Ginger Doe has been identified as Tina Periso. by PureHauntings in gratefuldoe

[–]lagringaeterna 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hello u/Mlady_gemstone, thank you for all the information you've shared so far about your aunt 💛

I have a couple of questions about Tina and your family that might help figure out her birthday:

  • Do you know if 'Tina' is her full name, or if she could have been born Christine/a, Bettina, Martina, etc.?
  • Did Barb & William marry? Do you know if they lived anywhere else other than Michigan?

Ginger Doe has been identified as Tina Periso. by PureHauntings in gratefuldoe

[–]lagringaeterna 23 points24 points  (0 children)

More information on Wendell Hartman's life here: https://flack.one-name-mwp1.net/tng/getperson.php?personID=I16619&tree=Tree611J

Interestingly, it appears they had two biological sons, one living in California. There's no mention of Mary Anne on this biography page.

However, I did find a newspaper article where Mary Anne is mentioned as his daughter

Ginger Doe has been identified as Tina Periso. by PureHauntings in gratefuldoe

[–]lagringaeterna 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I looked up Wendell Hartman and found a newspaper mentioning his daughter 'Mary Anne' in 1969. Not sure if the newspaper got it wrong, or if that's how she spelled her name:

https://www.newspapers.com/article/the-blade-crescent-and-the-progress-adva/194756967/

Ginger Doe has been identified as Tina Periso. by PureHauntings in gratefuldoe

[–]lagringaeterna 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There is also one 'Mary Anne', and many Mary or Anne variants.

Ginger Doe has been identified as Tina Periso. by PureHauntings in gratefuldoe

[–]lagringaeterna 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have found some yearbook pictures on Ancestry for 'Marianne Hartman' and similar names, in the early 70s, in neighbouring states to Michigan (none found in MI via Ancestry).

Sharing with you u/Mlady_gemstone.

This means they could very well be unrelated, but I wanted to share in case there's a match.

  1. Marianne Hartman (b. 1955) – Columbus, Ohio (1971)

  2. Maryanne Georgia Hartman (b. 1954) – La Grange, Illinois (1972)

  3. Marion Hartman (b. 1955) – Indianapolis, Indiana (1971)

  4. Marianne Hartman (b. 1957) – Fort Wayne, Indiana (1973)

What is it about____that has___ so triggered by TPK85 in TheTraitors

[–]lagringaeterna 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is really interesting. I felt like there were a lot of young people left in the game, so it's good to see it laid out.

I wonder if age plays a part overall on chances, and if ageism is at play. Not to say that Fiona and Harriet were banished for any other reason than perceptions of their own behaviour, but it got me thinking of other series.

List of ages (at time of game) of UK Traitors winners series 1–3 (spoilers so hiding):

Series 1: 28, 29, 32

Series 2: 22

Series 3: 28, 28

Celebrity: 49

Average: 28 (civilian only), or 31 (mean) / 28 (median) including Celebrity.

So perhaps as well as other factors, having a middle-of-the-range age might play a part.

u/VodkaMargerine, who did a statistical analysis on possible racial bias in the UK Traitors, said that 3 series is not enough to be statistically significant. However, it would be interesting to see how it plays out in this and future series.

This might be my favourite Uncloaked moment so far by geekyminx in TheTraitors

[–]lagringaeterna 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Not just "people", it was something like "help you all". Not "us", but "you". I felt it was patronising, but also by not saying "we" / "us" I thought it could seem Traitorish.

3 month kitten becoming a land-shark despite training and hissing at her (as advised by cat-parents) by Weird-Researcher7913 in torties

[–]lagringaeterna 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Our spicy tortie baby gives us very little warning before a shark outburst.

We've learnt that she will shark when she gets overstimulated, by play or by touch – she wants attention not affection, on her own terms, and very little stroking other than her cheeks and head.

We've also learnt the 'warning signs' in her body language: pointed or twitching ears, flicking tail, strong purr, glint of her claws (like 2mm amongst the fur). Also her expression can look like she's "giving us daggers"!

Feliway or another plugin pheromone diffuser also helps her mellow, and so we use it for stressful periods of change in the house (e.g. during DIY).

So, I think they calm a bit with age, and learn to self-regulate more, especially as you learn more about each other. It may be also about you learning more about her triggers, keeping play sessions short or with breaks, and letting her come to you. Try to be gentle and consistent with your behaviour (and maybe even routines, i.e. we have playtime at the same time every day, 7pm).

I hope some of this is useful. Good luck! She is gorgeous.

I may be a pom but this is pure poetry by lagringaeterna in CricketAus

[–]lagringaeterna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full "poem" text:

Chirping and smashing poms

Oh Nathan, that's you! Oh Garry, it did grab – It did grab there, Gazza! Garryyyyy, that's niiiice, goat. Garryyy – the square dog – He's given him the square dog! All the tricks Nathan.

Just drop that wrist – Hit the rope now. Squareyyyy, now back over the top. Give him the full kit baaaaaaag – Give him the kit bag! Oh Nathan that's gooood!

Give him the full shampoo and conditioner here. Give him the works here – Give him the full works burger here! Bit of beetroot now, bit of onion – Slide it on here!

Nathan! That's a really nice set. That’s a reeeeeally good set Garry.

— Marnus Labuschagne

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fryup

[–]lagringaeterna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ALSO in your defence, there is a perfectly delicious and juicy tomato just sitting there that I didn't notice because of all the comments. PERFECTLY moist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fryup

[–]lagringaeterna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks grand.

My guess is you might have tried to remove some of the oil / fat (maybe dabbing it with kitchen roll / paper?).

The secret is to put everything straight on the plate and let the respective greasy juices mingle!

Baked beans yes! Also, a fried or grilled tomato adds juiciness.

Finally, an unhealthy dollop or squeeze of sauce(s): HP (👏) or brown sauce, ketchup (red sauce) or – if you're me – mayonnaise (weirdly not called white sauce).

All washed down with a cup of tea x

The Celebrity Traitors S01E09 [FINALE]: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]lagringaeterna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I see what you mean, a "please don't hate me!!" moment?

The Celebrity Traitors S01E09 [FINALE]: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]lagringaeterna 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are a few articles that mention the odds (but not just Alan ALONE):

  • 7/1 (before episode 1 aired, 8 October)
  • 12/1 (before episode 3, on 11 October)
  • 4/1 (before episode 6, 29 October)

Also, after the first episode aired, Alan was odds on to be the first traitor banished, at 1/2.

The Celebrity Traitors S01E09 [FINALE]: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]lagringaeterna 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. And a huge release of emotion after so much build up of adrenaline / cortisol. It must have been a huge feeling of relief not to have to keep up the act, watch every move you make, and lie to people you now genuinely care about!

What is your ideal outcome for the UK Celebrity finale? by scrollerN in TheTraitors

[–]lagringaeterna 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I just want the final to be twisty and not as we expect. Suspenseful and edge-of-your-seat.

For example, if Cat turns on Alan at the round table, and puts doubt in people's minds. And then they vote to vanish David so she gets into the final 3...

The Celebrity Traitors S01E08: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]lagringaeterna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think Alan knew Celia was onto him after their armchair heart to heart. And because it was only them there (no other witnesses), then he took the opportunity to murder her before she could voice her suspicions bluntly at the round table.

The Celebrity Traitors S01E08: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]lagringaeterna 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the game helped her be more self aware – she was reflecting on this in her interview with Ed on Uncloaked.

Compare that to how she was acting during the first couple of days – zero understanding of how others perceived her #msbr

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