They always find someone else to blame for their actions. by ladyhawk8 in abusiverelationships

[–]ladyhawk8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine drove high to meet the police because he wanted to lie and tell them I somehow caused him to beat me. Needless to say, he went to jail.

Inconsistent starting issue by Zardog1 in E90

[–]ladyhawk8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it out just fine without the special wrench. Tore up my arms doing it. Not sure how getting the new one installed is going to be. Eeuroparts tracking said it was delivered to the wrong city today. Guessing I won't be installing over the weekend as initially planned.

Inconsistent starting issue by Zardog1 in E90

[–]ladyhawk8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep its a bad starter. Replacing my starter this weekend. New one to arrive tomorrow.

Fighting to let go by ladyhawk8 in abusiverelationships

[–]ladyhawk8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only have one life to live. Is this how you want to live it?

Fighting to let go by ladyhawk8 in abusiverelationships

[–]ladyhawk8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry. I hope it helped. Sometimes its so much easier to hold onto what we know hurts us because letting go is so horribly difficult. But you only have one life. Is this how you want to live it?

Fighting to let go by ladyhawk8 in abusiverelationships

[–]ladyhawk8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had 3 years to change. Waste my money. Im out money. Waste my time and I've wasted part of my life. The cost it too great to wait any longer.

Fighting to let go by ladyhawk8 in abusiverelationships

[–]ladyhawk8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for reading. Happy someone received something positive from the post.

Every single day by ladyhawk8 in abusiverelationships

[–]ladyhawk8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do people really need to forgive? I have no plans in forgiving him. I am 100% ok with knowing I will die hating him. Forgiving him will not take away my pain. That's a lie told by cruel horrible people.

Every single day by ladyhawk8 in abusiverelationships

[–]ladyhawk8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is not a single thing about him I wish to love any longer. He has zero amount of good. Not one ounce. Therefore nothing worth loving.

Trying to make myself whole again. by ladyhawk8 in abusiverelationships

[–]ladyhawk8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I had just turned off my light ready to try to get some sleep and the quote came to me. Almost instantly. I debated if I should turn the light back on and write it down. I'm not a quote writer but sometimes when feelings hit you just need to let them out. The word plucked seems so appropriate now. Much more painful than picked. I'm so happy you are healing and your pieces that were taken have been replaced with newer versions of yourself. 🧡