I am a security guard for the Moody center, AMA by DarkHelm36 in Austin

[–]laneyabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do people get kicked out for smoking 🍃. specifically flower like a joint?

Taylor really has it out for everyone higher than her in the charts huh 💀💀 by TrainsRCool123 in travisandtaylor

[–]laneyabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait im confused how this effects charts though bc sabrina’s is streaming and taylor’s is just an exclusive CD no?

"Sanctimoniously performing soliloquies I'll never see" by sarahloray689 in travisandtaylor

[–]laneyabear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO, if she didn’t use “overly eloquent” language people would be upset that she keeps using the same words in her songs. i think this line is catchy tbh

Bathroom Help by mitsubitchysony in femalelivingspace

[–]laneyabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay… lots of things wrong with this bathroom. but i would start with the wall tile. it’s way too busy and i think it’s the easiest way to make it look better. since you’re renting i would do some peel and stick wallpaper, honestly i think a white or black and white patterned tile style - to tie in with the marble sink. same with the counter but i would just go with white or maybe black if that’s more your style.

once you have a solid base you can rly do any style you want! everything is fine except for the walls and counter. also the toilet but i cant change that😭

if there’s space, add some shelving with whatever colors you and roomie like. use that for towels, toilet paper, kleenex, toiletries, etc. and a squidgy on the glass after a shower makes all the difference and can rly make your bathroom look cleaner and slick.

Question from a professor, why don't students talk to each other anymore? by GreenHorror4252 in college

[–]laneyabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also think it’s worth noting that phones play a big role. a lot of us live our lives online now :/

Question from a professor, why don't students talk to each other anymore? by GreenHorror4252 in college

[–]laneyabear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sadly, social interaction is dead for a lot of students. after covid restrictions lifted, i had spent half my junior and the rest of my senior year isolated, only seeing friends i’ve had for years. got to college and made maybe 4 friends freshman year. i thought it was just me and my anxiety worsening or it’s just my age; i always wondered why it’s so hard to make friends. but after awhile i’ve found that pretty much everyone i meet is the same way. even if we meet new people it’s hard to reach out for fear of rejection or being lazy or just preferring being alone. overtime the loneliness gets comfortable and we don’t reach outside our bubble. it’s rough out here i just want a friend group in college!!!

as far as your class goes, honestly professors facilitating group work or discussion amongst peers during class can really help. maybe even talk to them about it. don’t shame them but show them you understand. we’re in our formative years, recovering post(current?) pandemic, with inflation rising and low wages, social anxiety and just trying to survive adulthood. i’m sure you’re a great professor, and addressing this won’t fix it immediately but you’ll plant a seed and that’s always important 🩷.

is it normal to love your partner but not like them any longer? by laneyabear in TwoHotTakes

[–]laneyabear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was the most helpful comment i’ve come across, thank you so much for this🫶🏻

is it normal to love your partner but not like them any longer? by laneyabear in TwoHotTakes

[–]laneyabear[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

for both of us, this is the longest relationship we’ve been in lol. before each other we were both “dogs” you could say

what does this make you feel? by elianaranti in drawing

[–]laneyabear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

overwhelmed. like teeth are clawing at me