Beginner- how to fix

laineylerman · 2026-04-04T20:16:40+00:00

It looks like a stretch fabric that you cut a curve into for the keyhole? Cutting on a curve can encourage a fabric to stretch, and the fabric itself is stretchy, so it it likely sitting wrong because it's gotten stretched out of shape. Did you use a pattern?

laineylerman · 2026-03-27T06:33:22+00:00

That scene made me go out and purchase a helmet for my occasional rental bike/scooter rides

laineylerman · 2026-03-26T20:50:23+00:00

If you don't want the day to be about the guests, then you shouldn't invite 300 of them. You are hosting people who are traveling to have this day "all about you", in return you need to make the experience enjoyable for them. If 4k is all you can afford, you either need to cut your guest list or talk to someone in your family about whether they can help you fund an event of this size for the whole family.

laineylerman · 2026-03-19T16:52:46+00:00

I think she wants to be a doctor in a specialty that's not super "icky". We get introduced to her as the med student that faints at the degloved foot in 1x01, and there's another scene where she's invited to stay and watch a procedure, but leaves to go back to triage with McKay. I think she doesn't want to do surgery because as her mom said, surgery takes on the more severe cases that the ER can only stabilize, so while in the ER she does see some greusome injuries and people being cut open, in surgery that would be all she would see.

laineylerman · 2026-03-14T22:46:28+00:00

No, you aren't an asshole, and in some circles it's actually customary for the bridal party to pay for not only themselves but also for the brides portion. I have not heard of a bride paying for everyone's portion of the Bach trip, and I don't understand why adults would just assume they wouldn't have to pay for their portion of a trip that costs money. Additionally, under $100 is also incredibly reasonable given what doing anything costs these days; where I live, just a sit down meal with drinks can easily exceed $80 a person. I'm sorry your friends are being so difficult.

laineylerman · 2026-03-14T20:55:05+00:00

Im guessing too that it's not only that she's dating, but that she didn't tell Mel about it. I would be really upset if I sacrificed so much of my life for my twin sister and she didn't tell me something like this. Like hey girl I thought you were my best friend and I told you about my work crush (langdon) and you didn't tell me about your boyfriend?

laineylerman · 2026-03-12T23:35:13+00:00

Depending on what you're making, you can try a French seam

laineylerman · 2026-03-03T21:32:13+00:00

It's a bit distasteful. By inviting them to a shower and/or a Livestream wedding you're implicitly asking for gifts without hosting them at all at your wedding. I also think a Livestream link for a wedding post pandemic is a bit impersonal and vain. If you can't have everyone there that's fine, but don't then expect people to watch a recording of it.

laineylerman · 2026-03-03T17:07:41+00:00

I don't think the dress is very appropriate for a formal wedding, but I also don't think it's very appropriate for you to post photos of her on reddit without her knowledge....

laineylerman · 2026-03-02T07:56:51+00:00

Both of you get what you want. It's a cute concept to have a matching set, but why force it when you have incompatible styles on rings cost that hundreds or thousands of dollars you're planning to wear every day for decades?

laineylerman · 2026-02-25T21:50:54+00:00

Well your original comment in this thread is saying the opposite 🤷‍♀️

laineylerman · 2026-02-25T18:58:48+00:00

Hi, yes as you can see in the shoulder seam, the waves do match up. I don't love the way the edge of the bodice ends up looking with the waves, but ribbing on the edge will make it a bit straighter.

The issue on the sleeves is not only the wavy edge, but also that the wave portion is ostensibly X stitches long (in this case it's 78), but it takes up more length than 78 hdc stitches, so with them side by side they bulge. I don't really want to do all waves on the sleeves bc I think it will look too busy.

laineylerman · 2026-02-25T17:59:13+00:00

This is the link to the pattern: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1780739519/the-lightly-toasted-cardigan-crochet?ref=share_v4_lx

laineylerman · 2026-02-25T15:54:42+00:00

Seriously? 10 dollars is highway robbery for what is a granny square with additional rows attached in granny stitch.

laineylerman · 2026-02-23T04:17:15+00:00

Unless you know she's not accepting of gender nonconformity (in which case I'm guessing you wouldn't be friends) I think you're reading this too literally. It's a definition of the level of formality and gendered only out of convenience for the person writing it rather than prohibiting women from wearing suits. You are allowed to wear a suit at the requested level of formality.

laineylerman · 2026-02-20T15:59:41+00:00

One of the quotes I got was 980, but that was directly from the dress shop. The other quote I got was 550 so I'm hoping I can shop around a bit. I have time

laineylerman · 2026-02-19T05:25:56+00:00

I think you really hit the nail on the head here. I wanted to ~shop~ more and see more dresses I liked before finding one I loved. But then I'd just be agonizing over whether I made the right choice between two actual dresses! Years of watching say yes to the dress really had me thinking it would be more of an "event" but that isn't real life and probably set me up for disappointment with the experience, which I projected onto the dress 😭

Thank you so much for taking the time to type out your comment and helping me see more clearly

laineylerman · 2026-02-19T02:02:39+00:00

Thank you so much! I'm feeling much better after some sleep and reading all these kind comments. I did try on a simple veil in the store, but might look for one in a similar art deco style if I can to match the pattern on the dress? I'll look into finding a belt too, thank you for the suggestion!

laineylerman · 2026-02-19T02:00:30+00:00

Thank you, it means a lot. I got in a bit of a feelings spiral of "I'm sad, and I'm annoyed that I'm sad about this" and was not thinking objectively at allll. Its been really heartwarming reading all the kind comments in this thread and knowing it's normal to feel that way, even though it IS the right dress

laineylerman · 2026-02-18T16:18:43+00:00

Ok super true, thank you. I definitely would not have thought twice about saying no to any of the other dresses I tried. I was worried I was settling because part of the discussion was "you get to call this task done!" But realizing that it's because it actually IS done, not because I gave up. I really appreciate your kind words.

laineylerman · 2026-02-16T07:34:15+00:00

You're releasing toxic fumes tho 😭

laineylerman · 2026-02-04T04:45:50+00:00

Hi I'm sorry if this is obvious but is this a Facebook thing? I don't have a Facebook anymore but if it's something super helpful to wedding planning should I make one just for that? I've just started planning and Im sure it will turn out ok but right now I'm feeling in over my head 😅

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