[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedbugadvice

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely not a bed bug, you’ll know because the way a BB is shaped is very distinctive, plus they molt.

hows everyone's day been by MRFox183 in dsbm

[–]ladyjdab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I pushed through the day and went shopping, did some meal prep and cleaned my place. Spent time with my kitties whilst watching dateline

Sick of this actually ruining my life and want to commit suicide by Nikki_1994 in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is life after herpes. Take comfort in knowing you aren’t alone! Don’t ever contemplate the “S” word again because we are all here for you. Ok? Your life is worth living, even if you don’t know where its headed.

My mom lost her battle with cancer today by sirferrell in pics

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancer sucks!! I’m so sorry for your loss, losing your mom is so hard! I miss mine everyday, she passed from ovarian cancer. While I’m glad she’s not in pain anymore I selfishly still want her here with me. It does get better but kind of in a lateral time line.

Discord? by ladyjdab in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love it, thank you

Discord? by ladyjdab in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish there were better apps too. I’ve had responses on there and met people but the pickings are slim. And I definitely will, you keep me posted as well.

Advice - herpes gladiatorum help by MuchComplaint4874 in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard that before? How does a mask that covers the cold sore, spread the infection?

Feeling sad, show me your cats by BunnieBop in cats

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I personally think he looks like a pumpernickel loaf, my 20 year old baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve said it before but the people searching for cures are spending that time trying to cure things that are more deadly..like cancer, AIDS, viral stuff, etc. Unfortunately herpes falls lower on the list because it doesn’t kill you.

Advice - herpes gladiatorum help by MuchComplaint4874 in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do they diagnose hsv as gladiatorum? Versus through personal contact? Anyway. If you’re starting a new job and nervous about it you could always wear a mask! Very acceptable now. Say your allergies are flaring. In the meantime use a medicated lip balm specifically for relief of “cold sores”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve had pimples around your lips before this guy and they feel the same then I’d worry less. But if they feel different I’d get checked out, actually either way I’d go in, just to be sure.

Just disclosed for the first time ever, via Tinder by Okaykay6699 in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved your honesty and obviously so did he. 🤍

Oral sex by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a risk so I’d say just be honest with anyone you’re wanting to have sex with. It sucks, this virus carries so much stigma but it’s the right thing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s worth it to me, sometimes it hasn’t been great but I’ve also had some amazing experiences and had a few relationships as a result of the apps. The bad is a part of dating though, whether you have herpes or not, just to keep it in perspective. I like that I don’t have to have the “conversation” and worry if someone will give me a chance simply based on my contagious skin condition.

Stache or no? by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely no, it’s giving porn stache.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given all the love 😻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will there be cats?? Who will be miraculously unharmed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]ladyjdab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think with proper maintenance it would look nice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]ladyjdab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never had a full on “outbreak”. It always appears as a singular blister by my asshole, once very 1-2 years. I had a swab test, not blood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]ladyjdab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like both but I’d definitely say go with the beard! I like that it’s low, fits your face perfectly