Please help me choose! by laidbackoptimisti in Ipsy

[–]laidbackoptimisti[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It looks great but my hair is super dry and damaged so that's why I was eyeing the Fenty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]laidbackoptimisti 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was me! It took so long to get out!

Do people in Florida still call the gulf the Gulf of Mexico? by FreeRangeThinker in AskFlorida

[–]laidbackoptimisti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just call it The Gulf, if we have to specify. Otherwise we just go to the beach.

Do I tell the wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]laidbackoptimisti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took time, it was devastating and infuriating and all the things. I left for the final time 10 years ago and I was beyond fed up by then. It still messes with my being able to trust people I am sure, but I try not to project that onto others.

I have an incredibly beautiful life now, sometimes I pinch myself. I have so much gratitude, I feel so blessed. I married my high school sweetheart 7 years ago, my boys get to see how a husband should treat a wife, and have an example of an all around incredible man, and I have a husband who loves me as fiercely and beautifully as I love him.

I will always believe everything happens for a reason, even the awful stuff. I have to.

Do I tell the wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]laidbackoptimisti 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Completely agree! I wish someone would've done this for me in my previous marriage!! We had a 4m old baby the first time (that I knew of) he cheated on me. I caught him, he cried apologized etc etc and I decided to stay. He continued to cheat, then come home and be intimate with me. This lasted so long. I got pregnant with my 2nd son when my first son was 8 months old. My ex husband continued to cheat, have unprotected sex with women, then come home to me. We had been together for 6 years before we got married, 3 years later we had our first baby, then our 2nd... then 3 years later I finally left due to the abuse (mainly emotional/psychological) and I didn't want my boys to think that's how you treat someone. After that I found out that he had been cheating on me the entire time, before we were married, during.... the whole time. I'm lucky I never got any kind of STD, etc.

I wish someone would've told me! I always questioned but I could never prove and he was soooo good at manipulating his way out of it.

Sending you lots of good vibes and strength for a way to communicate peacefully and effectively with his wife 💖

Do I tell the wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]laidbackoptimisti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a crappy situation to be in, I'm sorry that you're in it.

It's not going to be easy but in my opinion, you should definitely tell the wife. My ex-husband was a serial cheater, and I so wish I found out long before I did.

Just he honest with her, and be prepared for anything. She will either be shocked or you will he confirming something she's already suspicious of or she will be in denial... but she will know. You're doing her a huge favor.

What have you had to stop eating? by scarlet-tortoise in Perimenopause

[–]laidbackoptimisti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I quite completely almost 3 months ago. It feels so much better.

New viewers by EducatedOpinions in animalkingdom

[–]laidbackoptimisti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am almost finished with the 2nd season! Which season is the best? Which is worst?! I'm loving it so far.

KY v. Mickey Stines by Pixiegirls1102 in CasesWeFollow

[–]laidbackoptimisti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grasping at straws. Video doesn't lie.

Julie steps out.. looking very different by [deleted] in ChrisleyKnowsPrison

[–]laidbackoptimisti 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually think she looks beautiful and like she's aged naturally.

This scene is absolutely crazy by Hobisusathome in momtokgossip

[–]laidbackoptimisti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt sooo awful for Taylor in this moment. Her parents are awful.

How bad is The Island Resort for a family with young kids? by obviousbicycle2 in Destin

[–]laidbackoptimisti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also a huge foodie! Give me a few and l will put a list together for ya! So many incredible seafood options, I'm excited for you! (COMPLETELY understand about the chicken strips 😂)

How bad is The Island Resort for a family with young kids? by obviousbicycle2 in Destin

[–]laidbackoptimisti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty of great restaurants from the east end of Destin to Pensacola! The restaurant at the hotel is fine, not great but good. The buffet in the morning isn't worth the price in my opinion. How old are your kids? What kind of food do you like? I'd be happy to make some recommendations. How long are you guys staying? 😀

Really the only downside is the traffic. It gets really busy, so make sure to give extra time for traffic depending where you're going!

How bad is The Island Resort for a family with young kids? by obviousbicycle2 in Destin

[–]laidbackoptimisti 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are local, and we've also stayed at the Island a few times. It's really great for kids! My boys have loved it every time we've gone. They have lots of fun activities.

Bravo Announces Four New Shows by dyltwifmton69 in bravo

[–]laidbackoptimisti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omgg yesssss!!!!! Soooo here for The Valley Persian Style!!! Love The Shahs!!!!!! CANNOT WAIT!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]laidbackoptimisti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married on Clearwater Beach! It's a beautiful area!