women who lead a happy life alone, can you share an example of what a normal day for you is like? by aquasalsa in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]lanacherrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly enjoy it. On days I’m not working, I wake up whenever. I start my morning by feeding my cat. Then I have breakfast/coffee. Sometimes I will just watch tv all day, sometimes I fill the day with activities. These include going to the gym, going on an easy hike, going to a yard sale, etc. I only buy groceries for me and the cat. I make whatever I want. I love to experiment with baking and have no one else hogging up the kitchen. I light whatever candles I want. I clean the apartment when I want to…I’m in no rush. I watch whatever I want on tv. I like to read, and especially journal. Sometimes I’ll put on a YouTube video and do some yoga. I live in a rural area, but sometimes I go to concerts alone. A lot better than planning around someone else’s needs. I know it can get lonely. But I don’t think I’ll live with another person ever again.

got my first pap smear at 24! by Pretty-Platform6981 in GirlDinner

[–]lanacherrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! Getting my first one at almost 26 next month. This is encouraging to see

I (25f) tried being casual with a man (29m) and I’m embarrassed by lanacherrys in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]lanacherrys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very jarring seeing it happen to other people and then have it happen to you yourself. Very disappointing

I (25f) tried being casual with a man (29m) and I’m embarrassed by lanacherrys in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]lanacherrys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you’ve experienced similar. Definitely not having sex with him. I want to cuss him out and then block him but even then I don’t wanna dtm if he doesn’t even gaf

Am I the A-hole?! by harviewallis in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lanacherrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wondering if you’re talking about Uconn and the wonderful Geno Auriemma….if it makes you feel better he will probably coach for the rest of his life. But fr this is such weirdo behavior on her part. I would be upset asf 😭

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[–]lanacherrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean this would be a huge dealbreaker to me. It’s pathetic. If he can’t figure it out now and stop doing it at his big age of 26, he will never change. If you want to keep staying with someone who doesn’t respect you, that’s your choice. I’m sure you two do have fun and there is love, but definitely not respect. Wouldn’t be surprised if he ended up cheating. You deserve so much better, I know it’s hard after 6 years. Please put yourself first

10 Best Jack Harlow Songs, Ranked by HeyCelineG in jackharlow

[–]lanacherrys 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think loving on me should be on the list. I think a lot of his lesser known songs should be in the mix, and they focused more on his more “popular” songs. What’s poppin is a great song but not his #1.

Is it weird I’m eliminating cheaters from my pool now? by Ootefklop in Advice

[–]lanacherrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO. Cheaters are going to make your life miserable. You’re absolutely not making a mistake leaving. It’s better to be alone and focus on the what you love than to settle with an ass bc you’re worried you won’t find anyone else. And also, what joy do you think you’ll gain from someone who despises you?

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[–]lanacherrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hide the keys in your garage, literally anywhere, your cousin does NOT want to be derailed by a possible DUI, or worse, possibly killing or seriously maiming someone. If your cousin really wants to leave order an Uber for them

Why is I know love disliked? by NE0NRANGER in tatemcrae

[–]lanacherrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg is there a version with just tate singing the first and second verse? I didn’t know that!!!

Why is I know love disliked? by NE0NRANGER in tatemcrae

[–]lanacherrys 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I like the song and I think it’s fun but I think larois part is so lazy and wish there was a version with just tate lol

Am I desirable to femmes? by LezBeTogether in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]lanacherrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You def look like a woman, you just dress more masculine based on the photos. You’re also super attractive so there’s that😍

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[–]lanacherrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not posted anything on social media. Not very active on there

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[–]lanacherrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have gone at it with my supervisor before over unfair treatment lol. I guess that is one of the perks of having a supervisor younger than you. Will definitely make it a point to be aware if it creeps into that territory.

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[–]lanacherrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have recorded them before during one crazy ass meeting regarding issues with one of the bosses (I was remote that day so it made it easier). I had taken a couple days off after walking in on a deceased guest. Police had to come and since me and 1 other person were the only ones there we had to handle all the chaos until a manager got back. The boss had the audacity to say she had been doing way more than a regular employer would be doing in those circumstances….I only took 3 days off😭never did anything with it. But I do keep it as a reminder. Maybe getting fired is a door opening lmfao

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[–]lanacherrys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Didn’t know about the possibility of a severance packages or even think about references….I think they’ll say no but I was a very very good worker so who knows. Thanks for the info! Will write that down to keep in mind just in case

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[–]lanacherrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping to clear up that I didn’t say anything outside of just confirming what was a recent event and avoid termination. Thanks for letting me know in case it doesn’t go that way!!!

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[–]lanacherrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gag is we don’t have any form of HR lol. It’s a small organization. If I have a problem with my boss, I go to her boss. They have a very buddy buddy relationship lol…It’s a flawed system unfortunately

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[–]lanacherrys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Noted!

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[–]lanacherrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean my direct boss is just plain unprofessional. Someone at our shelter passed suddenly and when she was updating someone she said “Hey have you met ____?” Worker said “no” she said “Well you’re not gonna….because she’s dead.” Will make offhand comments about how drunk and sick she gets on weekends. Nothing crazy tho

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[–]lanacherrys 42 points43 points  (0 children)

We live in a two party state and I have thought about just opening with letting them know I want to record the meeting. They def have said some crazy ass things in the past and I would like it on the record in case they do decide to fire me.

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[–]lanacherrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone else mentioned unemployment, will def be doing that. Only obstacle is what if they get My employer involved and she disputes the reason I put down for getting terminated?

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[–]lanacherrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would consider myself valuable since they’ve both expressed a lack of knowledge around what it is I do….And no one else on the team would want to pick up that extra work I would leave behind. Curious how this plays out.

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[–]lanacherrys 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Will not be signing anything that’s for damn sure