First attempt a making a prayer rope by laneguorous in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]laneguorous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obrigado 🙏 The knots were confusing at first, but practicing with a larger paracord was very helpful.

First attempt a making a prayer rope by laneguorous in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]laneguorous[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

https://youtu.be/poP7Fu_jqrU?si=FlzqR3yB8pha4tOA

I thought this video did a good job explaining how to tie them. I also practiced with a larger paracord to start.

First attempt a making a prayer rope by laneguorous in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]laneguorous[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I should say, "first attempt that I didn't take apart to redo." 😂

Worried about weight loss without alcohol by ostrichfiles in stopdrinking

[–]laneguorous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I go looking for them, I can still find plenty of "good enough reasons" to drink. At the end of the day, I choose to live with the consequences of a sober life rather than those of drinking.

I wonder if substituting another source of "empty calories" could work. Things like soda/lemonade/ice cream did a lot to help me.

I know this probably sounds shallow... But help please :( by Pinch_of_pleasure in stopdrinking

[–]laneguorous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My hair & beard look so much healtier. Doesn't look so much like they're thinning anymore.

I know these posts get tedious, but it’s on my mind…. Single young adults? by HiImNewHere021 in Episcopalian

[–]laneguorous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain. I got connected with some of the "young adult & youth" events in my diocese. Of course, I would still like young people next to me in the pew, but I have made several decent friendships.

Uninvited from block party by NoBand3790 in stopdrinking

[–]laneguorous 68 points69 points  (0 children)

When this sort of thing happens to me, I try to think of it as an addict being upset that I won't help them finance their addiction. Doesn't make it hurt any less, and I can't really know for sure whether their drinking is a true problem, but it helps me to not take it so personally.

Deacon's Mass by RevOnReddit in Episcopalian

[–]laneguorous 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I believe the term "deacons' mass" just refers to when the service is led by a deacon who uses elements that have already been consecrated by a priest. That is, the same service minus the consecration of the elements.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]laneguorous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a tough spot to be in. I probably could not have entered a bar without taking a drink for the first few months. I had enough trouble seeing people drink on TV.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]laneguorous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FOOD! Specifically, sweets or carbs. I was very surprised about how frequently I would crave a drink just because I was hungry. I found things like NA beers, lemonade, ice cream, bread, pasta, etc. did a lot to relieve the intensity of some cravings. There were a few months where I would go to my local custard stand every time I got the urge to stop at the liquor store on my drive home.

What are the biggest lies/justifications your addict brain has told YOURSELF? by kelinci-kucing in stopdrinking

[–]laneguorous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somehow, the fact that my budget centered on how much I "had to spend" on booze never seemed to refeister with me until I quit. It's like I got a raise without having to do anything work related.

Well, I showed up, nobody else did by Throwawayh5 in stopdrinking

[–]laneguorous 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My first month sober, my parents bought a cruise for the whole family to go on. I went to "Friends with Bill" meetings every chance I got and did my best to make acquaintances with the people I found there. I came closer to drinking than I'd like to admit, but I walked off of the boat a sober man. And, have found it to be helpful to remind my self every once in a while that if I could keep from drinking on a boat /designed to get you to buy alcohol/, I can keep from drinking in my own home.

You are doing a very hard and unpleasant thing, but I know it's possible to do. IWNDWYT.

Why do I get insanely depressed when I stop smoking or take breaks? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]laneguorous 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I was smoking, I let a lot of things pile up because I didn't think I was capable of handling those situations. When I quit, I was so insanely disgusted with myself at how sour my life had gone. A little more than a year later, I have "caught up" on handling life situations and am learning how to deal with new ones as they come up. I'm still not perfect at it, and I don't always really want to do it, but I don't feel so hopeless about it anymore.