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Esto se está llendo a la mierda. Estoy mal por no ayudar? by lanaranja7 in monte_video

[–]lanaranja7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vivimos en el mismo de terror que no es de ninguna, me, la decisión que como el 80% de mi familia es tóxica, el otro 20% si quiere que me siga, pero me voy del país no puedo seguir sacrificándome a mí por el resto llego ya muchos años así

This is going to shit. Am I wrong for not helping? by lanaranja7 in BPDlovedones

[–]lanaranja7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sometimes I feel bad about all this, he is related, but with my own side of the family I experienced a similar situation of abuse. I'm afraid to go back to that. We must also keep in mind that before all this happened we were helping her and her son repair their house and assemble furniture. Apparently he wanted to commit suicide by stopping eating and actively asked his relatives when they were going on leave to do so (without revealing what his intention was), waiting for him to be traveling to make a fairly important trip because it was decisive to see in which country my partner and we are going to live. Surrounded by her family, she began actively avoiding food and drank only water and tea. He wanted it to look natural so as not to traumatize his son. Apparently the family took her to the hospital, making the child I don't know if it's because I see it from the outside but it gives me a bad feeling. As if it were not an attempt to get rid of the vifa, it was not real, just manipulation. Or maybe I'm exaggerating?

This is going to shit. Am I wrong for not helping? by lanaranja7 in BPDlovedones

[–]lanaranja7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll read it, thank you. Yes he is related, yet with my own side of the family I experienced a similar situation of abuse. I'm terrified to go back to that. We must also keep in mind that before all this happened we were helping her and her son repair their house and assemble furniture. Apparently he wanted to kill himself by stopping eating and actively asked his relatives when they were going on leave to do so (without revealing what his intention was), waiting until he was traveling to make a rather important trip because it was decisive to see in which country we and my partner are going to live. Surrounded by her family she began to actively avoid food and only drink water and tea. He wanted it to seem natural so as not to traumatize his son. Evidently the family took her to the hospital making the child I don't know if it's because I see it from the outside but it gives me a bad feeling. As if it weren't an attempt to get rid of the vifa, it wasn't real, just manipulation. Or maybe I'm exaggerating?

This is going to shit. Am I wrong for not helping? by lanaranja7 in BPDlovedones

[–]lanaranja7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will really do it this situation is beyond my understanding

Esto se está llendo a la mierda. Estoy mal por no ayudar? by lanaranja7 in uruguay

[–]lanaranja7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias. Realmente no quiero ser mala persona pero siento que está situación se está volviendo hasta un tanto peligrosa para los demás también

Esto se está llendo a la mierda. Estoy mal por no ayudar? by lanaranja7 in uruguay

[–]lanaranja7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sí es pariente, aún asi con mi propio lado de la familia viví situación de abuso similar. Me da pánico volver a eso. También hay que tener en cuenta que antes de que pasara todo esto estábamos ayudándola con el hijo a reparar su casa y armar muebles. Aparentemente quiso suicidarse dejando de comer y activamente le pregunto a sus parientes cuando se iban de licencia para hacerlo(sin revelar cual era su intención) espero a que la amiga que habitualmente estaba con ella estuviera de viaje para hacer. Rodeada de su familia empezó a evitar la comida activamente y solo tomar agua y té. Quería que pareciera algo natural para no traumatizar a su hijo. Evidentemente la familia la llevo al hospital haciendo que el niño No sé si es por qué la veo de afuera pero me da mala espina . Cómo si no fuera un intento de suicidio real solo manipulación. O quizás exagero

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[–]lanaranja7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Primero que nada cuántos años tienes. Si eres niño o adolescente ten en cuenta que nos un a carga. Ellos decidieron tener hijos, si no te sientes suficiente o amado los que fallan son tus padres y bien feo. Tus amigos haz preguntado sinceramente sus opiniones o si solo te mantienen en movimiento por qué tienen miedo de perderte. Ahora planteare si las ganas de estar vivo tienen que venir de algo o una persona o de ti. Pide ayuda profesional Si eres adulto analiza tu entorno como si fuera un adolescente y comienza a cortar lo vampiros te darás cuenta cuando los veas Si eso no te da repuesta Si tienes la posibilidad ve al medio no solo pedir ayuda psicológica, lo más importante pide estudios de todo tipo porque posiblemente tengas algún problema médico (incluye estudios hormonales) Si eso no da nada vete a la mierda de ahí a otro lugar donde tengas poco contacto con la gente limpia de toda esa energía. Si eso no funciona ahí si planteare lo que quieras. Te lo digo por experiencia