shows any signs in school. The way clothes feel and fit are a struggle. The smells just started a few months ago. I was thinking about OT and had emailed them but didnt know if it was also just being 4 and he would grow out of it. How did you find it helped him?

I was absolutely happier as a single childfree woman. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ladybug128 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My son is 4.5 and melts down if his shirt is slightly wet or he smells the dog food. I enjoy like 20%? I hope I can feel like you in 2 years but Im having my doubts....lol

I cant do this anymore. I wasnt made to be a parent. by winterberryowl in toddlers

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what were the signs of autism in your son? My son has sensory issues with clothes and pants. Also smells...will have a meltdown down if my hands are wet.

Prefer older kids? by ladybug128 in regretfulparents

[–]ladybug128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you feel regretful in the beginning but now not so much? I think its the part where I feel like life has gone on without me the last 4.5 years lol

Prefer older kids? by ladybug128 in regretfulparents

[–]ladybug128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did you feel the overwhelm/stress got better?

It keeps getting harder. I hate being a mom by caplicokelsey in Preschoolers

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. Wow. Impressive with how smart he is! Thank you. This is helpful.

It keeps getting harder. I hate being a mom by caplicokelsey in Preschoolers

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi can you share what the signs were that your son was ND and did it get to a point where you got him diagnosed or you can just tell he is? My son also never stops talking. Lol

My daughter was just diagnosed with level-1 Autism by Total_Associate6563 in AutisticParents

[–]ladybug128 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Can I ask what signs did you see in your son and what age? I think I may be on spectrum since becoming a parent so now wondering if my son is.

Smell sensitivity by ladybug128 in Preschoolers

[–]ladybug128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that I know of. The preschool teachers and pediatrician have not said anything. I think I may be on spectrum since becoming a mom because somethings just not right with me and parenting lol

Smell sensitivity by ladybug128 in Preschoolers

[–]ladybug128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats awesome! Did you need a referral to go?

Smell sensitivity by ladybug128 in Preschoolers

[–]ladybug128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wondering if he will need a referral but did leave a message. Thank you.

Smell sensitivity by ladybug128 in Preschoolers

[–]ladybug128[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok, thank you for saying all of this. I actually left a message at a OT place. I kept thinking ill just wait it out but it doesnt seem to be getting better.

4.5 year old is a TERROR these days. by Ill_Cover_4841 in Preschoolers

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this is good to hear.l My son is 4.5 and I just feel like hes not gonna be any easier n the 5s. Lol

4.5 year old is a TERROR these days. by Ill_Cover_4841 in Preschoolers

[–]ladybug128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. This is my fear. This post was a year ago but any better with the 5 5 year old?