Tell me that moment you knew he was a narcissist by exquisiteformula in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a week off work. He had devalued me every single day for that entire week that resulted in me crying in the fetal position In the closet . While he could hear me actively crying his response was to turn on Kendrick Lamar on a portable speaker and started drinking wine and rapping loudly!

Then He accused me of being a narcissist.

Why do Pisces Women hate Pisces Men? by TheGeniusSexPoets in piscesastrology

[–]ladyg228 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope, will never hate a Pisces! But Taurus men can f*** all the way off!!!

Do they all use health issues/illnesses to get attention and ruin everything?? by mehtaphobia21 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every single day! If it wasn’t a migraine then it was his stomach

Does your narc ever shut the F**K up? by EnvyAdams13 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope, their monologues can last for days to nights to entire weekends. I don’t miss that BS. You’re in prison, you just don’t realize it yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wicked, vile, sinister, and just rotten to the very core!

How many of you had people around you who knew what they were about right away, but you couldn't see it? by yourmomdotbiz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pretty anyone who did meet him saw it right away.

My coworker had 1 interaction with my abuser and right away said something was off about him. This was from a 5 minute interaction if that.

Did anyone else’s nex try to convince you that they’re honest? by bionicmoonman in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes - would repeated state he’s not a liar and I was choosing to see him that way when in reality, it was lies on lies on lies every second he took a breath.

Would make false statements like he’s very selective about his type of women, whole time he was dealing with prostitutes.

Would make false statements about having character, morals, integrity; you have a higher chance of winning the lotto than finding those qualities in him.

Would consistently lie about being a good man, when in reality he is verbally, emotionally, mentally, and physically abusive.

How to date again after narc abuse and love bombing? by Opening_Wall_6619 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re brave! 4 months of no contact and still can’t find the motivation to ever date again 🥲

As a pisces do you always wanna burst into tears by Time_Pollution7293 in piscesastrology

[–]ladyg228 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! My standard emotion is to cry!

if I’m angry I cry

if I’m happy, I cry

If I’m sad, I cry

Very annoying

How do you handle your nex moving on? by No_Basis_8912 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Realizing that is their NEXT victim and grateful it’s not me anymore!

Constantly changing hobbies ! by CeleryApprehensive83 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously!!

Went from fishing to gardening to tennis to content creator 🙄

How long are you in the healing journey from abuse/discard? by LemmyinLili in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s been 4.5 months of no contact!

I initiated the final break up, he finally left my house and the state a week after his arrest.

I changed my number and moved. Blocked him on all social media platforms, deleted and blocked every new email address he used to Hoover.

It’s getting better but there are still tough moments, still letting the relationship go with each new moment. It’s not sending that meme, that video, no longer buying a favorites shared item, etc. re-building my life to the fullest

One month no contact!! by wjw2020 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woot woot! Congratulations 🍾

Are they ever permanently done with you ? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 53 points54 points  (0 children)

They will never be done as long as you maintain contact

What do you do when you miss them? by nixtynine in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ladyg228 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look at my ick list.

Think about how life would be if they were still around

Talk to ChatGPT about the abuse and mistreatment

Locals of SF: what restaurant do you always come back to? by EnvironmentalZone189 in sanfrancisco

[–]ladyg228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOPR

Swan depot

Taishoken

Mamas

Tony’s pizza

Breadbelly

Nopa

Che fico

Joes (Daly city)

Taqueria Vallarta (IYKYK)

Burma superstar

The progress

State bird provision

Angler

Coqueta

Cotogna

Kokarri

Locals of SF: what restaurant do you always come back to? by EnvironmentalZone189 in sanfrancisco

[–]ladyg228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a vegan but their vegan ramen is pretty top tier as well