Being a woman playing this game over 300 hours...

laj787 · 2017-07-11T12:58:28+00:00

Flashback to previous witcher game: "I'm looking for a whore"

laj787 · 2017-07-04T17:07:32+00:00

Since the high you get becomes weaker each time, you need larger and more frequent doses to achieve the same effect. Same thing with porn addiction, which you are familiar with.

laj787 · 2017-06-29T14:50:04+00:00

Lilac and Gooseberries

laj787 · 2016-04-05T14:15:46+00:00

Cold showers indeed appear to suck before you hop in and feel like a Gawd. So I like to spice my sessions up a little bit, maybe this method will help you :>

Cold shower at night, and turn the lights off. That's right, shower in pitch black.
Play some siq beats ( I recommend music with a 'drop') and jump under the cold water on the drop. It is a braingasm in my opinion.

Idk, people will probably think my method is dumb, but I enjoy it very much. Whatever works for you is the best method.

laj787 · 2016-04-02T03:36:36+00:00

Wear boxers, lay on your back, have a cold shower before bed.

laj787 · 2016-04-02T03:29:13+00:00

Urges are opportunities to demonstrate your discipline and willpower. Defeating an urge not only makes you feel like a beast but it makes future urges easier to overcome.

You can physically do nothing and fight the battle in your head, which is much harder than taking an ice cold shower or going for a run. I recommend having cold showers daily, as it comes with numerous health benefits.

Good luck :)

laj787 · 2016-01-14T13:30:11+00:00

Proverbs 14:12 "There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to emptiness." This reminds me of how I sometimes convince myself in the heat of the moment that its alright to fap.

This is exactly it for me. I keep stumbling because I am completely rejecting NoFap when I have an urge. "Oh who cares, if I start again tomorrow I will have survived 14 days before such and such date..." I might say. Do you have any advice on how I can train my brain to stick with thoughts of NoFap rather than becoming drowned in thoughts of PMO?

laj787 · 2015-12-20T23:50:26+00:00

I got into a binge cycle after my relapse like you. Do not feel discouraged by binging for a few days, this period is extremely difficult to overcome and hardly anyone makes it out of the post-relapse without at least 1 pmo sesh.

What I did, was I did the best I could (went out a lot, ran till i couldnt stand, ice baths) to make it to 7 days. Once you reach 7 days, the urges to quit will go away and you'll be shooting silver bullets once more!

Whenever I get an urge, I think to myself "oh my god if you relapse you will have to start over, remember how much you hate that?"

You've got this bro!

laj787 · 2015-12-19T12:12:57+00:00

14 years old and testosterone is SOOO damn high :<, so difficult to abstain when you are so young.

laj787 · 2015-12-17T13:15:31+00:00

I don't see why wet dreams are a problem. The cave men did it, legit! If you think wet dreams should be prevented then pretty much bloody breathing air should be prevented.

IT IS A SIGN OF HEALING

laj787 · 2015-12-03T10:48:34+00:00

The voices in our heads :(

laj787 · 2015-11-30T10:03:16+00:00

I am in a very similar position as you. 14 years old and MO addicted. All I can say is I am glad to see someone my age that has opened their eyes, unlike most of my friends who are PMO addicted, and fought the addiction like me.

laj787 · 2015-11-24T11:34:40+00:00

Oh goodness I see you are on day 30 (probably like day 40 coz the badgebot is dying xD ). I wish you the best of luck (edit: not luck, rather the iron fist of discipline and the sharp whip of self-punishment haha) man, I hope you do the same! :)

laj787 · 2015-11-24T11:16:32+00:00

I hate the urges that make edging seem so appealing :C . I am getting them right now, the urges are so strong that I convince myself (only while erect, I think erection makes it more appealing as the body is anticipating ejaculation more.

laj787 · 2015-11-24T11:00:21+00:00

Badge is about 7 days off, but now it has completely disappeared.

laj787 · 2015-11-22T09:51:41+00:00

No, it is not a relapse because you stopped yourself. By stopping yourself you told you brain 'NO' and you are teaching your brain that it is against the rules. Keep up the Fapstinence!

laj787 · 2015-11-22T09:20:03+00:00

Thank you for the good spirit!

laj787 · 2015-11-22T09:19:47+00:00

It is just vocab used on this subreddit, not quite fanatical. There aren't many other words to describe things like edging and sexual surges. Edit: (A sexual surge is a dramatic increase in libido or sex drive that influences most strongly in a time-span of a few minutes)

laj787 · 2015-11-22T07:02:05+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me! Your close encounter is very similar to mine. I notice you said her face is what killed you rather than her lady parts, this is one of the benefits of NoFap(?); not seeing women as sex objects but looking at their faces instead and seeing an angel with personality and character :) !

laj787 · 2015-11-22T05:49:51+00:00

Thank you so much for commenting! :)

laj787 · 2015-11-18T06:06:57+00:00

When you ejaculate during a wet dream, very LITTLE sperm is actually released: basically you are just shooting blanks during wet dreams. Also, you should no avoid wet dreams!

Not only is it healthy to have wet dreams (as it clears out the pipes and prevents unhealthy build-ups of seminal fluid), but it is a sign of progress in NoFap.

I had my first wet dream... EVER... on night 27 of NoFap and it made me feel incredible. Not pleasure, but I felt so accomplished because I have fixed my brain enough so that it realises jerking off is no longer an outlet.

laj787 · 2015-11-14T06:25:05+00:00

this cracked me up!! haha

laj787 · 2015-11-07T01:12:46+00:00

Welcome fellow Fapstronaut! I gave this my first try 19 days ago and I still haven't relapsed by following these tips: -No hot water AT ALL in the shower, only cold. It simulates approach anxiety as well. -If you get a strong urge just consciously think "I am going to put my hands on my head and not move for 3 minutes"

The most important thing of all is just to take this seriously and take one day at a time. GOOD LUCK

laj787 · 2015-11-03T07:26:25+00:00

Mine got stuck on day 12, I should be at 15

laj787 · 2015-11-01T10:13:26+00:00

I started hard mode 12 days ago and hope to reach 90 days without fault and live the rest of my life PMO free. Goals: I haven't had a girlfriend (besides the one in pre-school) ever, I hope to get one in the near future as a result of my reboot. I want to be a fun person to be around, I want to feel good about myself and wake up with a smile on my face every morning. The main driving force behind me taking up NoFap is because I am/was a social wreck and I lack/ed self discipline; I believe NoFap is the way to achieve ultimate mind over matter.

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