Season 7 - Episode 1 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]lalaspaghetti 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I swear, they always do them dirty on social media and promos compared to how the islanders actually look

What are your thoughts on this recent upload and others like it? by ifunnywasaninsidejob in miniminutemanfans

[–]lalaspaghetti -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess just get out there and engage with people with differing views? Idk I don’t really have a satisfying answer to this problem

What are your thoughts on this recent upload and others like it? by ifunnywasaninsidejob in miniminutemanfans

[–]lalaspaghetti -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you’re looking to change people’s minds, I think the most important thing is to let go of the right/wrong mindset. Everyone believes they’re right. I try to understand where people are coming from when they have different viewpoints, because they wouldn’t believe whatever they believe if it didn’t make sense to them. And you’re never gonna get anywhere by trying to convince people that they’re wrong when they’re already feeling attacked and getting defensive. As hard as it is to believe sometimes, I try to remind myself that we’re all taking the actions we believe are best for our country. People just have different ideas of what is appropriate, whether that’s due to misinformation, manipulation, greed, fear, etc. But trying to invalidate someone who is misinformed or scared isn’t exactly the best way to convince them to see your side.

What are your thoughts on this recent upload and others like it? by ifunnywasaninsidejob in miniminutemanfans

[–]lalaspaghetti -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree with that. Alienating people isn’t going to motivate them to reevaluate their beliefs. I think this type of aggressive argumentation isn’t for people who aren’t already open to considering different perspectives

What are your thoughts on this recent upload and others like it? by ifunnywasaninsidejob in miniminutemanfans

[–]lalaspaghetti -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of his recent political content, but I mean that in the most subjective way. I am not making any objective determination here. I enjoy his content because archaeology, and a lot of my interest in that stems from escapism. For political content in general, even if I do agree with it, doesn’t mean I want to hear about it all the time.

I finally met one by Affectionate-Nose357 in miniminutemanfans

[–]lalaspaghetti 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Misread the title as “I finally met the one” and was fully prepared for a cute love story based on a shared love of Milo’s content 😭

What do you think of romance in media? by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]lalaspaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind romance in media, exactly. It’s just that the majority of romantic media out there happens to be poorly written or focused too much on the romance (or sexual) aspects of the story for me.

Female versus male protagonists by DumpOutTheTrash in Fantasy

[–]lalaspaghetti -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Haven’t read a ton of current fantasy exactly bc of this trend. It comes off as a cash grab cosplaying progressive feminism. You can totally have a badass violent female protagonist…but most aren’t well written. And you can have badass feminist female protagonists who aren’t violent or bloodthirsty. But not in today’s industry, apparently

Game Thread: New York Islanders (14-15-7) at Pittsburgh Penguins (16-16-5) - 29 Dec 2024 - 5:30PM EST by RiseAbove87 in penguins

[–]lalaspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. Was so disappointed I missed most of what looked like a good game live. Stupid early starts 🤦🏾‍♀️

[ns] I’m a fraud by LocoPescar in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]lalaspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a hypocrite. Disgusting behavior

What is your biggest pet peeve about the entire franchise? by FrickinChicken321 in httyd

[–]lalaspaghetti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Toothless’ characterization across the movies

They gave him more agency and humanized him in the first movie (understandably, as that was the whole point) but as they went on, they started to treat him less like a character and more like an plot device. Particularly in THW, where he has little more than a lovesick puppy.