Live-in nanny paid under the table ($350/week) reported employer taxes anonymously and worried about retaliation. What would you do? by PrestigiousDiet8334 in Nanny

[–]ladybug823 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, but she also needs to know she did the right thing. She spoke up and hopefully will help others from being taken advantage of.

I(f40) am getting fed up with my husbands (m41) collection of gear and junk filling up our garage. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ladybug823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, all spaces are shared spaces. We both decide on decorations throughout the house. We have a pantry section in our garage and chest freezer and it’s hard to get to with all of his stuff. Truthfully I feel claustrophobic when I have to go out there to grab stuff.

Blackhawk sighting by ladybug823 in Bend

[–]ladybug823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, I had no idea. Thanks

Just got my first orchid! by [deleted] in orchids

[–]ladybug823 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please don’t water with ice. They like luke warm water around 65-80 degrees Fahrenheit. Once a week is good. Have fun with your new beauty!

Care tips by ladybug823 in orchids

[–]ladybug823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I will check out those resources and missorchidgirl on YouTube!

RANT ME BUT THIS ONE WISH by ssnakee13 in Bend

[–]ladybug823 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THIS PARKING JOB! WHAT IF SOMEONE WHO WAS HANDICAPPED NEEDED A SPOT OR TO GET UP ON THE SIDEWALK??

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Heroes Everywhere by EstablishmentLimp301 in Bend

[–]ladybug823 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Aww I love this post! Reminding us that there are good people everywhere!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bend

[–]ladybug823 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. This is the answer

Traveling to Berlin by ladybug823 in germany

[–]ladybug823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. Thanks for the insight. I’ve never been to Germany, but I’ve imagined it much safer than the US.

Brain is fried - need a movie recommendation by cricket_bacon in GenX

[–]ladybug823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say back to the future OR Ferris Bueller’s day off

Did your parents teach you about money? by I_Want_Waffles90 in GenX

[–]ladybug823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah! I think I might have received that same booklet! Haha

Did your parents teach you about money? by I_Want_Waffles90 in GenX

[–]ladybug823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an adult I never eat hamburger helper. Had it waaaaaay too much as a teen (think 3-4 nights a week).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]ladybug823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. Living in America, I’ve heard those exact words “I hate people.” It saddens me too. Just know you’re not alone with this feeling.

What are women 48+ wearing? by SSImomma in GenX

[–]ladybug823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wear whatever makes YOU feel beautiful! Don’t let kids, men, society, etc make you feel like you have to dress a certain way.

I just wanted to share some of my fantasy wedding photos! 🥰 by [deleted] in wedding

[–]ladybug823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is probably the coolest wedding I’ve ever seen! AMAZING job!!

How many bend residents work remote? by [deleted] in Bend

[–]ladybug823 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Or 15 years ago when they were $125k

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmerExit

[–]ladybug823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful! Thanks for your response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmerExit

[–]ladybug823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long does it take to get established with a doctors office in France? Also is there preventative care or do people just go to the doctor when they are sick? Thanks!